When watching porn it’s a act that’s a turn on or actress/actor?

Please be honest specially guys. I don’t watch porn but in movies or dramas where there’s some scenes it sure is turn on isn’t it? But for me it’s just a act and I have nothing to do with that actor, even if I find that actor not so good looking, whether he is good looking or not it’s only that act make me feel something, you know what I mean? ... well if I am in relationship I imagine what if my guy does that and when I am single it still not necessary I am imagining that actor neither I want to be at that girls place but it’s just a act that make me feel something... is it with everyone? Specially those in relationship, please answer honestly, it’s just a act or you actually imagine people involve in act too?
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If boys here not lying which I don’t think they are because I understand, it’s just a visual act so I don’t think it’s cheating? But as a girl also I understand a girl might be insecure something about her body so she might feel inferior to those girls in movies or porn or whatever... well it sure depends on relationship though isn’t it
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  • You have raised two questions/points: first is about performance or actress/actor, and second relates to girls' insecurities.
    I watch porn but my eyes and mind concentrate to"performance". If it is greatly sensual and erotic, and also humane, I don't care who is the performer, black, white, brown, tall, short, ugly, good-looking and so on. For me, performance is the most turning on.
    Now about insecurity in girls' mind, if her partner focuses his eyes on body of actress, talks about her figures, it certainly concerns his partner who feels that the guy prefers (and might be fantasizing) that actress. Here I must say that guy is responsible for rift, if any, between the two. He should enjoy performance only without caring for body of actress.
    I watch porn with my girl. We discuss "performance", though occasionally body parts of characters also come under discussion but it relates to performance. We watch, have sex and forget.

    • Thanks for MHG.

  • Yes I know exactly what you mean I can play that act in mind with different characters such as you and I. I don't watch porn butvi love scene in a movie is what I mean.

    • Yea for me it’s my crush or my boyfriend or sometimes just a visual and nothing else 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • Mmmmm

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  • As far as I'm concerned, it's just the act, and the visuals.

    I couldn't care less about the girl depicted in the scene, beyond whether she has a vsually appealing body. It could literally be any girl, in that case.

    • Yea that’s what I am saying it’s just a act nothing to do with a girl isn’t it? ... but at that moment do you imagine yourself in act? Or just a visual? As I said I don’t imagine myself at her place it’s just act or visual that’s all

    • No, it has nothing to do with the girl, and I don't imagine myself in the guy's place, at all.

  • I would say when I turn on a porm 45 out of 50 of them I will watch because you're so fake it's not about the actress or the actor about how real it is it's about when I look into her eyes I can feel that she's enjoying it it's just being real the first time I hear fake p*** moan I change it the first sign of any kind of fakeness I change it if it looks real and they're making it real and I watch it I mean it's the same way with having sex why would I touch the girl fake I want her to feel it I want her to feel my energy just rush through her everything I do or say and I want to be real as I'm doing it it has to be real or otherwise it's just no good

  • For me it is mostly about how well the girl can be sexy, by moaning, been seductive. So well yeah the better the she can do it, more it's about her talent. Like in movies too sex scenes the women acting seductive is what turns me on. But again better the actress more seductive. So i would say it's actually more the actress.

  • It's essentially living out a fantasy vicariously. for me. I'm never thinking about the women on the screen/ Some of them are attractive, but I don't care about them. There is no porn star I'd take over the women I've met in my life.

    • Yea right it’s just a visual or act... but do you at that moment do you want to be at his place or it’s just visual nothing else? Ykwim?

    • Like I said, some of them I find attractive, and I'm single, so sure. Only the ones that I find attractive. But that's not what I think about. Would I rather do it with women I actually know? For sure. So it's visual and mental. Not thinking about them.

    • women are very insecure about their bodies, so it makes sense. In my case, if I'm upset with my partner's body, I wouldn't watch porn to fix it. I'd talk to her about it.

  • It's the act. I can watch porn where the actress is not attractive to me and still be turned on seeing the actor go down on her or have sex with her. It makes me want to do the same thing, but to my girlfriend not to the actress.

  • It's definitely the act for me. I'm not attracted to 99% of the pornstars I've masturbated to and some were ugly af but the act was hot and so I masturbated to it.

  • The thing is turn you on is just act nothing is related to actor Or actress in porn that intimate scene is main thing which we turn on and sound also palys most important role. If you ever saw porn without sound then you may be not turn on so the sound is also important

  • how do you know what to imagine if you don't watch it?

    • 🙄🤔

  • I’m sure guys get obsessed with porn stars. Obvi I have to be attracted to the girl to watch a porn clip. Some I scroll past.

  • Oh...
    "Denial, denial..."

    Yes, the act and demeanor of the actress counts a lot like with your "non-porn".
    Mostly the demeanor. Nothing turns straight men on like a turned on woman having fun.

  • I'm turned on by the act and how women n men play off each other

  • Some acts some actress but when they're combined then it is just WOW

  • A little of both. Usually act, but sometimes the body is enough