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Why is it that men who domestically abuse women always get pussy while men who do not may never get unless being a provider?

Just find this kind of weird when it comes to women behavior. Men who engage in domestic abuse always seem to land another woman. While some good men who never engage in that behavior and would make good husbands/fathers may find themselves without love interest for years and often only get a chance when a woman is on the wrong side of 30 and looking for a provider.[Warmachine beats his girlfriend to within an inch of her life. Ends up getting married to another woman within 2 years while in prison]

Why do women get attracted to abusers (whether mental or physical) who have a high chance of killing them?
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  • Because when you boil it down, we're just another species of ape. And that thing we call 'Stockholm Syndrome"? We observe the same thing in all species of ape, becoming increasingly prominent the larger that the species' males' genitalia are relative to their body size- with this also correlating to their females' tendency towards hypergamy, as opposed to monogamous pair-bonding. Human males have the largest genitalia relative to our body mass of any primates, with chimps coming a close second; human females are proven to have the greatest tendency towards hypergamy, and the greatest drop-off in dopamine levels released when in a committed sexual relationship with a single partner. In these species, where the sexual chemistry required to induce monogamous commitment and 'love' via intercourse and affection no longer works, what we now call 'Stockholm Syndrome' effectively evolved to take its place. Human women, to an even greater extent than female chimps, and a far greater extent than any other primates, have an innate biologically-driven sexual preference towards dominant males, and being made to submit by force; that's what turns the overwhelming majority of them on more than anything else. And they have the least sexual inclination towards affection, intimacy, and 'nice guys' who 'treat them right' than any other primates' females.

    That's the reason why. And that's also the reason why, in any human society, the more 'herbivorous' and unassertive that men get, and more obsessed with providing women with money, stability and social security, the lower and lower the frequency of sexual intercourse gets, and the lower that fertility rates get. Human females are literally more sexually receptive, and fertile, when they're being domestically abused- it's scientifically proven that their cervixes open up and descend to receive our sperm, and their vaginas tighten up to milk it out, in response to PAIN, not pleasure. Look at the list of total fertility rates of every nation on earth right now, in order; and you'll find that for the most part, it doesn't correspond with wealth per capita, but with the levels of male sexual dominance (at the top) and sexual submissiveness (at the bottom) in the general population. That's the REAL root cause of the impending population crisis, with the average TFR across literally the entirety of Europe, North America and East Asia's fertility rates now having fallen below that of late 90's Japan. It's just the way our species' reproductive drive works; egalitarian 'gender-equality' idealism can't change that.

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  • This is a gross generalization oftentimes referred to as a Toxic nice guy statement. Some of the most abusive and controlling men are "Nice guys" until they get a woman and start getting insecure about the relationship and worrying that she's cheating on or is about to leave him. Women are attracted to certain archetypes and passivity is a turn off to most. Confidence or the appearance of are not bad boy things. Most bad boys are actually quite insecure, that's why women over 30 who have learned this start lookingv elsewhere.

    • Lmao okay virgin.

    • You have no clue what you're talking about. You're just some theorist.

    • @TrainingDay Whatever helps you sleep at night junior.

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  • That’s kind of like asking why gazelles get eaten more by lions than by zebras🤷‍♀️. Those guys are hunters.. they seek out prey that they know they can slay.

    • And you chicks love that type.. That’s the Truth...

    • @JamieLoves it’s kinda like why do guys who can, go for bimbo looking girls 🤷‍♀️. I never get that.

    • Lots of guys love dumb slutty looking women. I’m not one of them..

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I don't consider it getting women. I consider it rape.

  • He's dominant. Not that I'm defending it, I'm simply saying many women tend to like dominant men. And unfortunately a subsection of dominant men also happen to be abusive people.

  • Because women really like aggressive and dominant men cos they find them more masculine. And ofc an aggressive man sometimes turns his aggression on them.

  • Women want a man who's not afraid to take whats his

  • Trash people attracted to other trash people...

    Many men and women are not that trash. Stop thinking about it and surround yourself with quality people that are matched to your level.

  • I don’t usually answer Anonymous questions, but I have your answer and it might help some guys out..

    Chicks don’t like guys that are nice!
    They only want guys that they can’t have.
    Also, they love bad guys.. Mean nasty and especially guys that have been in prison.
    it’s a challenge to them. People in general want whatever they can’t have.

    So don’t treat a chick nicely. They’ll take you for granted and walk all over you.

    Do you understand now?

  • Many women are attracted to "alpha" men. Most women want to feel safe with the man they are with and feel safer with strong, confident men. Unfortunately, many of the traits that make a strong man are shared by assholes and abusers.

  • You forgot the fact that Warmachine is a bad boy with lots of money.

  • Providers don't get either.

    • Thanjs training!

    • Thanks *

  • Women are attracted to these monsters

  • People think it is the good guys who don't get the girl but they aren't the good guys. They are just average. The guys who are doing things in life are the ones that get the girls. If a girl wants a bad guy then she is a bad girl. We never reverse this shit on them. There are bad girls too. They are awful. Don't let their cute looks fool you.

  • Women want to be hurt. They like flirting with suicide

    Safe guys are for when they have kids or over 30.
    You usually are well off or stable. But lack the physical attraction as well as danger.

  • Join the nfl and be black

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