Guys, WHY MEN TELL ME WHY! PLEASE EXPLAIN?
If a girl says she hurt upset heartbroken
She doesn't want to hear something like "Let's have sex!" If the girls says we need a break lets just stop for now... The next time the man calls her She doesn't want to hear hey babe lets get naked, or do you want to watch me get off or do you want to shower with me or anything sexual! If she tells a man she's angry at him or feels hurt by him She doesn't want to hear something like "I masturbated to you. Gosh you're so f'king hot I came real hard!" When she asks the man why he's saying things like that she doesn't want to hear something like "You're angry cuz I'm turned on by you?" No we are asking because we are legitimately trying not to get angrier at the guy and trying our hardest to understand him... When girls are angry at a man for the most part we don't want anything sexual from them not because its a power play as some men may think but because we are hurting emotionally! Making sexual comments when we are hurt or mad just gets us more mad! It makes us feel like we are not being listen to and not taken seriously. It feels like our needs and our emotions are being dismissed. It makes us feel like the man is only with us for the sex and not because he cares. We don't want to hear sexual references or be asked or offered sexual favors! What we want is the man to fix what is hurting us. We want the man to speak to us and listen. We want an apology promises and actions to repair the relationship and that does not evolve sex! APOLOGIZE FLOWERS SONNETS ROMANTIC SONGS anything but sex or sexual references! This is a girls point of view... From a girls mind and aching heart...
Now MEN please help me understand! What is a mans reasoning! Clearly there is a disconnect. what are we women missing here? And why do SOME men not understand even when we are saying thats not what we want or need right now?
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