Are guys intimidated by milfs and cougars?

[purplepoppy]

I'm lumping milfs and cougars together for simplicity.
On many a night out I see "older" women on the look out for sex. It is clear from both their attire and behaviour that there on a knobhunt. But I also see many young men, who despite claiming they can't get sex, make no attempt to approach these women. Worse still they look very uncomfortable when one of these cougars flirts with him.
I know some of these women are well past their sell by date but a lot are still doable and surely easy sex shouldn't be turned down, beggars can't be choosers.

[razelove]

Not a single bit. There is a twilight zone close to there that must be avoided at all costs though. The single mid 30's woman who wants kids. You put that condom in your pocket, not the trash when you realize the predicament you're in, and check those exits, head on a swivel.

I always figured they were a solid back-up plan, like if I'm striking out, put those whiskey goggles on and get to getting. Two times of waking up from a black-out in a bed with a strange woman who was just a little too desperate for affection and unprotected sex scared me off that path, though not because of the milfs and cougars. The fear of landing someone I want to sleep with that wants to become a mom, and I'm the vehicle for that while wanting NSA on my end.

Jumping out of a window or moving vehicle is completely acceptable to escape that situation. Shit just turned from the erotic to an action/horror movie. I'm getting scared thinking about it. I blacked out, so what did happen? Damned sword of Damocles hanging there. Shit, many more now that I'm thinking about it. Ignorance is bliss, so I'll just stop thinking and problem solved.

[Lliam]

Cougars and MILFs are different animals, but I take your point. Even though they are past their 25 year old prime, I've seen some that are hot af and probably know a thing or two about pleasuring a man. So I, like you, am confused by why a horny guy with no other prospects wouldn't jump at a chance to get freaky with a cock worshiping, 100% wOmAn.
I suspect guys like that who aren't getting any are too inhibited and lacking in self confidence to think they could satisfy a woman. Mousey young virgins are more their style.

[Ditto626]

If an older woman wanted to use me as her boytoy I'd totally go for it. But that's the thing though, not all of us are trophies so they might not want us.

[Leavesbound]

My best relationship happened when I was 19 and she was 43. She permitted me the exquisite privilege of being her sex slave for over a year. She taught me a lot of fun things.

[normalice]

It could be intimidation but really I think it's more to do with the realism. Young people tend to still have a bit of a "cartoonish" outlook on life and on each other. And in cartoons older people aren't really part of the world. Its like if a meteor fell to the earth, less than half of guys will try to have sex with it.

[Kaneki05]

Above 50 would bother me unless they legit look like Elvira or something. But for 40s? not at all.

[Avicenna]

Nope, they just don't know how to approacj women in general

[snackthatsmilesback]

Intimidation isn't a turn-off.

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Never have I been

[BentAssassin99]

Yes and no for me ngl

[Angelo75]

oh on the contrary.
In my particular case I used to get turned on for cougar/milfs.

[Browneye57]

No guy worth his salt is intimidated by ANY woman for anything. Well, unless she's literally going to kick his ass. Old ladies are not intimating for anyone.

[Riddler1412]

No. Not intimidated. Just, kinda, curious. They do have a lot to teach me. 😁

[havingfun101]

Men aren't intimidated by women, as women are weak, dumber and less just. Your psychological projection hides the real answer: we don't marry these hoes.

[user2345354]

No, it's because of that age have saggy faces and they have to drive really fast before they forget where they are going plus they get worn out and bruises when you slam them in the butt.

[Iron_Man]

NO I just dont like them at all. Old women are mean and controlling and set in their ways. They lie just as much as anyone else I have discovered this in the past two years

[loveslongnails]

The young men who claim they can't get sex and still hoping to land a girl in their own age group. They haven't figured out, or accepted yet, that they're undesirable. They're probably out in a pack or group, and they don't want to look desperate by approaching someone old enough to be their mom, even if she IS hot. Nor will they respond favorably to a cougar's come on if they're in a group and she singles one out. However, I'd wager that if 2 or 3 hot cougars approached 2 or 3 guys, there might be come group acceptance.

[NorthwestRider]

Nah, I find women with $$$ sexy

[William2198]

No. I like them personally.

[Pogi-Paddy]

No interest in cougars for me, MILF's on the other hand I am all for.🌹

[AydenHazor]

Not at all intimidated

[Tunasub]

Not this guy! Let me tame those wild cats and milfies... deep in my heart I talk shit👇🏾 that's really how I would be... with that said... bring in the😸
There is a difference between being overwhelmed, but giving the dick a pep talk and rockn on and being a punk bitch..😂🤣😂🤣