I have never really thought about that. 🤔. In Japan, there are a lot of women who stay at home while their husbands or boyfriends work very long hours and then hang out with their coworkers after work. That leads to a lot of sexually deprived, bored women with plenty of free time on their hands. It is a very common pastime for women in their 40's and 50's to find a much younger playmate in the 18 to 25 range... for purposes of educating him, of course. 😆. These women are cougars, but the guys look at them as milfs. There is a district of Tokyo called Harajuku where people under 30 hang out. Lots of cougars/milfs are on the prowl there! 😂. It is also common for them to go after younger women the same way. I get approached by older women a lot in that area.
Interesting 🤨. Thanks for sharing this.
You're welcome. I guess the difference is that a milf, by definition, is a mother that a younger guy is lusting after, while a cougar is a older woman who is into younger guys. 🤷
@emii_urashima That is absolutely fascinating to read and know... Thank you so much.
all I can say is that I am now 49, I'm married, the age group doesn't bother me at all, if the attraction is there and they are over consenting age, I can and maybe will have sex, please don't get me wrong, other than on two occasions the rest has a few weeks before any sexual thing occurs
so before any of you start calling me names I have been called the lot,
Iâm lost a little. Youâre a married cougar?
@weysally So would I be right in thinking that yours is an open marriage?
@EmmaMary yes your right in your thinking, we have been open now for 15 years, though from my husband and I I'm the only one that has had a one night stand on the spur of the moment,
I agree with your answer of it , when a guy notices an attractive girl but she is already married or in a committed relationship and has kids and knows he doesnât have a chance with her She is considered a MILF a MILF doesnât necessarily mean she is older than him I have seen MILFâs that were younger than me lol but he is just saying if she was available he wouldnât mind fucking her , As for a cougar , A cougar is an older girl that hunts for younger guys , Guys that are in a relationship with a girl older than him will say she is my cougar or if she only goes for younger guys she is considered a cougar , so the only difference between the words the one is about age and the other is about not being available but wouldnât mind having sex with her
Thanks for MHO
A MILF is a woman who has children and is attractive enough to want sex with.
A cougar is a woman who pursues men who are significantly younger than she is.
That is the difference as I understand it though it looks as though that is basically what you've posted so I'm not certain what you are trying to ask.
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Young guys go after the milfs, cougars hunt the young guys. Either way, high five hot mama!
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I agree with your definition, although some MILFs could be cougars and vice versa.
I think of MILFs, though, simply as attractive older women. Cougars are more predatory and have a fetish for young meat.
Cougars aren't necessarily mothers and they tend to be like 20 years older then the man.
A milf can be any age. Just has to be a mom who the guy finds sexually attractive and wants to have sex with.
I can understand that regret of having username that ee don't want now.. 😬
I don't think your user name is a mistake. You are definitely a very attractive mother! But that does not imply that you are on the prowl, hunting for a younger guy to satisfy you and to then be discarded.
A girl becomes a Milf when a mother.
but in reality itâs more when dropping off at school gates
Cougar older women that want fun
Also A MILF is a passive desirable, as in she is not looking but others looking at her. A Cougar is non passive and actively looking for others, who may not be looking lol
You have a good understanding of this
I tend to chat to a lot of Milf lol, as a single dad they tend to be easy to chat to lol.
With a milf, the guy does the pursuing. With a cougar, the woman does the pursuing.
Your description is spot on.
The term Milf applies to a wide range of women who lots of men find beautiful, pretty, attractive and sexy, who may or may not be available. And sometimes a Milf might not actually be a mom.
Hi, my name is Mr. Disbelief.. nope lol😆😆.
Different🤔.. Cougars aren't attractive but you are attractive.
Cougar: over 40, tries to sleep with younger guysMilf: just an attractive mother.
M. I. L. F. is a mom that I would like to fuck and the mom could not be into younger guys.
Cougars are older women who aren't necessarily moms and chase younger guys.
In my experience when the right prey comes along any milf will channel her inner cougar 😏
I agree I think cougars are the ones who actively look for younger men to get with whereas milfs are just hot but a married woman can be a milf, a woman whoâs not interested in any relationship can be a milf even though theyâre are not cougars and trying to get with you get men. Sometimes cougars are also not milfs cause Iâve seen ugly cougars before but milfs are always hot
Actually, you pretty much nailed it.
A MILF is an attractive woman who happens to have given birth. My mother would have been a MILF... at 19 when I was born! So, age is irrelevant to MILFdom.
However, with a cougar, I think Air New Zealand says it best:
"The Cougar: Too old to be your girlfriend; too young to be your mother."
Also, a woman can be both a cougar and a MILF.
Not really, they can be one and the same. Pornhub/Redtube/xHamster etc etc are no authority on the matter.
The "difference" is usually that the milf will be a single mom, and the cougar will be giving unwanted attention.
MILF is a mother who is attractive to all age men, but Cougar is usually interested in Younger guys.
Milfs are attractive moms simple as.
I'd say milfs are woman younger guys find attractive. Doesn't necessarily have to be literally a mother and wouldn't call a 20 year old mother milf. And yeah cougars are women who chase younger women.
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