I'm a virgin and about to get married. My fiance told me has very high libido. Will my vagina become loose if we have sex everyday?

[Briteny]

[btbc92]

Talk this out with your husband. Do not talk about this with strangers. It is nobody's personal business before they will poison it and then you have problems. This is an experience for you to discover and for you to learn. You decide to give up your virginity, then you must learn this for yourself within the confinements of your marriage with that person. Keep it that way. Because what you're asking is how people end up with problems sexually and they end up having their marriage is destroyed. Keep your mind pure! Or else you will not be able to fully enjoy marital sex the way you need to. You are entitled to a healthy sex life. Make sure you keep it that way. Any concerns you may have you need to discuss that with him or don't go through with it. Because what you married, once you lose your virginity, that's it. It is no turning back and there are no do-overs. Choose your husband wisely. If this is a problem you are free to move on no hard feelings on anybody. Do not marry somebody you are not equally yoked. If you are not equal with him sexually based on your conversations do not get married. That's my fair warning. Don't settle. You are not responsible for his sexual misery, if he is not a virgin. If he made his bed before let him lay in it. Or else he better not complain if you choose to go through with this marriage. If he blames you because he's not satisfied remember it has nothing to do with him he should have thought about that before he chose to give it up. My advice to you is to not even drive yourself too much with this. If you are uncertain with this man it is best for you to move on. Do not get married to somebody you're going to regret consummating it with. I'm telling you now. Because if he's not happy sexually that's going to affect you. You should not be adding on restriction to yourself to the point it makes you miserable. But at the same time if you are not pleasing to him that's going to be it. It doesn't have to be that way with a man who loves you. So I would really question should you really be with a man who say that he has that much of a drive. Especially if he's supposed to be a virgin himself. You better stop questioning everything from the ins and out of this man sexually before you and think about getting married to him. You better find out if he's been doing certain things with pornography, you better find out if he slept with other men because some people do that also, you better find out a lot of stuff and you may not like it. Because all he is is going to become part of you and who you are. If you don't know who you are sexually as a woman, meaning who you are as a woman, not by you having sex, touching yourself, or doing things you should not do. If you don't love yourself as a whole person from within, and if you're not truly pure, it may not be a good marriage. Anybody can be a virgin, but not every virgin is pure. Find out what it is that this man is about and why is he with you and why did he pick you up. Because I will grow weary that somebody would say something like that and yet you're a virgin and you're that concerned. Because it makes me think this man is only with you just because you're a virgin and he just wants to use you because he didn't have good experiences with other women. That's not somebody you want to marry if that's the case, let alone want to have sex with.

[btbc92]

It has nothing to do with you, it has to do with him*

[btbc92]

Start questioning*

[btbc92]

Excuse me? I highly suggest you learn to have respect for women and not to be asking these kind of questions. If you are that concerned how about you don't be involved with a person who has sex? I am a virgin. And even then I would not tell somebody like you is none of your business.

[Briteny]

I guess I overthink a lot, it has nothing to do with my fiancé. I just wanted to learn because the internet gives many different answers and it gets confusing sometimes. But you're right, I still have some things to learn about him even though I've known him for many years and I still have things to learn about myself.

[btbc92]

Marriage is about learning and growing. Stay away from the internet and people who try to poison what you have going on. You have to safeguard your marriage and it starts now when your not yet married. Because others want to get into your business so they can cause problems. You have a desire to learn it, that's what marriage is for. For both of you to learn that together. At least, that is how it is supposed to be and people have forgotten it. You sound like you want to marry for the right reasons. Just make sure it is now with the right person.

[ijr123]

why do you care if it's going to be loose or not. if you get married you have nothing to worry about. if you give birth it will be loose anyways. so, it's not a big deal, you'll get used to it.

[slatyb]

No, it doesn't work that way. If you both stay healthy and fit you can have great sex for about the next 50 years. How is your libido? Have you talked with him about expectations after marriage. "High libido" to me means sex daily, maybe twice a day. Are you happy with that? Have you talked about sexual preferences? Oral sex? Anal sex? Any kinks like bondage, etc? Since you have no experience with each other, you really need to talk about this before marriage. Also other expectations when you are sharing a household, like who will take care of cooking, cleaning, shopping, laundry, home repairs, car maintenance (if you will have one), etc. What about finances? I don't recommend running a marriage on a single joint account. You both need to have your own money that you can spend freely without discussion.

Best wishes for your upcoming marriage.

[Wowie101]

Yes but no more than any other normal woman. It’s not gonna be as tight as you were when you were a virgin obviously. But you’re not gonna become some grotesque used thing

[Lliam]

Your orifice and vagina are muscular. Do muscles get loose and flabby from exercize?
Vaginas don't wear out. They are meant to be well used.

[summiter]

I would not say loose but sex will get easier each time. Just take it slow the first night. Have you fooled around at all with him like handjobs etc?

[Briteny]

No I haven't

[summiter]

Until you are ready to have a lot of sex after you are married and comfortable physically with it give him a lot of handjobs... guys love them!!!

[Briteny]

:) Okay thank you!

[summiter]

Have fun and enjoy the great orgasms.

[btbc92]

Stop trying to pollute and Destroy her marriage! She does not have to do any of that stuff and you need to keep that perverted feel to yourself. Her marriage night should be between her and her husband and you need to mind your own business. Asker, you decided this is what you want he is the man that you chose to be your husband. If you are not comfortable with that you do not have to get married to him. You can find somebody who you feel that you will be sexually comfortable with because this is the man you going to be with for the rest of your life. At the same time is this man a virgin? If he is not a virgin I highly suggest you go elsewhere I'm sorry. Because you may not be comfortable and it may affect your marriage.

[Leavesbound]

Somewhat though there are exercises you can do to keep it more elastic. Giving birth will do far more.

[Agape93]

Nope that’s not how it works

[InferiorMale]

Does it matter if it did since you plan to stay together? And there are ways to compensate it with a muscle work which actually feels a lot better than just tight p. So you have nothing to be worried about.

[Iron_Man]

Wait till you get married

[TheFlak38]

Not just. you can get ripped literally. Like some women after giving birth. Check out Cassandra Petersons story. She had to get stitched in the hospital after her first time.

[Twalli]

No. The vagina is elastic

[JamieLoves]

Not loose, but you’ll love sex and you’ll relax those muscles quicker than before.
I bet you’ll love it so much ( it feels like home )
that you’ll tire him out !! Good luck...😊😊😊😊

[allin246810in]

It's he hung?

[Luckycharms12]

Nope you will be fine

[abhi00007]

Sex every day yea it can make loose

[Anonymous]

It depends, it may or may not.

His size, inserting style and thrusting style all comes into play as does your own natural size.

[Anonymous]

Definitely it'll be loose and wide open in few months. So what?

[Anonymous]

My sisters dated a guy like that and her uterus fell out

[Anonymous]

No just sore if you’re dry and not turned on enough to be wet