Is it just me, or is a back rub or back scratch way better than sex?

MaximisPryme Yoda

I just find that a massage or scratch is way better... Massages feel good relieve my anxiety... Sex gives me anxiety, even though I do think it feels good.

I know I am rare breed of a man, but I wanted to know if anyone out there shares these feelings, or understands it, at the very least.

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OlderAndWiser Editor
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Dude, you are having bad sex if a back massage feels better!
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- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  Then what is 'good' sex supposed to feel like?
- OlderAndWiser
  +1 y
  It should make you feel great when it's happening and, afterwards, so relaxed that you fall asleep and have a very restful sleep.
- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  Well, it does feel good, but I have issues with anxiety that no matter how good it is, that it still makes it hard for me to enjoy it as much as most men. At the end of the day, only your dick is getting massaged, instead of a large chunk of your body. I also tend to have issues with retarded ejaculation.
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- OlderAndWiser
  +1 y
  Have you ever had a medical consultation regarding that problem?
- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  Of course.

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DizzyDesii Editor
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I don't know about all that but i prefer to be fingered over sex. It jusr feels better
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- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  Interesting. Why so, if you do not mind me asking?
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  The finger can turn/bend in directions the dick can't
- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  So I guess you need a guy with a serious bend hahahaha
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- DizzyDesii
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  Nahh lol. Curved dicks look weird to me. Straight is good. Just long ig. But either way his finger would still donmore
- loves2learn
  +1 y
  I like both! I got fingered and had sex this morning. Lol

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loves2learn Master
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I enjoy those things before sex.
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- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  Well, I am glad that I am not the only one... However, if the sex part doesn't happen, I am not bothered. I just LOVE back massages.
- loves2learn
  +1 y
  I still want the sex. Lol
- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  I do enjoy sex, but not as much as other people. If anything, masturbation can be a decent substitute for me.
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- loves2learn
  +1 y
  Just make sure you and the girlfriend are on the same page. :)
- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  I told her many times that if she is not up to any sex, that a massage is a great substitute. :)
bullforcucks Xper 4
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just you
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Anonymous
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No way a backrub is better than sex
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- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  To me, it is hahahahaha
Anonymous
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There is n comparison.
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- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  What is better then?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  To a normal, mentally healthy adult, sex is obviously better.
- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  Well, I am, admittedly, mentally not healthy, so you got me there. hahahaha
Anonymous
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I like a back rub before or after sex.
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- MaximisPryme
  +1 y
  I see :)