What do you think is the most common fetish for women to have?

[meggykentums]

Personally I believe the most common one is masochism. Choking, spanking, slapping.

What do you think?

[razelove]

From what I've seen I think you're correct. I've been with all types over the years, generally I just ask about hard limits, if they have a safe word (with many women they do not and you have to take their safety into your hands as well)

It isn't exclusive to women though, masochists are just more common than sadists, or at least it's easier for me to remember people I've been with who didn't want to be taken from behind while choked and thrashing about than those who make all manner of noises or words during, but after always collapse moaning thank you. Those who enjoy getting tied up is a mixed bag, it works better as a tease than actual act in and of itself.

I mean, that's all in the bedroom though, the same woman begging to be punished tonight may be spearheading a campaign tomorrow or working in some brutal settings in healthcare. Too many people get hung up on letting go and having fun in bed because of their daily life. Believe me, I'd look much worse if anyone was recording lol

[MrOracle]

I think you're close but not quite right. Instead, it's that most women are (and desire to be) sexually submissive and be dominated by a strong man. This is the source of "rape fantasies" that so many women have - it's not that they actually want to be raped - they want to be DOMINATED, which isn't quite the same thing. And, yes, that can often include some masochistic tendencies, but domination does not necessarily mean inflicting pain - rather, it's the inflicting of your WILL over someone else's.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Agreed!

[weysally]

I think a lot of women have a fetish for being raped, I know I did, I was even going to go through it with my husband but do you know how hard it is to rip off a girls knickers, we gave up

[schließlich]

Rape and incest have been constant ones with girls I’ve dated

[weysally]

@schließlich yes it seems so

[schließlich]

DM me?

[weysally]

@schließlich will later on

[schließlich]

Sounds good!

[Gwenhwyfar]

I think being tied up is even more common but masochism is common too. I like being helpless (if I really trust the person) but I don’t like pain.

[AustinMan]

I feel like submitting to a dominant male tops the list. How he dominates varies. I'm into S&M so she's gonna get spanked hard on the bare for openers.

[ChrisMaster69]

Being controlled or Being restrained- not tied.

Told what to do, kneel and suck me, bend over, ride me etc

not bondage but held down by the guy during sex

[Leavesbound]

$$$$$$$$$

[NathanDavis]

I would bet on the paddle/spanking

[NathanDavis]

And for the other kind of fetish/philia... narratophilia, which can go from stories, and even certain obscene words, that can be very arousing for many women, erotica literature. I actually know of someone that only needed to hear Spanish, and it would get her to the edge, so... words can be powerful and in many ways too.

[Kaneki05]

Then you are correct. 8/10 women will be submissive and masochist than compared to the 2/10 are dominant and sadistic.

[ChocoBrowny]

Rope bunny

[Emilia_The_Great]

I am definetly a masochist

[jerdanro]

Dom, sadist.

[Emilia_The_Great]

Send me a pm

[rebeliouse]

@emilia_the_great in what way? have u read any marque de sade? dm me

[Dargil]

Being "vanquished": Taken without consent, but not forceably raped... just giving in.

[Haelaeix123]

Id probably agree with that to be honest, its the one i see most often anyway

[JosyJosy]

getting dominated, maybe humiliated etc

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah I find mild versions of this are common with girls that are vanilla

[Super-Sam]

How you dominate n humiliate?

[rebeliouse]

@josyjosy what do u class as humiliated?

[JosyJosy]

@rebeliouse I think it would be stuff like the dirty talk, calling her a slut or something, there's that rape domination thing too, or as a friend would say fucking her as if she was a whore, eeeeeetc

[Super-Sam]

@josyjosy what about kissing your feet?

[JosyJosy]

@Super-Sam that's submissive as fuck

[Super-Sam]

@josyjosy will you let me kiss them?

[JosyJosy]

@Super-Sam If you were my boyfriend.

[Super-Sam]

Make me your boyfriend lol

[JosyJosy]

@Super-Sam Already taken.

[FilmGuy93]

Probably getting dominated... like the quasi rape fantasy. I feel like that's a really dangerous name for it, but that's what they call it.

[MissyJ9876]

I just think most women enjoy exibitionism

[es20490446e]

Sex in unexpected situations.

[Andres77]

Slapping her ass and pulling her hair as she gets pounded from behind is pretty common.
I can't nor would I ever be ok with choking.

[KatherineJ]

My husband sending me out shopping and him cleaning the house then making dinner. 🤣

[genericname85]

definitely choking. i mean that's "slight" masochism in my book.

[BobbyC65]

Girl on girl. 💞

[BarryLiverstone]

Easily dom/sub

[loveslongnails]

A lot of women think they have a "rape" fetish, and I say that because they tell me so. But it's really a "take me hard, make me yours, do what you want with me, have a big cock that makes me cum 10 times... but never hurt me, put me in danger, know I'll always be safe" fetish !!! Rape is a life threatening situation at worst, or at best, one where you truly fear for well being. I don't think women fantasize about that.

[Skankhunt]

Humiliation, subbmissive, spanking, BDSM, rape, roleplay, chocking.