• How old were you when you gave your first blowjob?
I was 13. Boyfriend of the same age.
• Were you prepared?
Sort of. I wasn't afraid to do it, everything was consensual. Just didn't think it was a big deal at first.
• Did you practice on things?
Not really, I was arrogant.
• How is it different from what you do now?
Vastly. I actually put in effort now hahaha.
• Do you have any do's/don'ts about giving a blowjob?
Don't think of it as just for him. Do have fun trying to make him go crazy. Don't let him make you feel uncomfortable. Do let him make you feel submissive.
Thank you for sharing.
I was 18. I was not prepared. Lol. I did not practice on anything. I did not expect it to happen that night, attraction took us over. It wasn’t hard to make him cum.
Now I do more licking and sometimes handless and I pay attention to his balls. I guess that’s the evolution. Lol
Thank you.
Of course. :)
I like to be in control of the bj usually. Dominated during sex, but in control of the bj.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I honestly don't remember the first time or who it was. Strange, maybe. It would have been with a boyfriend for sure, not some random guy the way many girls seem to do.
I considered it very intimate and a pretty special thing to do. Not in place of intercourse, but as precursor to it. No guy ever pressured me into it. I probably have always offered, which is the way I think it should be. Although some guys did ask sweetly, or with a lot of angst and sexual frustration, but if I'm not having sex with them yet, I'm not doing that either/instead. It's the whole kit and caboodle or nada.
How did I learn? No resource in particular. Although I did used to listen to a weekly call-in sex talk radio show, where I learned a lot (but no blowjob specific techniques.) I knew nothing at first and was quite intimidated. Men's bodies were completely foreign to me. I felt unsure and like I probably wouldn't do it well.
But over time, I became more and more familiar, and comfortable, with all aspects of men, and I just practised, and thought about it. I thought about it as a skill to learn, and went about it just as I would with others. (Though not quantity-based at all. Quality, with fewer.)
As an adult at this age, I'm a pretty methodical, research-oriented person. We've all got the internet now, and I use a PC and I am very thorough and in-depth with looking things up practically on a daily basis. But in this case, I did not look at porn as many suggest, I only bought one book, but it was enough for me at this stage of my life and knowledge.
It's really more about being focused, dedicated to achieving good skills, and generosity of spirit, I believe. If you don't want your partner to feel happy, then why are you with them? That's what I think. And if you do want them to be happy, feel pleasure, then why not do it well? I have been called a master at it, and that definitely makes me proud, and feel that my time and dedication to analyzing and deconstructing and applying it, was well spent.
Do I have tips? Oh you bet I do.
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And the guy can gently guide with feedback. But shouldn't by default just boss the girl around. There's way too much fixation on the whole dom/sub thing now.
Was it Dr. Drew for the call in radio show? I loved that!
@loves2learn As an adult in my 30s I did catch Dr. Drew once in a while (if I was out around 10pm driving in my car listening to the radio.) He was good. But no, the one I'm referring to was in Canada, back around 1990, and it was a woman who was very, very open and informative. Forget her name, but wow learned a lot from her, as a teenager.
Aww! I love that. I think there was an older lady named dr. Ruth or something who talked sex.
How old were you when you gave your first blowjob? 13
Were you prepared? i read a book many magazine articles eg cosmopolitian redbook and some porn
Did you practice on things? bannas and dildos
How is it different from what you do now? i do more technique now tongue action and do more things in general.
Do you have any do's/don'ts about giving a blowjob? my main focus was not to bite his cock or scrap it in anyway... i gave a decent blowjob i got him off in 10 or so minutes with no incidents and i swallowed his cum didn't chicken out.
Thank you for sharing.
I read the Bible then I got really good at it. Thank you Jesus.
only gonna say, one thing. it came naturally for me
• How old were you when you gave your first blowjob? 12
• Were you prepared? Yeah, I guess I was ready to do it.
• Did you practice on things? Nope
• How is it different from what you do now?
I can take it deeper for longer.
• Do you have any do's/don'ts about giving a blowjob? Don't use teeth, do have fun. And do swallow it all.
What's wrong with teef lol
I was 13 when I gave my first blowjob
To put a time to it don't know but it would be about 11/12. A boy I was close to
No, I was 16 and I just did it. Didn’t prepare.
6 or 7 years before.
He was my brother's friend. I learned from him. He practiced me. I think now I'm expert. Lol.
Just started licking it. Realized guys like it more slppy and I got used to swallowing the nut
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