If people just wanted pleasure they'd spend their money on better sex toys and just sit at home with them. Plus everyone would be bisexual and care more about partners skill then what they looked like.
sex is perhaps primarily about desire. And that desire is about instincts evolved over generations. For men, any fertile looking and non-diseased partner was a good idea. So was a steady partner you formed a family unit with. Both are appealing.
for women, randomly fucking average guys is a terrible reproductive strategy so not too surprisingly it's not instinctively appealing to women. More appealing - either a decent mate who is also a supportive partner OR an exceptional mate with amazing genes.
This may amaze the absolute Hell out of you, but. . . women are different from men, and if they were just like us, you would be quite unhappy.
Sex is a physiological need for men, women don’t have that physiological need like men do. Males can separate sex and emotions, with females sex comes with emotions so they can’t separate the two the way men can. I’m so sick of males that think they are entitled to sex, cut the crap. You got to earn that kind of intimacy from a high value woman. There are plenty of cheap females out there willing to throw themselves to any guy. The women that have self respect and actually value themselves will never settle for cheap love.
That’s why you seek those girls out specifically, and there are apps for hookups. Where dudes mess up is when they’re not honest about their true intentions. They’ll lead a girl on or turn on whatever version of themselves they think their target will like, have sex with them, then ghost or something equally cold. So much “hassle” can be avoided when you’re either up front from the start or seek out someone who has the same intent.
Hookup apps? Those are fake
Surprisingly not lol I wouldn’t know personally but a friend of mine is into that sort of thing and according to her the apps work. Her favorite is Tinder, which in my mind isn’t really a hookup app anymore but she’s very specific in her bio, so already there isn’t any confusion for a suitor.
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