Girls, is it a turn off that a 22 y/o guy is a virgin?

Yesterday, I was talking to a girl here when this topic crept up. She blocked me when I told her that I am a virgin. Is it bad for my age? Just like I wouldn't judge anyone for having body counts in excess of let us say 25 or 30, why would someone wanna judge me like this? I had a chance to get laid with 2 girls but didn't coz they weren't my type.
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  • She blocked you over that? Are you sure that was the exact reason why?
    If so, she's a stupid, shallow person. Forget about her.
    If not, question what you might have said to turn her off.

    I don't think of it using this terminology, so I won't answer that part.
    I'll just say - try and get on with it. Don't make it such a huge albatross in your life that you build it up too much. (Yet, also don't minimize it and made that first experience horrible, because it was with the 'wrong' person, or poorly timed in context.)
    Guys (and girls) need to look at girls as friends, equals, peers. There is often too much compartmentalizing, idolizing, and distance that comes from fear. (And the girls getting their backs up and rejecting any overture, even friendship or just casual chat.)
    Don't think about sex, so much as just meeting people. (Unfortunately it takes 'two to tango', I get that, but you know, just keep your mindset clear on this.)

    • Yes, I am sure because of her response. I'm sure that I didn't say anything else that could've triggered her. I agree. I don't wanna make a huge fuss about it. I completely agree with you. Wasn't looking to talk about this stuff with her. She asked about this. I wanted to be friends with her. Well, I wouldn't let this experience deter me from having a good time in the future. As always, you provide such good advice. Thank you so much! :) I've never thought about sex when I meet a new girl no matter how attractive she is.

    • That's great. Yw!

    • You seem to have the best advice on GaG for everything. Always an admirer of yours, Amanda Ma'am! :) :)

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  • No. People will always have judgements, opinions and thoughts that will not coincide with your beliefs, morals or even way of life but that's okay. You only live for you and what you believe in. Be proud of it. You can move on to better circle of people who accept you for who you are.

    • I love this answer! I'd give you the MHO. Have an awesome week! ❤

    • Thank you 😊🙋🏻‍♀️

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  • Not a turn off, but I guess if someone is just looking for good sexual with someone experienced then they might not want to train you up... lol

    • Yeah, I get your point haha. I have willingly declined to be a part of 2 sexual encounters because it went against my values. :P

    • Well I respect your values choice and then I also hope that you will take the opportunity soon to engage in the most normal, natural pleasure of enjoying sex with someone.

    • I would definitely enjoy good sex. No doubt about that. It would be enjoyable if it's with the right person. :) Have a splendid week!

  • Not necessarily a turn off, but definitely a warning sign.

    • A warning sign as in? You know why I didn't sleep with those 2 girls? They were toxic af. They didn't respect me and kept yelling. I backed off. Due to Covid, I haven't allowed anyone to get near. :)

  • No you should not be ashamed maybe she was just intimidated being someone’s first can be a lot of pressure.

    • All they wanted is sex. Had a very nefarious nature and that's why I backed off. :)

  • No, it's ok. I'm 22 too and a virgin.

    • I am glad! :) Salut! :) Would you be my first casual French friend? :)

    • Salut :) I will, that would be cool ^-^

    • Merci beaucoup! :)

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  • I find it a good thing, nothing wrong with it, heck I don't mind is a guy is a virgin in his 50s his life his choice! Nobody has the right to shame you over it, if they do they have issues. Good luck stay true. I have a brother who is 33 and a virgin, and plans to stay that way until he is ready.

    • Spot on, mate! Thanks a lot! Your brother is being true to himself and so are you. Such a rare quality these days! :) Stay blessed!

    • Thank you!!! I will tell him you said that! <3

    • Aww! :)

  • No...

    • I ruminated a lot about this coz I have willingly not slept with 2 girls until now.

    • That is up to you. There are plenty of girls out. Who would love to get close to you

    • If they're genuine and want a long-term relationship, I'm in. :)

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  • Nope, don't see why it would

    • Well well, dunno what went through her mind but that's fine. I wasn't anyway gonna date her 😂😂 I asked her to be friends and she asked if I was a virgin or not. How are you, friend?

    • I'm good, you?

    • Likewise. How's the situation in Denmark?

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  • 22 is not that old, so no

    • Thanks for acknowledging this, girl. Have a splendid week! :)

  • Nope I would prefer a guy that is virgin and no STD

    • Awesome! :) I would never judge anyone no matter if he/she has a body count of 0 or 20. :) Have a splendid week, girl! :)

    • I only had a serious relationship. 9 serious relationships. 9 ex boyfriend. some ended because cheated and some other ex boyfriend was being toxic. body count is 0 and I do not like body count meh and dislike this. is

    • I am so sorry that you had to face 9 toxic relationships. Sadly, all people want is sex these days. Relationships are much more than that. Hope you find a long-term partner. Sending lots of love and positivity! :)

  • So high scool, he never got. Shame

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