Should you masturbate when you are sexually active with your partner?

Let’s say you live with your partner, have sex 3-5 times a week, do you think it’s okay to masturbate even though you’re receiving sex?
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  • Special Note: I chose B, No not because of attitude or moral issue (as most Opinions shown), but "Technical".

    Yes, I chose No because I wanted to experience the most during those sessions.

    When I was stayed with my SO and had sex a few times a week, I controlled myself NOT to masturbate.

    Even when I had to go out-station for a week or two, I held back.

    The purpose: I knew we'll fuck the moment I'm back. Hence I "saved" (LOL!) all my sperm for her.

    And as history shown, we both love it!

    PS: But of course, "morally", that's another story. I can masturbate anytime anywhere I want, regular sex or otherwise.

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  • Sure. Masturbation isn't just about sex; it can also be to clear your head, or relieve stress, or just grab a quick orgasm without needing to involve another person. If it's getting in the way of (plural) your sex life, that's another issue, but there's nothing wrong with the act in itself.

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  • I think yes it makes your bond stronger if u are sexually available for him or if he catches you while u do it. That u can also turn it into sex. Keeps your sex life healthy. People that only have sex but don't please themselves have less orgasms u can google that and they also are less happy

  • Yeah. Why wouldn't it be? It's your own body.

  • I used to do it in the shower before a date so I could last longer.

  • Yes. There is nothing wrong with that as long as there aren't any issues between you and your partner. If that's the reason for it, then you have to communicate with them.

  • Well, I think that would depend on what you are masturbating too. Is it just random porn, or somebody you know?

  • I masturbate more frequently when I'm having great sex. Which is pretty much all the time.

  • It is best not to, but could be allowed as long as it doesn’t take away from the other. While 3-5 times may be enough for some and more than enough for others, some may require sexual release daily or more. I think some people take the fact of their partner masturbating as a personal slight (and it may or may not be), when it may just be an act. Now if they are neglecting their partner and masturbating to porn a lot instead, there is a problem.

  • Yes because on days and moments your not having sex and your horny, you need to still release yourself. So if your talking about your boyfriend masturbating, unless your going to give him sex when ever he wants it he will masturbate

  • I have cos I have high sex drive

  • Yeah you can still masturbate even if your active with your partner

  • Only if your partner is not pleasing you at all

  • My body, my choice. I don't owe her anything just because we are married. Once we all agreed that a husband can't force his wife to have sex I decided that porn is way hotter than she ever was.