If at the age of 30 you have slept with more than 30 men is this slutty?

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If at the age of 30 you have slept with more than 30 men is this slutty?

abc3643 · Accepted Answer

Ummm YES!

Are you fucking kidding me?
That's the DEFINITION of SLUT!

I really hope this is a troll and that you were not this slutty...

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This is my slut/manwhore equation regarding "body count" - a very obnoxious and revolting phrase but, considering that the people who use it are typically manwhores and sluts anyway, what should I expect?

I use a formula for both males and females:
Let Y = cumulative number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
(that is, the "body count")
Let X = age-appropriate maximum number of distinct sexual intercourse partners

X = ROUND_UP [ 1.5 * (AGE - 15) ]
So:
Age = 15, X = 0.
Age = 16, X = 2.
Age = 17, X = 3.
Age = 18, X = 5.
Age = 19, X = 6.
Age = 20, X = 8.
Age = 21, X = 9.
Age = 22, X = 11.

If Y > MINIMUM (X, 10), then "Slut/Manwhore" else "Age appropriate".

Basically, what this is saying is:
1. "Don't fuck until you are at least 16."
2. "Only fuck in committed relationships; up to 3 committed relationships per every 2 years."
3. "If you need more than 10 committed relationships by the time you are 22, then something is wrong with you or you're a slut/manwhore who is fucking too often just for fun."

More than 10 guys is really too much.

Most guys would be rather uncomfortable competing against such a lengthy history because the probability of his being the best you ever had (or having the biggest dick you've ever had) seriously goes down. He wants to be memorable and important to you and "not just another lay".

Nor does he want a pussy with "a lot of miles on it" because, frankly, they are considerably looser so the experience isn't as good for him (although it is still mighty fine!).

So, bottom line; more than 10 guys is too much for the majority of men.

For the record, my Y ("body count") is 5 and it wasn't 2 until I was almost 26!

Body 1: 21 y 09 m
Body 2: 25 y 11 m
Body 3: 26 y 02 m
Body 4: 32 y 10 m
Body 5: 36 y 10 m

kevyhanma · Accepted Answer

That depends were condoms used because if they were you might as well be a nun

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

your definitely loose... i don't like thinking of those things because i've sucked over 150 cocks but only had coitus sex with less than 10 and i'm 35... and most of the men i sucked i had to because i was horny to do so but by no means proud of it.

Kelly6 · Accepted Answer

No it’s normal

DizzyDesii · Answer

Yea thats a hoe for ya. But many people love hoes now a day. Not I... I dont want anyone whose had more than a handful

JuliaStyles · Answer

If you start having sex at 15 that is 2 per year. I think that is way too many but I'm sure others would find that number low.

AshleyTaylorDanny · Answer

Who cares... do what makes you happy and be yourself 😃

weysally · Answer

how can anyone answer this, what is being slutty, is it how man you have had sex with before a certain age, or is it like me who only had 3 lovers, sorry 2 lovers and a jerk, before the age of 35, and about 17 after the age of 35

cheapshotbob · Answer

if you did it with a smile then this arch means yes for you

littlelady1234 · Answer

Ima just be flat out... YES!!

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nope, that’s called taking it slow. that’s like a few weeks out in Newcastle.

MCheetah · Answer

The unofficial rule is "no more people than half the number of your age." By 30, you should not have slept with more than 15 men. Otherwise, you are considered a "slut." That is what society unofficially says, though. I couldn't care less, if I'm not considering dating you. As long as you aren't hurting others, do what you want in life.

(GAG suggested this old-ass question to me, just right now.)

Chriscunning · Answer

I think you can see from most responses people tend to find the number high.

But I think people forget we tend to grow up, chance our views and who we are. The mere fact you asking this question means you having a few regrets about it or maybe not regrets, but it's making you question it a little. But truth is, I know plenty girls who will put your 30 to shame, and i know many who have only been with 1 guy. It's not an exact science.

History does not tell us who you are, it tells us about your journey to this point and your experiences that have made you who you are today.

ohshee · Answer

I guess it all depends on if I was the 29th or if I was the more to be honest it doesn't matter what anyone thinks it should only matter to the person that has done it

ImSparkly · Answer

I view slutty as seeking external validation through sex. It doesn't matter if they were with one or one thousand, its still needing that other person to say you're worthwhile.

If they are not looking to boost their self-confidence, they just enjoy sex. As long as they are playing responsibly, its what it is.

And yes, I have I high body count, but also have happily had my monogamy chip for over a year now.

modelUN242 · Answer

Very much, that’s nasty 🤢🤮🤮.

Aethereal · Answer

In my opinion it is. But that really shouldn't matter to you. Many other people don't care about body count. You simply have to find one of those people if/when you want to settle down.

normalice · Answer

Some would think it is some would not. I think it's not. It's not even one a month.

callMeNeel · Answer

You seem to be the type of woman who likes the trill of having sex with new men, and that's totally fine! As long as you're having fun and are safe, you can keep having these adventures for yourself.

So, you might be "slutty", maybe not in a bad way, if you're enjoying it. But, I do not know how your future boyfriend/partner would react to this "sluttiness", in case you decide to settle down for one man. For a lot of men that might be a problem. For me, I do not really care about my partner's history.

wankiam · Answer

not really but to be fair, i like slutty women anyway

Miristheiss · Answer

For me... yes. Even if you are 65.
It just means a lot was casual sex, hook ups, one night stands... not having a committed partner.
I mean slut has a definition in the dictionary. That falls into that.

ChocoBrowny · Answer

That is quite a lot. I'd personally not wish to be with a woman who has been like that because she's been spoilt by choice.

Dargil · Answer

Yes, I do.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Not slutty but it’s not me either. A lot of guys suck in bed and I have no desire to sleep with 30 to test that theory (I did go through hookup phases in the past but I rarely went further than touching and oral and even then I had to coach most of them).

If at the age of 30 you have slept with more than 30 men is this slutty?

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