I am very sorry you went through that, and that the counsellors you saw were unable to help. If you want to message me on here privately to vent or anything, I'll listen. I was molested when I was really young so I understand some of what you might be feeling.
I think virginity is a concept we made up, so we decide the "rules" around it. If someone is raped, but wants to count their first consensual sex experience after that as losing their virginity, I don't think anyone should have a problem with that.
And yes, someone is still dateable even if they were sexually assaulted or raped0 0 0 0My dad paid that woman in painkillers to do it to me all because he did not want me to become a 40-year-old virgin who still lived with their mother as the bad stereotype here in America.
That's horrible
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2 0Did you get hard when she was doing it to you?
0 0 0 1No, I did not, and getting hard does not always indicate that a man wants to have sex, it is just a response from being touched down there.
Stop being a baby get over it
Rape is still rape you know, and I hope that you get prosecuted for something similar to what happened to me due to the terrible aspects of today's society going on.
Professional counselors, like stop being a pussy, you were drunk but you wanted to fuck so who cares
0 0 0 1No, I did not want to fuck, that is the problem even though I was drunk.
That's exactly why you got hard. Come on just get over it stop being a sissy
Look, dicks can get hard from the merest breeze going across it.
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