If the only sexual experiences a man went through were all totally against his will, would you still consider him a virgin and dateable?

What I am asking happened to me all because I was drunk attempting to go to sleep in my own bed where I was living at the time, and a female friend of my father whom I did not want anything to do with did the deed to me in my room that was dark so that I could sleep, and yet it got totally interrupted. I woke up the next day realizing that I remembered every single detail of what happened even though I was intoxicated, and I was never the same ever since, and professional counselors never helped settled me one little bit no matter what they attempted to do for me.
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  • I am very sorry you went through that, and that the counsellors you saw were unable to help. If you want to message me on here privately to vent or anything, I'll listen. I was molested when I was really young so I understand some of what you might be feeling.
    I think virginity is a concept we made up, so we decide the "rules" around it. If someone is raped, but wants to count their first consensual sex experience after that as losing their virginity, I don't think anyone should have a problem with that.
    And yes, someone is still dateable even if they were sexually assaulted or raped

    • My dad paid that woman in painkillers to do it to me all because he did not want me to become a 40-year-old virgin who still lived with their mother as the bad stereotype here in America.

    • That's horrible

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  • Did you get hard when she was doing it to you?

    • No, I did not, and getting hard does not always indicate that a man wants to have sex, it is just a response from being touched down there.

    • Stop being a baby get over it

    • Rape is still rape you know, and I hope that you get prosecuted for something similar to what happened to me due to the terrible aspects of today's society going on.

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  • Professional counselors, like stop being a pussy, you were drunk but you wanted to fuck so who cares

    • No, I did not want to fuck, that is the problem even though I was drunk.

    • That's exactly why you got hard. Come on just get over it stop being a sissy

    • Look, dicks can get hard from the merest breeze going across it.

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