Embarrassed to admit you masturbate?

[Anonymous]

Why women still embarrassed to admit they masturbate. i say i never would masturbate but i do i can't even ask this with out being anonymous

[ohshee]

Well that's probably the smart thing for you to do anyway is be anonymous about it that way doesn't come back to bite you in the butt but I've said I've done it so many times I've started when I was 12 and I still do to this day I'm not ashamed of it is part of my life and I guess if anybody doesn't like it well they should give me one good reason and then they should come and watch it because I go to it they will be turned on especially if I started talking naughty now the more you experience allow yourself to feel things the better it will be it'll be freeing is Mind Body Soul spirit can vagina LOL so what are these days don't be anonymous send somebody a message and say hey guess what I'd masturbate LOL why not might open up a good healthy conversation it might even be fun

[ohshee]

Thank you

[Wiredone]

Why are you embarrassed to admit that you masturbate. There's nothing wrong with it. I do it too. I'm sure half, if not 3/4 of the people on here masterbate

[Asker]

thank you

[Wiredone]

You're welcome and thank you for the mho

[Desiree16]

I guess it could be a taboo if you're young. I'm personally not ashamed and neither are the women around me. Owning your sexuality is powerful. There absolutely no shame in it. You'll grow to be more comfortable in your own skin as you get older

[Asker]

thank you

[COMMODOREII]

Amen sister!!

[ChrisMaster69]

Because we still have stupid social and religious stigma associated with self pleasuring.

it’s all total bollox, the vast majority of people masturbate, fuck each other and have healthy lives.

masturbation helps with mental health ( unless it’s extreme obviously)

[Asker]

thank you

[ChrisMaster69]

No problem and never be concerned about saying you masturbate. There is the I’m Spartacus thing with it

[hsshannah96]

I’m not I just rarely do it

[Asker]

coolie

[wankiam]

everyone does... some of us more than others but i can understand how you feel... it took me a lot of yars before i could talk openly about my love of masturbation

[Asker]

thanks

[InfobotLives]

We know that most of you do anyway, it's no secret anymore.

[Asker]

i know true, but guys talk about it they don't seem to care who know or what people will say

[InfobotLives]

Guys only really make jokes about it, we don't tend to openly talk about it seriously

[ChocoBrowny]

You shouldn't need to tell others what you do in private. Even if your partner asked that's just crossing a line because they will become more and more nosy judge and even get upset insecure. Creating boundaries is healthy.

[Asker]

i'm feeling i'm being deceptive or dishonest as well

[ChocoBrowny]

That is not dishonesty though, you don't have to share with him all your fetishes and dirty feelings in a 'vanilla' relationship. Some do breakup once their partner has done anal with them for example. A guy left a sadomasochist once he found out.

[Haelaeix123]

No idea, i guess for a lot of women its still just an embarrassing truth

[sheikalana]

I'm not embarrassed. It's a natural thing that most humans do.

[Asker]

yes...

[exitseven]

It is just weird to talk about.

[Asker]

i know

[lucyloo76]

A lot of guys are as well.
But like you say why be embarrassed.
We all do it.

[Asker]

yes thank you

[MissyJ9876]

I kinda say I do it, but no details

[Asker]

thank you

[genericname85]

cause the older generations still rise their children telling them "sex is the devil" in many communities. so naturally people feel ashamed of it, not willing to admit they're doing it. so much for the "great" judeo-christian values. fucking us up sexually and pervertising us as a consequence.

[Asker]

it dose mess with a person

[genericname85]

Yeah that's what I said in essence XD

[Asker]

thank you

[Singlebimom]

They were told taught it was dirty only boys do it. Maybe was caught by a parrnt and was pressured to stop

[Asker]

yeah pressure it be good and M is bad

[Yolanda987651]

I was also embarrassed, I didn't even tell my bestfriends. I don't know what changed but now I can say openly I do masturbate and even how.

[Asker]

thanks for saying that, i'm still working up the nerve to say it

[Yolanda987651]

Act serious, see what she does

[Asker]

be strong and just say it

[Pogi-Paddy]

Why be embarrassed, almost everyone on the planet does it, even if they don't admit it. 🌹

[Asker]

i'm thinking that must be true. thank you

[Wise4myage]

lol. I think a lot of girls are raised that way, but you have no reason to feel embarrassed.

[Asker]

thanks you

[Wise4myage]

You’re welcome.

[kellytheman]

I think in most culture and religion it's a sin or frown upon. Some women might not do it because either afraid to do it or getting caught doing it if they still live with there parents or siblings.

[Asker]

i've just been lying about it cause my friends say they don't M

[kellytheman]

I feel a lot of women lie about masturbating because they feel embarrassed by it. Us guys kinda do the same thing but almost every guy has done it. If they said they haven't their lying.

[gibgabbs]

It's a personal subject

[Asker]

so true

[Lucious22]

Well I think it’s just more of a special thing when it comes to women, people are still surprised woman watch porn while doing it (I kinda am too) but it’s just a thing society has pictured

[Asker]

thats a lot of pressure

[_Troian_]

I don't know.. everyone masturbates.

[Asker]

thanks