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How many people have you slept with?

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  • Honestly, 14 people - and I have gotten four women pregnant.

    One of those women had a miscarriage, the second aborted my baby. It is still the most painful experience in my life. I would have cared for that little person and been a single father and done whatever it took to make him/her happy. The girl I was with didn't care and I miss my little baby to this day.

    That is when I started to go off the rails a bit and sleep with any woman who would sleep with me. Then I met this beautiful woman and - long story short - we have moved in together and have had three children and I don't think I have ever been happier. We decided that we did not want to be married because what we have is natural and beautiful and would not be improved by a big ceremony, an expensive ring and a permission slip from the state.

    The first two of our children were unplanned pregnancies, but that was not the reason we moved in together. Rather we truly fell in love and are to this day.

    This I realized all the more when I was recently contacted by a woman who I had a one night stand with. She told me that her 14 year old son is my son. (A test has confirmed it.) She had been raising him on her own all these years, but decided that I ought to know that I had a son. The hard part being that she does not want me to tell him that I am his father because she does not want his life to be disrupted.

    This sounds like a bad soap opera, I know. Made worse that I want to be in my son's life, but I think his mother has a point. My son is just entering his high school and college years and he needs a normal childhood and teen years. So I have not decided what to do, but my girlfriend - our children are 9, 8 and 6 by the way - has been nothing but supportive.

    In all of this, I should add, that the mother of my 14 year old son has been very civil and seems to have done an excellent job raising our son. The hard part is confessing that I don't know her that well - as I say, it was a one night stand at a time when I was still being eaten up inside over the abortion and I was in a "the h**l with it" mindset.

    Not, as you can tell, without its costs. I'm a different guy than the one who slept around all those years ago - and I have to admit that now I wonder if I don't have other children I might not know about. (I tend to doubt it, but I guess it is not impossible.)

    Bottom line though, I enjoy sex and had plenty of it - but I learned a lot and am luckier than maybe I deserve to be.

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  • I honestly don't know. I used to keep track of their names and every once in a while I would even take some time to sit down and write down all the names of everyone I could remember. But it got to the point where I realized I literally couldn't remember them all. For example, I would make my "list" and write down all the girls I'd slept with, and for one it would take maybe an hour of sitting and thinking. Then I'd go over the list and there would be one I had forgotten the first time around so I'd add her.

    Then maybe an hour later, I'd remember another that I had forgotten. Now, I stopped doing the list thing. I still remember a lot of them but I know for sure I've forgotten a lot as well. I remember more the ladies I had actual romantic relationships with or certain girls who maybe even though it was just once, we had a really amazing connection. I'll give one example, although now I can't say if I remember her name correctly or not, but I'm pretty sure. It was a French name.

    We met traveling, she was with some guy whom I assumed was her boyfriend or lover or something like that, so I wasn't even thinking of her that way, though she was incredibly beautiful. We were at the ruins of Palenque, down in southern Mexico. We had found a place to camp, and I had my hammock set up, so we all shared food and stories and got to know each other a little bit. I said I was headed to the ruins in the morning and was planning on getting some (psychedelic) mushrooms as I heard there were people who sold them along the road. The couple was very interested in this, so I said I would get them some if they wanted. Sure enough, I was walking through the woods when a man approached me and asked "hongos?". I returned to the camp and gave the couple some shrooms then went to the ruins alone.

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    On the way back from the ruins of Palenque, I ran into the "couple" and we followed a trail to a waterfall and swimming hole. I got naked to go swimming, then climbed to the top of the waterfall, and the girl did to. We stood there at the top of the waterfall, both naked, and held hands. We didn't kiss or anything, just stood there as two naked humans enjoying each other and nature. It was a nice moment as the psilocybin/psychedelic effects were starting to fade.

    That night we were around the fire, and she was about to leave to go to the airport and leave the country, the end of her trip. Sort of out of nowhere, she took my hand and asked if I wanted to go for a walk. I followed her out into the darkness of the jungle and when we were far from camp she turned to me and took off her clothes and mine. We had sex and returned to camp. It was very sweet, although not really a perfect setting as I prefer being indoors in lots of warm cozy blankets and sheets, rather than on a jungle floor with mosquitos around. But very sweet nonetheless.

    Back to numbers, as I said I don't really know. But I estimate somewhere between 75-90. Since I haven't kept track in years, it's very vague, I know.

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  • None I am a virgin! Waiting till marriage. I will not perform in any sexual activity ex. touching, fingering, sex of any kind, until married! I can see a kiss and hug but nothing more.

  • i really don't know. 40+ at least. I had a period where i was really depressed and lonely, and being nempo helped.

    • Wow would you have sex with a 34 year old mexican? I live in California

    • @Eduardoalbacaffe dude she would be like throwing a hotdog down a hallway. That thing is beat up

    • @Harleyguy thats a savage coment

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  • Body count: 0
    Status: still a virgin

    And I'm proud of that!!!

    • Hey me too!

  • My answer is disappointing, but I honestly don't know. My wife didn't believe that that was possible, some time after we started sleeping with women together. I asked her, maybe 2 years ago how many women we'd slept with, she didn't know, there were just so many women we didn't remember clearly. heh, no one that brags about numbers really has any as they cease to matter after a certain threshold.

    Unless they view people as notches on a belt rather than individual experiences to be enjoyed, tolerated, cherished, or forgotten as the case may be.

  • 2. No intentions of ever surpassing 3.

  • 31 😃

  • Honest answer I don't know how many!

  • This is the wrong question to ask because no here is going to be honest. Let me pit it this way. It shouldn't matter how many people you been with. You should never disclose that because you will be judged. When you with some juts like them for them. If you state compair yourself to other or yours partners then it become a jealous and judgment situation. Its best to let it be and respect the other person regardless of how many people they have been with.

  • 5 boyfriend out of 7, 11 people I know.

  • 11 women, so far.

    I tend to prefer relationships, more than just sleeping around.

  • right, three before I got married including my husband, around about 17 since,

  • 2 women but those were years ago its been 30 years since i tried for sex, it just doesn't appeal to me.. im an odd ball i guess i much prefer a good coffee or a trip out in the woods i think.

  • 0 lol

  • Zero and i wanna keep it like that till i meet a good guy.

  • About 5, and I regret deeply all but one of them

  • I'll tell you my number if you tell me yours.

    • Zero, nada, nilch

  • I don’t know

  • 9 girls total,
    27 times lifetime.

  • Just anal with one guy (who's been my boyfriend for over 3 years now) , and I'm keeping my virginity for after marriage

  • Hmm maybe 9-10?

  • Two in all honesty.

  • I lost count.

    • Around how many? More than 20?

    • Easily more than that.

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