Do you believe it is true most women would find it less gross or creepy if a man they found physically attractive asked them to flash compared to a man they don’t find physically attractive

Why?

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Do you believe it is true most women would find it less gross or creepy if a man they found physically attractive asked them to flash compared to a man they don’t find physically attractive Why?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

While this isn't going to be true of ALL women, it's definitely true of many.

I'm a mobile DJ, which means I've been to a LOT of parties over the decades, but unlike a lot of attendees, I was sober and I remember them well. In any event, I've seen these kinds of things play out hundreds, maybe thousands of times. An average-looking guy gets a turned-up nose even just being nice from many girls, but a good-looking guy can say vile things to her or get her to do crazy things because she desires him and wants him to desire her.

I also grew up being very good friends with a group of brothers who had a rock band and were on MTV, and toured opening up for some big bands. When I'd be out with them, they could get girls to do just about anything, and would joke to me about it. One memorable time, years after their hey-day, they were playing at a bar in a nearby city, and there was a side door to the bar just behind the guitar player. He had the door open to get some fresh air in the bar, but a couple of girls had come up to talk to him. He starts winking at me and has some conversation with them, and it doesn't take long before it comes up that one of the girls has a tattoo.

Of course, he "doesn't believe her" (winks at me), and she said she'd show it to him, but she'd have to take off her pants to do so, because it's on her inner thigh. He continues "not to believe her" and saying that she's lying about having a tattoo, a and before long, she's got her pants down to her knees, wearing only the world's tiniest G-string, standing on a sidewalk outside of a bar, showing us her tattoo (and much more). The best part is: he's doing all this WHILE the band is performing, and he's playing his guitar parts, including a wailing guitar solo, all while he's talking this girl out of her pants. But he was good-looking and "locally famous" so she stripped right down for him.

An average guy would have been called a creep just for having that conversation with her, but a good-looking "famous" guy got her to strip off in view of 80 other people.

I could tell dozens of other stories like this, but, suffice it to say that it's absolutely true, at least of a large percentage of women.

The_Maphio · Accepted Answer

If there is attraction and the thing is known to both, asking to flash is basically a request to do something sexual for him. I don't think you'd be ashamed of yourself in that case considering that you'd have interest in going full frontal with the bloke anyway.

rachel776 · Accepted Answer

we put up with a lot more (or even want it) from guys we think are attractive

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Accepted Answer

It will be equally as creepy and inappropriate no matter wtf he looks like.

kkirk4442 · Answer

Many women do not want to be flashed. Of those who do, or might want to be, how attractive the guy is, probably makes a lot of difference.

shushhhhh · Answer

Yes. I say this because if this is a man she finds attractive, doing a sexual favour for him is way to "win him over" in a sense so that she can feel good around him

Avicenna · Answer

I would hope they’d find it repulsive

MissyJ9876 · Answer

Yes I agree

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes...

RingOfFire · Answer

Years ago when I first went to college I used to be a bouncer in several bars. Girls used to flash me all the time when I asked them for ID. Some girls just like to flash! Can't say it bothered me.