Is it common after good sex for a man to become more attractive in a woman’s brain than prior to having sex?

[Anonymous]

Like science-chemical based?
Maybe he was ok before sex but then they had great sex, is it common for a woman to view this guy as suddenly way more attractive than she had prior to having sex?
is this a thing?

[PrudentGuy]

"science-chemical based?" Let's analyse:

1) yes, like another Opinion mentioned, oxytocin. What exactly is it?

Oxytocin is a hormone and a neurotransmitter that is involved in childbirth and breast-feeding. It is also associated with empathy, trust, sexual activity, and relationship-building.

During hugging and orgasm, levels of oxytocin increases.

Yes this is "chemistry" and I hope the scientific evidence is strong enough to show your hypothesis that a girl's attraction to the guy increases after sex, particularly sex that make her orgasms.

2) non science but related to (1): if a guy is "good enough" to make her cum, that same guy is usually "considerate enough" and "loving enough" for her.

This is because in the bedroom, he does not only concerned about his own pleasures but her as well.

And such "love" is usually felt by the girl.

And girls like to "feel loved".

This usually lead to her finding her "more attractive" as a person.

And I think it happens to many happy couples, some even are here regularly.

3) sex is a special act compared to eating and drinking.

It requires the couple to undress.

This act of getting naked for each other demonstrate the couple chooses to be vulnerable for each other.

And to be vulnerable means trust.

With willingness when they engage in more intimate acts where their awkwardness have to be subdued, bonding occurs.

And when there is bonding, natural attraction occurs.

Hence to conclude, yes, sex where both orgasm make mutual attraction stronger. Hence its also known as "making love".

[callMeNeel]

That's a very detailed and scientific answer, thank you so much bro!

[PrudentGuy]

@callMeNeel welcome, but I thought Asker is a girl?

[callMeNeel]

Yes, the asker is some anon girl, but i am impressed with the details of your answer

[PrudentGuy]

@callMeNeel oh thanks.

[callMeNeel]

Its totally a thing.

personal experience: A girl once told me she didn't consider me as a potential partner when she first met me, But after we slept for some time, she thought i was hot af.

[btbc92]

I say it depends on who this person is, with the state of your relationship is, and while you're having sex. If your having sex out of marriage, then what you're doing is that you're attaching yourself to a person, besides making them your spouse illegally. Not only that, you also don't know who you became one with. If that person doesn't want to stay with you then all the things you think that is good becomes a bad thing.

So yes innocent it definitely is a thing because that is originally how God intended it to be. That's why it is said that such is only to be enjoyed between the couples who are married. Not those who are not married. But that's exactly what sex is supposed to do. At least, that is one of the main functions.

[Anonymous]

Definitely! Amazing sex can totally make you more attracted, but also the intimacy you shared, along with the exchange of energy.

[Steinkopf]

Oh no. You are probably a oxytocin addict. Yes, ít's a thing.