Can I ask my boyfriend to do a kink?

I have a certain kink but I don't know if hed be into it, do you think it'll be okay to ask if we can do my favorite kink?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • depends what it is i guess and if he is open minded enough to indulge you but you can't know unless you ask what he thinks about it. you could just sort of mention it as if its a friend or something just to guage his reaction before coming straight out with it. what is it by the way?

  • Try and bring it up in conversation, if you ever watch porn together try having it on.

    try brining it up during those dirty chats during sex.

    most kinks people will try.

    but it does depend how open he is.

    • @unicorn_lover_2002 what kink we talking about, it’s a slippery slope lol

    • @unicorn_lover_2002 thank you most appreciated

Most Helpful Girls

  • You can start by talking about kinks with him and you can tell him about yours, just talking, see where he is at.
    If it's something he's not comfortable with, don't start by asking to do it. Just let him know it's your thing and be open about it.

    • This right here.

  • Can't hurt to ask, so do it. You don't need our permission.

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    Can I tie my bonnet on your ass?

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  • Well if you don't ask him that's your fault if he never does it most guys are lazy and when they f u c k they're only thinking about themselves anyway so if you want to do something tell him ask him or just do it

  • Depends on your Kink!! Some guys ADORE women that have sexual desires, and fantasies, and KINK!! :)

  • That might depend on the kink. Which one is it?

  • Drop subtle hints that you want to try that kink and see how he reacts. If it's not crazy extreme he'll probably at least try it. But if your kink is pooping on his face or sticking needles in his balls be prepared for some hesitancy on his part.

  • You MUST ask him to do a kink.
    If you absolutely wanna go for it and never tell him, you'll more than likely never have the chance to experience it thus leaving your sex life unfulfilled.
    That could lead to frustration that could also impact the quality of your relationship.

    One of the best things you can do about sex is talk about it. He'll jump you where you stand if you talk about sex with ease. Talk about it and you'll know if that's destined to go somewhere or not.

  • If you are afraid to talk to him it won’t be much of a relationship. We can’t feel truly loved unless we allow our partner to know us.

  • Why not, the worst he could say is no.

    • I just dont want him to find me weird lol

    • Why, is it a real weird kink?

    • Oh yeah definitely

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  • Yeah absolutely.

  • It would all depend on the kink, but I would say go for it. He may frown away, or maybe he'll surprise you and go for it. All is Fair in Love and War.

    Keep us posted... your adoring followers want to know.

  • As long as it doesn't involve

    Putting something in him

    I guess it would be easy

    Rest depends on his kinks

  • You should ask him. If he is not really into it maybe he will do it just to please you.

  • You should be able to at least ask him, but no guarantee he will do it.

  • Shure, what kink?

  • Communication is key! Just ask!

  • I don't see kink girls in real life

  • In today génération men are addicted to porn..
    And they are waiting on the edge for any girl to expose their kink.. So they can experiment it with her...

    Don't waste your time..
    Just say it...

    If you want my guidance how to put it so it sounds appealing from males perspective..
    Just DM Me..
    Go Fun your brains out..

  • How on earth do you expect random strangers to know?

    • Because it's called advice you don't like what she asked then simply dont answer.

    • @awesomeguy1060 I replied in the vain hope they may get realise that they should actually try ASKING their partner.

  • There are only a couple of ways to find out: either start doing it and give no warning, or just ask him. Of the two, I would go with asking him. If he says "no", then you have lost nothing. If he says "yes", well then, good luck!

  • Tell us what it is and we'll help you out

  • Yeah ask away. It'd all about being open and communicating with your partner!

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