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How many times do you allow your partner to orgasm before you allow yourself to?

Lol I know guys like the girl to come first but some girls like the guy to cum first. It would be lovely if we could all just cum in sync instantly 🤣 I’ll be nice and cum at least once, but before i cum all those times after, he needs to cum at least once after me. Seeing his reactions when he cums is what makes me cum
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They need to cum at least once
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They need to cum at least twice
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They need to cum at least thrice
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Wym? I’m cumming first mf
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Im not cumming regardless
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Im just shocked so many people say its easy for the guy to cum. I’m also shocked so many say most guys tire after they cum that one time. I mustve had some pumped up exes. Cause one could cum in 5 mins and fck all day. The other could cum in 10-20 mins and fck all day. They always got hard again in no more than 2 mins. We just couldnt fck the next day cause we’d be hurtin from goin all day. I couldnt even walk 🤣 but he wasn't hurtin too bad cause he still enjoyed head the next day & came after
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Of course many of us cum from being fingered or eaten out but i was referring to penetration. I shouldve specified. So im asking how many times does your partner need to cum through penetrative sed before you allow yourself to. I say allow because some people be edging themselves and shit. I’ll never understand that tho
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  • My sexual routine is t bring my SO to orgasm by fingering (as foreplay) and then cunnilingus until is fully and finally satisfied. That may take 10 minutes, if she's really horny or more than a half hour if she is slow to cum. Only then do I get blown or hop on for a quick sprint to orgasm. Either way, it won't take long because I get very aroused giving cunnilingus. Once I even came on my own humping the floor while licking a girl.

    • Daaaaaaaamn

  • I chose A although usually she cums more than once through fingering and eating her. Once my cock goes in, I will cum when she cums again. I always try to cum when she cums.

    • So freakin hawt

    • I think there is no better pleasure than the man and woman cumming at the same time. Holding each other tight, she pushing her pussy against his cock, and he pushing his cock deep in her pussy. Being Hyperspermia, I usually have 10+ cum shots when fucking and they shoot out of my cock really hard.

    • 🤤🤤🤤

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  • It varies from 1 to 3 or 4 before my guy finishes.

    • Damn

    • The one time I really couldn't walk the next day was the episode when I wore a full set of red underwear, including stockings, under a white button fronted dress. It was because of a suggestion by @EmmaMary!

    • I love the times where you're fcked so good that u can't walk a day or so

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  • During intercourse the girl has to cum first because the guy's penis has to be hard for her to orgasm. If the guy cums first then orgasming is just not happening for the girl.

    • Not really cause them cumming makes me cum. Its like an in sync feeling

  • Personally I like to at least once before he does, just to make sure I do. I mean guys typically once they've finished they're tired and done, and my guy will still try if I haven't yet, but I just can't be as turned on after he's finished because I know he's probably tired and just wants to be done lol.

    He also seems to wait for me to finish at least twice before he finishes, I always assumed just to double check that I did

    • I never realized thats prob why they want the girl to cum first, because theyre lazy after they do lmao

    • I wouldn't necessarily say lazy, I think they just legitimately get tired. At least in OUR case he does do like 99% of the work during it. Like I'll kinda fluff it up before we do it, but for him it's like a full body work out for at LEAST 20 minutes lol

  • My girl is typically worn out after one, but we're working on that.

    We've gotten to the point where she can go again, after a short break, so I generally give her one from oral, and then she works on me for a little while, while she "recharges." Then, while we're having sex, she gets another one.

    If I can time it so that we finish together, I do, but she usually gets the second one before my first.

    • Aww this is adorbs

    • Haha, thanks! 😊

  • Allow?
    The problem is, when a guy cums it's usually over. So, personally, I want her to orgasm repeatedly or continually while I fuck her. Hearing her sounds, seeing and feeling her body's reactions brings me to climax. If she still craves more, I can sometimes keep fucking her after I cum, and eventually cum again without pausing to rest. I've been known to keep going and cum a few times during a long session if she is really inspiring. But it's not a matter of "allowing". It all happens organically. The goal is to be spontaneous; carried away; out of control.

    • I say allow cause some people be edging and shit. Im not into that though. Mine will cum when it wants to cum. I just prefer he cum first 😂

  • to climax together is the prime thing, however that doesn't happen that often, however I always climax first, as I can still give my lover more, but if he climaxes before me I can be left wanting

    • Trueeee

  • Well my goal is at least one and the reason why I say it like that is because when I do that I take her there but then I back off and we started all over again and then I'll take you there again but if I do it just right I can take her there and it when she's having her orgasm if I can keep it in the second year and just keep going I can get her to have a second orgasm right after that and if I can keep myself right on that fence line and then just start pounding even harder I can get her to have a third one this is usually the way it works out with any girl that I'm with at that time but my goal is she has to have the first one no matter what but you have to understand that I like Marathon sex and so and the way I get that is to build it all the way up tear down Build It Up tear down and then just tear it up after that

    • I def prefer marathon sex

    • Lol. I was just going to become a smartass for a second and say yes me too but I wish it just didn't last that long LOL yeah it mean me it's a beautiful workout and I love taking the time to become one in the end it's just ten times more gratifying and beautiful in a bitter bonding experience when I feel that longevity of making it all about the person you're with

    • Better not bitter

  • I'm a virgin.

    • Me too

  • Hubby doesn’t have much or any of a refractory period if he’s not tired. So we’re good for a while, and a few each. I know I’ll get taken care of.

    • Lol but do you care which of you cums first

    • It doesn’t matter to me.

  • It takes me hours to cum so I want her to cum as many times as she can handle. I love when a woman is completely exhausted and content afterwards.

    • Hours to cum? Whyyy

    • Not exactly sure. It's always been that way. i just learned to make the best of it. I have come to enjoy the process far more than the conclusion. The women I have been with usually love it until we become a long term relationship and then they complain that no one could keep that up. It's a gift and a curse. lol

  • I have to have mine first 😁 then if I end up having more that’s even better but I need the energy to be right to be able to orgasm and if he was to finish before me he’d get all sleepy and the lust won’t be there and just eh it’d be like a cheap orgasm 😂 and I want that mind blowing one so yeah I’d rather have it while he hasn’t unloaded all that sexual tension 😁

    • y'all gotta pic better men or virgins or sumn 😂 virgins still be goin after they cum. They just so happy not to be a virgin no more

    • Virgins might be going after they cum but I bet their excitement level drops 😂 also it’s hard to find a man who doesn’t roll over when he’s done 😂

    • Nah the excitement stayed up. It would take at least a year to die down for beginners

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  • I'm not cumming regardless.

    My goal is make her cum first in foreplay, once in sex, and then however many before I get tired.

    • You just gotta have the right woman. YOU WILL CUM.

  • I usually cum very quickly, so I prefer to let her cum first.

    • Oh i understand

    • Because I cum quickly from penetrative sex I like to make her cum first during foreplay, by giving oral sex. I would like to make her cum from penetration before me.

  • Problem with your modus operandi is that you have to wait for a little while if he cums first.
    He could still touch and stimulate you, but penis... Mh. Time out.
    Having you girls come first allows for more... continuity, so to speak.

    • You dont know my exes. Never took longer than 2 mins for their dicks to be bakc up and running. We would go all day, no lie. But the next day i couldnt part my legs and they couldnt touch their dicks 😂

  • I don't know myself yet 😅 but it would depend on our sexual experience together. It would be a communication between us on what our sexual experience would look like

  • I only like to bust 1 time I’ve never actually did it twice in a session but she needs to bust at least 3 times in 3 different ways before me

    • Boy you a mess. You better learn to buss down thotiana 🤣

  • at least 10 times wasn’t a choice and i never put any pressure on her to cum it’s just about me enjoying my time playing sucking and toying with her body

    • Daaang

    • ❤️u should let me prove it

  • I don't think I'd be able to put a brake on that Desi... nature would do the job!

    • Hahahaa

  • The Mrs. can't orgasm more than once, it happened many times where she triples but the standard is one. So i give her the O and then returns the favor back

    • Maybe it changes with age

  • I like my partner to orgasm at least once before I do. But it's not a hard and fast rule because sometimes we just change up what we do. But the general idea is that it takes more time and attention for her to orgasm whereas I can always have mine easier.

    • That last part is true

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