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How to do a good filmed strip tease?

My bestie wants to get her ex back and I’m going to film her doing a strip tease to try to accomplish this. Ever made a good one? What advice do you have for us? Thanks!
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  • Well, the video idea to get him back is silly. For it to have any success at working, the key is in stripping, but not showing. Also repetitive words. I want you, I miss you, I love you, I need you, I want to feel you inside me. Say those while stripping and rubbing your hands over your body. It may take several takes, so make sure you have good battery life, some time, and a relaxed environment.

    Those rubbing hands need to be used in concert with movement so there are only flashes of what he wants to see. The goal here is manipulation, because there's no other way for this plan to succeed. A nipple is exposed all perky like for a second before turning to the side, maybe the hint of labia as a leg is lifted to move a blanket.

    You want it to appear shy and accidental. Every move and every word must be calculated though. I don't get why she'd want to get an ex back, or think her naked body would do it, it might get her laid by him again, but the only way to get more than that is to shift the power dynamic. You know the two of them better than I do, so beyond making him a drooling ravenous beast for her through a calculated manipulation, if he's young and single that is, you'd have to take it from there.

    If she's your age or older I'd scrap the striptease idea, take her out to a bar, and have some NSA fun with a younger guy to start the healing process. I'm not much younger, and I might enjoy the video, but the only person that could send such a movie with any request and have it move me in any way would be my wife.

    • She is a year older than me. She’s still having nsa sex with younger and older men, but she realizes she was in the wrong to break up with this guy. He works a lot and she wanted more time with him. Now that she has NO time with him she regrets breaking up. It told her not to do it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • Well, that is the price of making decisions, sometimes you make them and regret them. Tell her to give it time, he'll get in touch if he wants to get back together. If he doesn't, he won't. If she's the one who broke it off, sending the video would likely have an opposite effect than what she desires regardless of her looks. I'd be enraged if someone broke up with me because "I work too much" when being driven is probably a lot of what attracted them to me, then they send a video begging for me back. That would just trigger me to block them in every way possible in every media they could contact me through, with the only communication back being that this is unwanted, and further contact will be considered harassment. Make your decisions and stick by them, if you don't think them through, well, that's on her. You just have to watch her burn out on this one though. Be there with a bottle of wine or two for the crash lol

  • Without getting to if it's right or wrong to do so

    For your friend

    Good sexy clothes
    Neither to much more to less

    But revealing and showing good skin even before the actual strip begins

    Can make use of few props your comfortable with

    Do spice it up with Naughty gestures... Acts like playing with yourself... Lip biting etc to make it teasing for the viewer

    Good background music and sexy body moves with the beats

    Make sure the clothes are easy to take out and removing them come like flawless

    Don't rush on removing them too quick... And neither too late

    Show good amount of the body with each cloth you remove... As in the dance and body movement

    Make sure the undergarments are sexy


    For you (as recorder)

    Do capture the body movements well and make sure it looks sexy

    Do good use of zoom in and zoom out

    Make sure you record closely the sexy Duke with which she removes each part and camera should focus on the body part after removal for few seconds

    You can also try to give few seconds on the cloth removed (depends upon the flow... If you think that makes it sexier overall)

    • This update is now teasing me!!!

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  • Number one piece of advice is she should be "making eye contact" that is looking into the lens of the camera as much as possible. 80%-95% of the time.

    Second piece of advice is do some practice takes and adjust the lighting/sound according to how it turns out. Good lighting and sound can make a huge difference. I don't know if you are going to add sound after or have that ability for editing but that would be more professional and a better product. Reduce any outside clutter , make the scene just about her and whatever props she has like a chair, scarf, clothes, whatever. Don't do it in a messy or busy area like her bedroom. It would be better outdoors or make a small studio like in a garage or something. If it's a weird spot like the garage that's actually okay she could make it a theme like she's a mechanic and has a little grease smudge and mechanic uniform or something like that as an example. Then she could use the car (if you have a nice one) as a prop.

  • Sorry, I wish I could help, but I have a personal policy, never let anyone record anything that I would not want my entire family to sit around at Thanksgiving and watch together. Because eventually you’re gonna break up, and while you might be able to get that teddy bear you gave him to remind him of you, back. Your chances of you getting every single video back, along with watching him delete the stuff from his phone… Slim to none!

    • @crazygirl2 really good policy! In this case I make an exception as we’ve been together for 20 years. ❤️

    • And my friend is just wild. She doesn’t care if it gets out. Lol

    • Well, hell that’s longer than I’ve been alive! I guess if I’d been with someone for that long, I’d trust them too!

  • so what exactly do you want to know, how to do a strip tease or how to film it,
    I have done a few for husband and friend,
    clothing required-- sexy underwear but easy to take off, use buttons rather than zippers, zippers can catch, clips make sure they can be released easy,
    subject doing the strip for, his or her participation, a must in my opinion, some sort of contact good,
    filming, a good camcorder or two same with a camera, a tripod a must, set the tripod at nice comfortable and in a clear space, use another camcorder or camera for a few zoom ins but not fast zooms, and not too much zoom,
    hope this helps

    • I know nothing. Never done one like this. Never filled one. I think after she does hers I’ll do one too.

    • if you do make sure that your clothes can be removed easily, I don't think guys like girls that fumble with clips and zippers,

  • The best advice I could give you would be to get me to be your assistant you know just in case you have any questions LOL are the lighting's off you know what I mean can I have good lighting

    • Well you have to send me a picture of your legs because I have three songs but if you have nice legs at the ZZ Top she's got legs

    • And if you don't have nice legs how about the school bus song wheels go around school bus round and round LOL LOL

    • Or it has to be the hottest slowest song in the world in slow motion yeah I think that one

  • First, pick your location to add to the look of at minimum not be distracting. The, lightning. It should be soft yet offer maximum coverage. If you have a good camera, brighter lights and use filters to desired effect. She should wear her outfit based on appearance as well as ease of removal. Life lingerie, wear the panties over the gautier so she can keep her stockings on. Fantasy outfits are nice but requires more teasing. Don't rush, rehearsal is must and pick music accordingly. Make sure the music sounds good on camera at the film location.

  • It depends on the guy.

    You could have her just dance to music and slowly take her clothes off.

    She could take about how bad she wants him. Explain a slow teasing process to him. As she explains something new she takes a piece of clothing off.

    Maybe if you knew what kind of porn he watched might help. Let me know and we can come up with more ideas here.

  • I just wouldn't

  • Add lots of Michael Bay explosions.

  • If I was somebody's ex and she tried to get me back with such a thing, I'd get even more pissed at her.

    • He knows what she’s doing. He wouldn’t commit to telling her that he would never date her. He brought it on himself.

  • I'd probably watch the demi moore movie of the same name, It could be helpful

    How to do a good filmed strip tease?

  • Good camera someone who knows what they’re doing with a camera to film it

    • It was filmed on my iPhone and I am very happy with it. :)

  • start with lots of clothes, 3-4 layers. At first he'll think she's fat but if he watches long enough he'll get the illusion thats lost a lot of weight.

  • I dont know I haven't seen a pair of boobs in the flesh since i broke up with my first girlfriend.

    • When was that?

    • Begin of 2017.

    • That is a dry spell. I wish you luck.

  • As in any video production, lighting is very important. Also get the camera on a tripod.

    • what do you mean you are going to do it too?

    • I’ll film her, she’ll film me.

    • Film at 11?

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  • Make it as sexual as possible. Think of the dance of the 7veils.
    She dances flaunting her body. Taking one of her belt at a time. Getting more closer , similar to lap dancer. And finally taking off the last one revealing her prize to her man. A naked pussy..
    You can do the same with your clothes..

  • Lighting, sound, and camera angles...

  • Jamie Lee Curtis from True Lies or topless bar stripteases?

  • getting your ex back is never a good idea. however, if i give a shit about a person, a filmed strip tease is hot.

  • Haha I did. Light is everything. Music should be played in the background but when you edit it u can sub it to a song Ure adding in the editing so there won’t be echo. Let her feel loose and if Ure not doing it to her get out of the room and let her be alone and go crazy. Tell her to do it more than once and watch in between tries so she will learn from attempts. Good luck! Send results 😜😋

  • A good tease is a turn on. Most of the excitement for me comes from her attitude. She’s got a wry smile like she’s got a secret and her confidence is sexy. So make sure she feels turned on and doesn’t feel uncomfortable in any way.


    Otherwise it’s to go slow. Each layer can be hinted at, removed then put back on. I’m a boob guy so the cleavage or peeks of nipple and breast are where my eyes go. Something with a zipper is fun so she can show them then take them away. Even when she’s totally naked she can still tease by covering in a towel or sheet and slowly revealing again. Her movements can be to music and it’s really a slow dance.

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