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Do you personally NEED lube when it comes to sex/masturbation?

It shocks me to read on here how many people use lube because I dont know many in person who do lol. My exes and i never needed it for sex nor when i masturbated em. My old friends never mentioned needing to use it with their guys. Is lube just used when the girl isn't wet enough? Or is it for when you’ve gone too many rounds and start to dry out? Or is it just for when you use condoms? Even when my first ex and i used condoms the few times we did, we still never needed lube. I hope we never have to because i’d prob turn up allergic to it or sumn.
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When i asked about lube, i meant if girls use it on their guys, not themselves. Also, im glad my exes precame a lot and i was always wet so lube wasn't needed. Im not into anal so that didn't even cross my mind when asking this question. I was referring to vaginal sex only. I hate when girls/guys spit on a dick. I’d be turned off and put my clothes back on 😂 i think precum or the girls wetness is the best bet. Glad to see so many are old school and didn't need lube
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  • When we were younger, I don't remember using any lube during sex.

    Most of the time when masturbating, I'd just rub and rub, but it did hurt after awhile. Some times all I had was some Vaseline jell and I rub it on my hands and penis to make it slide easier, it did feel better.

    Later I found I could pump faster with more sensitivity with lotion or liquid lube.

    My penis feels more sensitive dry, but I can pump faster and easier with a lube and can get my rocks off faster.

    Some lubes are different though, some are liquid and others are jell some more sensitive than others, some dry faster and have to be reapplied more often, while some stay more silky feeling with less frequent applications. I love the more silky feeling while masturbating.

    My wife has gone through menopause and has had a complete Hysterectomy. So her Vagina always seems dry and it's hard to even finger her there. She uses different types of Vaginal Moisturizers and Lubricants, or I have to use lots of lubricants on my penis and rub on her pussy before I can try any penetration, fingers or penis.

    So yes,
    Some people may find it more sensual and sensitive.
    And others in later years may require it.
    So there is always a couple different lubricants on each of our night stands.

  • Girlfriend squirts a whole river. We never use lube and anal sex i don't like it. We do oral sex sometimes but foreplay takes most of the time.
    The kissing and cuddling is my favorite part. It gives off a sensual feeling arousing you more and more. You feel so horny at that stage. It just so fantastic but anyway everyone has his preferences

    However sex sometimes is more than just penetration its more like the experience both of you share and the bond.
    Anyway one can use lube if it improves his/her sexual life.

    • Yea im not into lube or anal either

Most Helpful Girls

  • I selected I used it but don’t need it. We’ve used it when we want a quickie. Definitely for anal sex. After my kids were born I needed it for a little while with sex. I currently don’t need it, but we use it for hand jobs.

    • Does he not precum a lot?

    • He precums a normal amount 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • Nope cause I got that WET ASS PUSSY

    • Nice me nether but ofcorse I have the opposite

    • Wait what?😂

    • When I'm horny and watching girls your age precum starts coming out of my penis like mad even if I'm not touching it its ridiculous and when I start jerking it oof precum splashes every where I make a huge mess

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  • Lube is used generally when using toys or going anal.
    For gay sex, lube is kinda essential. For lesbian, sometimes.
    For anal, i highly suggest you use it.
    Another factor to consider is age. The older women get, the less we produce our natural wetness. So erderly couple use lube.

    • Yea im not into anal and yea i prob would have to use it when older but im good atm

  • No, but maybe I should use, because when I masturbate a lot in a short period I do hurt my skin. OR maybe I should stop masturbating soo much... Not sure yet XD

    • Lmao

    • Oh, sorry ^^" I'm kinda new in this website I don't know how to identify if the questions is specific for guys or girls... But knowing that this was a question only for girls is in fact good, since I thought that many men where doing it without me knowing it XD. So, at least I glad that I wasn't wrong about that no being something usual, I guess ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Also, I still thinking about using it myself :3 That sounds useful

    • No the question was for gurls and guys to answer. But some girls were talking about using lube on themselves. I meant if girls used lube on their guy

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  • We use lube for anal sex, but never needed otherwise. Naturally so damned wet all the time.

    • I hear ya

  • I'm circumcised so sometimes when she's not wet enough, we use it. But that's very rare.

    I've used lube mainly when using fleshlight a couple of times.

    • Lol i thought fleshlights were only in porn

    • no desi, its an actual sex toy that got pulled into porn. one of the few sex toys geared towards men. men basically have 4 types of toys, pocket pussies (fleshlight being a type of pocket pussy) , cock rings (being a little generous calling these a toy for guys), sex dolls, and jack off/milking machines.

    • @magiusx26 Don't forget prostate massagers, Aneros etc.

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  • I used to use lube before I restored my foreskin, but now I never need it.

    • Well i dated both a circ and uncirc and neither ever needed it

    • My wife and I rarely used lube for sex before- it only came out when we were having a marathon session or something, but now we don't even need it then. For hand jobs, lube was a must unless it was just a brief part of foreplay, now there's definitely no need for it.

    • I guess we didn't need it during handjobs because they leaked precum like crazy. And we didn't need it during marathon sex because of his precum and mine

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  • No, and hopefully I won’t reach that point in my life for a long time 😂

    • Exactly like maybe age 65 when the pussy starts to retire but not now 😂

    • Makes me want to age backwards reading that 😭😂😂

    • 😂😂😂

  • I dated a lady for shy of a year who loved lube during sex. She had trouble getting wet, as it was just her nature. So for her it made sex amazing.

    • Ahhh okayy

  • I have used lube at times for sex. It feels great even if the girl is wet. I like a lube when I jerkoff it makes it feel way better.

    • Oh okay

  • I should order it by the case.

    • 😂😂😂

  • My partner likes a little lube for sex as it helps me to slip into her more easily.

  • The times I've used it, it generally made masturbating too slippery and much more challenging because I leak an insane amount of precum.

    • Ong thats so hot

  • I use lube, being on antidepressants and birth control messes with my ability to get wet sometimes. The more slippery the better 🥴

    • Ahhh i see

    • Let's not make people feel ashamed for something they have no control over 😊

    • Im not making them ashamed of anything. I meant what i said and im referring to those who use it because they “want” it. Not need it. I totally undersyand the guy who said its needed at an older age when she's not as lubricated anymore. I understood you when you said your meds affect you. But a lot of people use it just to use it

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  • I keep fingers crossed that my "waterfall" never runs dry.

    • 😂 ikr

  • I've yet to experience this yet but maybe not however, it might serve to enhance the experience 🤔

    • Only if ur girl ain't wet enough

    • Fair point

  • Some holes don’t self-lubricate. ... which obviously means you shouldn’t stick things in them🤔😬

    • Right. But im not into anal Anyways

    • Good! Smart

    • Very true

  • Sadly, as I get older my skin has become more sensitive and dry. I live in the desert. So I need lube. If I don't use it, my penis becomes too sensitive and reddish.

    • Oh wow

  • My juices are enough, straight from the fruit 🍉

    • Fruit of the loom 🤣

  • I dont need to apply lube, i spit on my dick and lube myself and go on with the game

    • Eww i even hate when they spit in porn

    • I dont find spit to have enough slide factor

    • @dizzydesii I didn't like it either at first, then I tried it once, and now i am okay with it.

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  • Not for masturbation, but yes for sex.

    • Whys that

    • Sometimes there's isn't enough of the natural product.

  • I not only don't need it but actually don't like it. I like the friction and don't like the feeling of lube. Different if it's her body fluids lol, but aside from natural ones.

    • How different does lube feel from her juices

    • Well not much, I still don't like it (the feeling), but it's different when it's that because it's coming from her enjoyment, not something we are putting there you know? That's the only wetness I want to feel, hers lol

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