I had my first time sex after marriage only – as it is our Indian tradition. It was really a pleasant thing and ultimate gift of my virginity to my husband. We had discussed about it before our marriage, planned about it and read almost everything we need to know about it. We had enjoyed it three times on first day, and we were enjoying it every day for next few days – without any waiting in-between. Congratulations on your new adventure, and I hope from now on you enjoy a fun, responsible sex life. Next time, use lube and lots of foreplay. Your partner may have been too hasty and inconsiderate the first time, which is why you may have it somewhat painful. Sex should feel much better as you get more practice with it and when you are not hurting from your very first time. Depending on the tear, I would suggest to wait for about a week to allow the skin to heal. You will probably know when you are ready again because it will not burn when you go pee and it will not bother you if you feel yourself with your fingers. You can also look at yourself with a mirror between your legs to assess the healing progress. Do make sure your hands are clean when you check yourself, and wash the area regularly with neutral soap. To prevent tearing your skin repeatedly or keep away pain you may use lubricant the first few times until your body learns to react properly and makes enough by itself - or every time you want to use it, if you happen to enjoy it.
I’m not saying I lost my virginity I’m saying I had sex with him for the first time
You may move on as you both are comfortable. It will be a great pleasure.
You've already waited long enough, if a guy treats you like this when he's dating imagine how he will treat you when you're his girlfriend
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