Is it right for a girl to share her sexual fantasy?

I have come across people expressing disapproval on a women's fantasizing about another men or women, being in a relationship is it wrong to have the urge to add other people in the sexual acts? What's your take?
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  • Some people don't understand the concept of sexual fantasy. I once told a girl I had a sexual fantasy. The fantasy involved doing something illegal. She did not understand that fantasy meant I had no intention of actually doing what I fantasized about. So she called the police who took me into custody for 12 hours to interrogate me and even brought in a psychiatrist to talk to me before letting me go. The psychiatrist advised I not date that girl again and reported to the police that I was not a danger and had no intention of committing any crimes and I was released but not before destroying my perfect attendance record at work which cost me a $1000 bonus.

    My advice is to be careful who you tell and what you tell them. The more extreme the fantasy the less you can trust people to not freak out. I only disclose my fantasies after a lot of talking to the other person to make sure they are not going to do like that girl did. You could do like I do and invent a much milder version of the fantasy and run that by someone you feel comfortable telling and see how they react. For example, if your fantasy involved horses you could point out a dildo the size and shape of a horse penis and tell that person you liked it and see how they reacted or you could say you wanted a guy hung like one. If she reacts by saying something like "Eww horse?" then don't go further. If she reacts by saying "Wow! that's hot!" then you might be safe to tell her you think about the real thing.

    Just remember that a fantasy is something that thinking about turns you on but you are unlikely to ever do or simply would never do period.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It comes down to the couple.

    in a relationship, it can be healthy sharing fantasies, or at least discussing them.

    I’ve shared in past with nearly all my girlfriends etc.

    talking to each other and importantly listening with both ears in a relationship is important.

    on social media it’s common for people to discuss their fantasies and play them out.

    this is where role play etc comes in to it.

    however fantasies are a personal thing and it’s up to the person what they share who with.

    fantasies can be really mild - a guy using a toy on a girl, to group sex or more.

Most Helpful Girls

  • it is not wrong to have the fantasy, but if one has it as a strong urge and not just as a fantasy (not all fantasies need to get real) then one should say that before going into a serious exclusive relationship. Including others in a sexual relationship is not strictly monogamous and you should not come in the middle of such and say you need other people in your sex life.

  • The only people who can decide that are you and your man. It's nobody else's business.

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  • I don't know if it's wrong or right but I do know that it is wrong for people to pill that a woman should not have sexual fantasies we all have sexual fantasies I have them all the time I'm single so that's the difference how do you say it do you think it's wrong or right

  • I don't see what the problem is. Sex talking is no invite nor it is indecent. Especially if done in a private situation or, like in this case, on the right platforms.
    There are surely more experienced people out there that can eventually give you advice that can come in handy too, so sure, ask and tell to your heart content.

  • It might be hot.

  • There are a couple of questions here. In my opinion it is not wrong for a girl to share he sexual fantasies and it is not wrong to have the urge to add other people. There is no normal.

  • so what is the fantasy exactly? Bringing another man or woman into the relationship? A Threesome?
    Being with a man or woman outside the bounds of the relationship? A specific person?

  • Completely normal and anyone saying otherwise doesn't have a brain or is some religious sheep. Expressing your thoughts and desires is a very normal and healthy thing to do.

  • Not 'wrong' per se, but don't think every little stupid idea that pops into your head should be verbalized. ESPECIALLY with your man.

  • Only if the sexual acts involve Girls with girls A lesbian sex party. 💞

  • Everyone has fantasies and there’s no limit. We don’t act on most fantasies but ok to share

  • Both partner's should be free to excited their fantasies

  • You've asked two opposite questions, the first one being "is it right" and the second one "is it wrong." Then you added a poll, so now the poll results will not be accurate because some people will answer the first one and some will answer the second one.

    Someone who thinks it's right to for a girl to share her fantasy and who doesn't thinks it's wrong to have the urge to include others could answer either yes or no.

    That being said, I think girls should be able to share their sexual fantasies, I don't don't it's inherently wrong to have the urge to include others in your sexual escapades, but I wouldn't want that for my relationship and if my girl did I'd like become much less attracted to her. Not that's it's wrong, it's just not for me and my relationship.

  • Its not wrong to fantasize.

  • Which asshole voted No

  • Of course not! We're all sexual being and have drives. Whoever says that lives on a different planet or is like super religious lol

  • It as a human thing good or bad men do it why can't women have the same feelings

  • Wife shared hers with me. I was able to get them achieved.

  • It is NOT wrong

  • Of course

  • Add as many people into it as you like. You never know if someone else is into it as well if you don't tell them

  • No, There is no specific bound to sleep only with one. Everything is created by us (Humans) for our own security reasons.

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