Have you ever had unprotected sex qith a "stranger" ?

[Arronna]

[Anonymous]

Well, I have had one night stands with a few women that I did not know well. In fact, I recently learned that one of those women is the mother of a child I did not know that I had.

This sounds like a bad soap opera, I know. I was recently contacted by a woman who I had a one night stand with. She told me that her 14 year old son is my son. (A test has confirmed it.) She had been raising him on her own all these years, but decided that I ought to know that I had a son. The hard part being that she does not want me to tell him that I am his father because she does not want his life to be disrupted.

For my part, I want to be in my son's life, but I think his mother has a point. My son is just entering his high school and college years and he needs a normal childhood and teen years. So I have not decided what to do, but my girlfriend - our children are 9, 8 and 6 by the way - has been nothing but supportive.

In all of this, I should add, that the mother of my 14 year old son has been very civil and seems to have done an excellent job raising our son.

Anyhow, I digress, but as you can tell, the answer is "yes." I have had unprotected sex with a "stranger." That is if "stranger" is defined as a woman that I had known maybe four hours.

That said, I'm a different guy than the one who slept around all those years ago - and I have to admit that now I wonder if I don't have other children I might not know about. (I tend to doubt it, but I guess it is not impossible.)

However, I have lived with my current girlfriend for over ten years and we have three little Munchkins whom I love with all my heart. (We are not married by choice.) Bottom line though, I enjoy sex and had plenty of it - but I learned a lot and am luckier than maybe I deserve to be.

[Andres77]

Many times.
And when I was with prostitutes in my youth, even though I'd use condoms to fuck them I'd still eat their pussies first.
Stupid, I know, but I wanted it to be fun for them too.
They would have a look of such disbelief on their face as I'd start to move my face toward their pussies and have a look of such appreciation after they came in my mouth.

[chrissykerdock]

only blowjobs and i did swallow their cum... with a stranger from time to time.

[douride2]

I have never had sex with a stranger let alone unprotected sex.

[Emii_Urashima]

Yes, but but not with a guy. I have to know a guy a while before I do that.

[katiesmuff]

Yes I have!

[bobalife]

Nope, it would be a bad move.

[Paolaa988]

Never had sex period.

[OlderAndWiser]

A few of them were kinda strange!

[Tyrael]

Yeah a couple of times, though I'm generally quite careful and I don't make a habit of it.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yep, breaking my own rules on a number of occasions.

its not a clever thing to do.

[Red_Arrow]

Many years ago. But that was before STDs became so dangerous.

[summiter]

Yes but I regretted it

[desidoll]

No, I need to know him first.

[spartan55]

That's classified.

[Leavesbound]

Yes and regretted it.

[The_Maphio]

Happened indeed. Typical pump & dump.
Mindless fun borne of a complicit situation. Got lucky and never got any venerial from any of that.

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[anonbrunette99]

No..

[PYTcassiaxo]

Yes lol

[Stephbs2]

Neveeeeeeeeeeer!

[Sevenpointfive]

does spending the day with them make them a stranger?

[Apope16]

How do you define a stranger? Like a hookup? No. But someone that I have start exclusively had sex with for a few months? Yes. I would say now days after there is some discussion with the lady where she indicates that I am the only one she is seeing... that is when I start my pull out game which is solid. I am not worried about pregnancy. Only about STDs.

[TheBigGuy9]

Someone you just met that night

[helva]

Never.