Lately I've been feeling very guilty because the kind of porn videos that I jack off to are very rapey If thats a word and I know that this is very wrong and I try to suppress myself towards this but it's almost like I can't control myself when I'm on the website and can't just jack off vanilla porn anymore. The videos I watch later make me feel very disgusted with myself, seeing a woman act as if she was forced to do it and cry makes me feel very sad after finishing myself. I'd appreciate if someone might give me a solution to this.
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Snowberry_sunshineXper 1
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I think aslong as you know you won't actually rape or disrespect women in real life, it is probably okay and just a fantasy.
However, porn has many negative effects to it. One is as you pointed out, that vanilla porn isn't enough and you need to go to something harder. This is a real issue with porn, because when you get caught in that spiral, even having sex with a real adventurous women might not satisfy you anymore. Men who watch a lot of porn can develop problems getting hard, and almost all men end up not being able to be as hard for as long. It also makes men view women more aa objects and less human, and can make it so you give up more on pursuing real sex, or you may lose interest in normal sex and be less able to please the woman unless she too has a porn problem.
Most of my opinions on the matter come from both talking to various men, and my own sexual experiences. I have dated many men - from having full porn addictions ( they would regularily turn down even blow jobs from me and I couldnt turn me on) But then I knew it was the porn and not me, as I've been with men who refrain from watching it to prevent these negative effects and they thought i was amazing in bed, couldnt get enough of me, and told me i was like a porn star. One guy I am currently with loooves porn but tries his best to keep busy and not watch it. He gives in to watching it at the most once a month... and you know what? We have the best sex I have ever had in my life. No problem he can orgasm, then almost immediately keep going for another 2 hours.
So, maybe look into detoxing (reddits no fap could be of support) and then finding a real woman to play out these rape fantasies with... you would be suprised with how many women like forced, aggressive (but consensual) sex!!
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NikolaiIvanov
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I'm not even sure if I want to try that or not, I've only been with one person and still am yet and yeah in terms of just plain release it wasn't so good as she was squirming too much and I fealt it was more about her satisfaction than mine. Currently it's 'trendy' to be kinky so we both agreed to try out the smoking kink were we make our with smoke in our mouths and like burn her thighs with a burnt cig and stuff truth to be told we both didn't like it and just ended up mutually masturbations and cuddled until it was time for me to go back. Personally I don't want to try out other stuff with other people ever even because before liking this type I was more into pregnant porn I don't know why but a pregnant woman is attractive to me that's why me and my girlfriend have decided that we should try to work this out after our teenage years even and start a family when we get on our own two feet that's something we both agree on.
Anonymous
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Not healthy. It’ll affect your health and future relationships I guarantee.
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