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If you liked someone but they randomly sent you a nude, would you still pursue them if what you saw was disappointing?

RANDOM SCENARIO— The two of you are not dating yet. But they decide to be all cocky and randomly send a nude. You’re not impressed by what you see. But you just thank them for the nude anyways (or angrily tell them to never to do that again without asking). Do you continue to pursue them, knowing their naked body (chest, tummy, ass, genitals, etc) turns you off?
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MY THOUGHTS— Not only do nudes do nothing for me, but if i find myself not attracted to it, then the whole image of the guy is ruined. I need to be attracted to the whole appeal of the diick (the color, shape, and if its veiny, scarred, circ/uncirc, short/long, slim/thick/fat, etc.) Im not a size queen but I’m also not into “trying before buying”. If you see someone nude before You’ve committed to them and Find yourself no longer attracted, you have every right to not want to continue pursing. But I’d never tell someone thats why i’m stopping what we started. Thats kinda mean. And if I’m already dating the person (before having seen them nude) and i already love them, then I’d stick around in hopes it grows on me. If it doesn't, then i would leave. Sounds shallow, but thats how i see it. You gotta have a pretty diick in order for me to want to suck it.
I’d still pursue because looks dont matter
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I’d still pursue because looks dont matter as much
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I’d still pursue because maybe they’d grow on me
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I’d still pursue because i find myself unattractive as well
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I would not still pursue because they stooped low by sending a nude of themselves, especially when i didn't ask for it
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I would not still pursue because what i saw, i found unattractive unfortunately
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I would not still pursue them if i found them unattractive even if i claimed to love them or have already had sex with them
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For those who dont understand, let me change the scenario... Lets Say you asked for a nude but y'all aren't officially dating yet. He/she sends it but you find end up finding their body/parts unattractive. Would you still pursue them in the long run or eventually find an excuse to end it
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Yep most of you are on the right track. The main question is really focused on looks and sexual compatibility. Would you still want to have sex with or give oral sex to something you find revolting? The underlying issues are that of, is the person lacking class for randomly sending a nude... and how many other people do they easily expose themselves too.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • it depends on what it is that I don't like, but I don't like really fat vaginas and tons of lips everywhere that it looks like she sat on a grenade, so if I saw that I wouldn't pursue her because I just don't like that, and its not her fault its just my personal taste in women, now if I had known her for a long time or we were good friends that wanted to try to be intimate and then I found out about that, then I would probably overlook that and go ahead with it knowing that we all have imperfections and no ones perfect and Id still be with her. But just some random girl having huge meat curtains, or a huge clit, no thanks

    • Lmao exactly you get my point. Like if we were together before i saw it, i’d try to deal. Bt if i see it before we’re together, ima pass lmao

    • exactly!

  • I've got a wide variety of what I find attractive, so aside from maybe some obvious hygiene issues, I probably wouldn't have stopped persuing her or him. Now if it's too early it might indicate to me that all they were in it just for sex or even just online exhibitionism so that might turn me off of them, and conversation context also would have a lot to do with that. If our conversation had turned very hot and heavy it probably wouldn't turn me off nearly as much as if we were discussing hobbies or our favorite music.

    • So you feel it’ll just grow on you if u didn't like what u saw?

    • If the relationship is moving in the right direction, yeah. I've been with a whole range of body types, multiple genders, cut, uncut, curvy, boyish, etc.

    • I do still have physical preferences, and if it was a match that was only meh, but I was giving it some time to see where it went, it would have some weight on if I kept giving it time or not.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Same gravy boat. If I’m talking to a guy and he randomly sends me pictures that change me appeal to him, I gotta end that there. It’s shallow but hoping they might appeal to me someday doesn’t sit right with me. Imagine dating someone for years only to one day say you want to break up because you didn’t like his chest hair and only stick around “hoping you’ll grow to love it”

    • Lmao exactly 😂 but i can't break his heart by saying, “im leaving you fause yo dick ain't pretty” 🤣 i’d be like “we’re just too different”

    • That’s cause you’re nice. 😆 I’d probably say “I don’t think I want to continue this relationship” but a few days later. Not the same day as the nudes.

    • 🤣🤣 not 😌

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  • Being cocky is a huge turnoff for me. I have been grossed out by a crush before when they sent me nudes, I felt shallow tbh. I just stopped wanting them and turned it into a friendship. I hate random nudes from people I haven't taken that step with

    • I fully agree with all of this. But i wouldn't even want to be their friend after

    • I agree on that too. I've lost so many guy friends because I dont want to be around them after they pulled that, makes me feel uncomfortable usually.

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  • I’d still give them a chance. Pics can’t tell you how the chemistry is going to be.

    • Even if i have chemistry with them, i need to hae chemistry with the dick too. If i marry him, i marry the dick too. 🤣

    • @dizzydesii yes, but just because it doesn’t look pretty doesn’t mean it won’t feel amazing.

    • I have to like the look of it to want to jerk it off and taste it. Its about more than just penetrative sex for me

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  • Only if he was attractive and had a sense of humor, and not to mention he at least has a brain and uses it then yes I would pursue. But where I’m at now isn’t something I’d change. 💕

    • Sounds good

  • If someone I was genuinely interested in and felt a genuine connection with suddenly sent me an unsolicited nude I would immediately be turned off wondering how many other guys she's sending nudes to as well so, no, I would not pursue.

    • Exactly

  • Desii can't stop laughing this Question must be for girls only, because for me there's no way I could be disappointed if a girl send me a picture like I've always said it's about the inside that I care about the outside is just an extra bonus I think it's funny and in some weird way makes me want to send you a picture LMAO for no major reason just to do it

    • Lmao stop laughing. And its for girls and guys to answer. Guys are picky too about how girls boobs and stuff look

    • WHAT? what stuff when did girls get stuff, WTF how come I'm the last guy to know any of this LOL

  • A guy I’ve just started talking to, or in the early stages, sending me a nude would seriously turn me off.. no matter what it looked like. I only like to send and receive stuff like that when I’m already together with someone. Sending a nude gives me f***boy vibes.

    • Right on

  • not if it was disappointing no

    • Hahaha

  • "grows on you"...😂😂😂😂

    • Or in you 😂

    • You crack me up... 😂😂

  • I wouldn´t keep pursuing even if I was attracted by what I see because I´ve made experience that seeing a girl naked before I get to know her closely lowers my interests in getting to know her. If I get to see her while dating her everything can be ruined because of my porn history.
    Because after I´ve seen her naked I will remember that pic of her and every time she will send me texts or other pics the picture of her being naked will come back to my mind.
    So when ever I´m dating I have to ask girls to promise me that they don´t send me nudes before we are actually committed being in a relationship.

  • I couldn’t be thrown off by what he has in any way. Okay unless he’s really big lol but then I’d just try and work with it, I wouldn’t cut him off. However I’d get upset at the fact that he thought it’s okay to send me nudes. If I stop talking to someone it’s their personality that turned me off.

    • I understand

  • Doesn’t matter the size or their body just that I didn’t ask for one so it kinda shows the level of respect they actually have for you. But think about it if you’re not gonna reciprocate it and they are already in the mood what are the chances of them going off and finding someone that will “help them out” ?

    • Soooo true

  • Disappointing. If she does that with me, it's not far fetched to believe that she does that with other people, and complimenting her, even while engaged, could trigger a boob picture reaction without a second thought. Beware of exhibitionists, dudes, unless you're cucks.

    • Haha i hear ya

  • To me, it's not about that. It's about the person. That's only a part of them and a small part. If I loved the person and had fun with them, the quality of their V is not something I would think about, because it's at that point where love is deeper than that.

    • you're gonna stay in a relationship where you may not be sexually compatible

    • Sexually compatible is an interesting way to put it, I'd say sexually acceptable, can you both have sex, is it possible? I think that love for each other should outweigh sex but overall, sex can be an important thing to consider. I think it really comes down to compromise, can you compromise and accept each other enough to make it work.

    • I wouldn't have sex until i was in love. But i want to see their privates long before i consider sex with them. Still, we have to be dating for me to even see them nude. I dont like receiving nudes so it’ll be in person

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  • Oh hell no. That gets you blocked immediately.

    • Exactly

  • it depends if there down to hit the gym with me lol

  • I voted B: they matter but they're not the main thing. If I feel a real click I'll still try to hook up 😄

  • Why it’s best to not send nudes to someone you barely know or to someone you haven’t even met in person , a lot of people in today’s world are very judge mental and constantly compare each other , thanks to the lovely world of Social media brain washing People to think you need to look a certain way to be accepted , and putting images in peoples heads on how someone is supposed
    To look , not realizing 95 percent of people we see on tv and social media are air brushed or computer imaged or filtered to look a certain way. , when you put down your phone or computers and tv and look at the world around you , you will realize not everyone is a model and that’s what’s wrong with people today , when someone chooses image over a heart that relationship won’t last , you are living in false reality.

    • Its not about thinking you should look like a model, but its about wanting them to look like what you find attractive. I dont want a model but if i dont find them attractive, im not gonna stay with them. Its bad enough they sent a nude, having the nude be disappointing as well is a lose lose situation

    • When I look at a girl that I find beautiful, I look at her eyes and her smile , the body is somewhat important but not as Important , just because she doesn’t have the boobs I like or the ass that I like , it doesn’t mean I wouldn’t want to to be with her sometimes are perceptions of someone are way too far fetched , and we limit ourselves to what we like or don’t like , which in the reality of it and in most cases it’s silly to do. If we as people Can’t accept someone’s flaws, and only accept people that fit are perceptions you probably will never experience true love, When we choose looks over the heart you are pretty much playing with fire , Now don’t Get me wrong yes you have to be somewhat attracted to someone to even get to what we are talking about , So did this guy just randomly send you a nude or were you talking to him for a while? If you were Talking To him for awhile , you must of found him somewhat attractive if he was able to grasp your attention correct? Now if this was some random guy sending you a nude then I can see why you weren’t attracted , We all aren’t perfect people so when we limit ourselves to perceptions you more Than likely will end up with a complete asshole , So a lot of times it’s best to move Your perceptions aside and look at someone’s heart and personality , Just because someone is beautiful on the outside doesn’t mean they are beautiful in the inside. That’s why growing up we all pretty Much heard the term Never judge a book by it’s cover , So again perceptions are pretty Much stupid to stick with , I was turned down by a girl cuz I didn’t have a beard? Like how retarded is that lol

    • I’d turn down a guy who HAS a beard 😂 if he's willing to shave it then fine but most are not willing to shave it

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  • If we haven't exclusively talked about our sexual feelings towards each other and they didn't ask first... I don't think I would like them anymore. I feel like it might say something about them.

    • I fully agree

  • I would stop pursuing them, but not because I didn't find them attractive but because I wouldn't want to pursue someone who randomly sends people nudes.

    Ok so with the update, I would probably still pursue them because I care more about them as a person than how attractive I find their body.

    • Yea i dont want someone sending nudes either

  • I would still pursue because maybe I liked her enough, and it would grow on me.. Although, unless she was obese or had a very weird shaped body, I wouldn't be disappointed.. 😂..

  • If they didn't ask if they could, then I'd immediately stop talking to them. Big turn off.

    • Right

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