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If touching a little girls boobs is sexual abuse, then why is it not sexual abuse to spank her or sometimes parents will smack there butt or somethin?

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  • When a parent snaps her son/daughter's butt it isn't meant as sexual, but as a punishment for something done. The butt is sensible, but you need a lot of strength to actually hurt it due to fat and the muscle there. So, the kid will feel pain, but nothing else.

    • i understand but its weird... its still a female

    • not true wen i was 8/9/10 spankings from my dad gave me erections sometimes

    • It doesn't matter female or male. Both have butts, both do bad things.

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  • I wish it was as easy as that... my old girlfriend stepdad would pull down her pants and spank her for 20+ min and between spanks he would rub her pussy from behind... this carried on untill she was 15... her mom did nothing... she eventualy told her councler at school and the police were called they did nothing becouse it was a spanking... just after 16 she broke into a nabours house and was brough home buy the police and he spanked her then fucked her... she ran away becouse of this lived on the street... for years... There’s a fine line between spanking and sexual abuse.

    • yeah if he was rubbing her pussy thats clear evidence it was sexual abuse

    • those cops are corrupt and should be reported

Most Helpful Girl

  • There is literally no sexual intent when a parent uses physical punishment towards their children. Not that I condone violence towards children. It think it's disgusting. But there's nothing sexual about it.

    • i hear u but its weird tho and can u explain how butt different than boob here... breast aren't sexual eitehr until puberty but ur still not supposed to touch a little girl there. you dont even have breast u just have skin there and a nipple its like nothing. its just like boys. but you still know something is different. and you didn't answer abnout the s pinching or grabbing or smacking as a joke or whatever. i didn't just mention spanking.

    • Your question said nothing about pinching or grabbing. And I explained what the difference is. The difference is intent.

    • Agreed with original poster, its all about intent. Smacking of the behind is because the natural fat stores protect from any actual damage, but the actual 'shock' of the act of physical discipline helps to cement in the mind causality (I did something wrong, this is the result). As for joking or pinching, I can't speculate, as it has never occurred to me... o. o

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  • This is so fucked up lmao.

    • i think both could be thats all im saying

  • It's only sexual when dad wears his gimp suit

  • You're confusing spanking as a sexual practice with a spanking as a negative reinforcement. maybe before talking about education, pull your head out of the gutter, mh?

  • That's abusive too, but it's not sexual.

  • Guess who's still learning about guardianship and consent?

  • Lol wtf 🤣

    Okay let's look at this from a different perspective..

    Touching boobs... Not cool.
    Spanking butt... Partly ok apparently.
    Touching butt... Not cool.
    Spanking boobs... Probably not ok.

    So why is spanking the butt kind of acceptable as punishment but if you linger with your hands a bit by touching a butt then all of a sudden that's bad?

    So then spanking the butt should be bad too, I think

  • I believe that spanking kids does not help and all it does is make them turn bad and some could be rebellious against the parents and I believe giving time out is what could help and I think any parent who turns a spanking into anything sexual should be placed in jail cause that is just no good

  • YOU ARE AN IDIOT! Parents aren’t taking pleasure in slapping someone’s ass. This day though not many are pulling down their kids pants and doing that. It was usually a belt too.

  • If they are spanking her to get a sexual thrill, then it is wrong.. If it is to discipline, it is not.

  • Because that's disciplining your child.

  • The intent behind it

  • Those are 2 completely different kinds of touching, and for different purposes.
    Touching around a little girl's boobs could be done with the intent of "tickling", which has always been acceptable. And spanking also has always been acceptable and sometimes necessary

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