Guys, Boyfriend isn't turned on by my biggest kink?

He said the name "daddy" doesn't really excite him and it's my biggest turn on
Guys, Boyfriend isnt turned on by my biggest kink?
Ending the relationship isn't an option by the way so doesn't even suggest it
Get over it
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Try to ease him into it
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  • Try to ease into it. Tell him "I wanna be your good girl" adke him how to be a good girl just keep calling yourself a good girl then when it starts to get hot and heavy then start calling him daddy or say things like "I am daddy's good girl" or give it to me daday" stuff like that then he might start to give in and like it especially if it really turning you on. I had a girl call me daddy and I didn't like it at first but I started it when she was being cute with a cute voice and saying "I want to be your good girl."

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  • My suggestion is to let it go for now, and potentially bring it up at a later date, like a much later date. Like a few months, if not more. Sometimes things grow on people. I've had things I genuinely disliked at one point that I later ended up liking. If you try to immediately ease him into it, he will feel like you're disregarding his feelings and that won't settle well with him. In my opinion, the best option is to accept it now, and bring it up again later when you two have had more time to bond and explore less-than-appropriate topics, where you two are more comfortable and at ease with these things.

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  • Get over it or get over him.

  • I would hazard a guess whatever you say, it’s the time and how you say it..

    • Tone not time grr Tone and how you say it

  • I’m not really into things of that nature either. The best thing for you to do is try to find a kink that you can both share, who knows you might find someone you like more than the “daddy” stuff. Hope this helped :)

  • It's not like you asking to take a dumb in his mouth. Honestly "daddy" is very simple. I am sure he can build a bridge and let you have your kink. Relationships are about compromise and keeping each other happy, "Daddy" is like the easiest way to keep you happy.

  • I like that it's cute and funny ,, I say that because at first I didn't like it either but I understood the concept of it I love it LOL I try to is it into him. I guess you could say that. You can't can't just break up with me because of that you should have been training him a long time ago LOL

  • lol, why ''daddy''. Do you have daddy issues? Is he a lot older than you?

  • I'd wait, maybe over time as he warms up to you, he will warm up to being called daddy

  • I got called Daddy 😁 it made me feel good! His loss i suppose

  • I don't know, even means the same. Daddy doesn't excite me but when I hear "Papi" ooooh man 🤣🤣.

  • Does he realize you don't mean it (I assume) in an incesty sort of way?

    • yes he knows, although I wouldn't mind him being my dad and banging me

    • You watch too Much porn give no credit to actors. Yet it ain't real hun. It's all acting. Don't fall in love with your pops. Ewww.

    • @DaMack999 can you fuck off already like pretty please

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