How do you feel about women on OnlyFans/social media, making lots of money and gaining lots of attention via objectifying themselves?

[Anonymous]

To be 100% honest, OnlyFans and social media, where women use their bodies to receive money from men is perhaps the ultimate form of objectification.

And the women do this to themselves, I don’t think it’s healthy for the women and I don’t think it’s particularly healthy for society.

Now, good news is, the vast majority of women do not do this.

Why is it bad? Well, like technology in general, especially cellphones, it can stiffen, hamper, prevent, or shatter in-person interactions.

How we see other humans and interact with them without technology can be negatively affected.

Just like how porn desensitizes people to sex, where it can have adverse effects on intimacy, expectations of sex with your partner, further objectification of women, etc.

Men pay unreasonable amount of money to these women, probably because these men are desperate, lack social skills to interact with women in-person, have no ambition or motivation in life, etc.

The women aren’t really better, they’re hypocrites. They objectify themselves, yet are rude and/or get mad when a man wants to give them attention, private message them, etc.

Everything in this formula is bad so it naturally produces a bad product.

Simp loser men+low quality rude women=Bad shit

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

The very first time I heard of Only Fans, it was from a gay guy that used to follow on IG. He would always post pictures of him like half naked with a cowboy hat covering his junk. Captions were always something like "follow my OnlyFans to see the rest". And I used to wonder wtf it was but never looked further into it. Fast-forward to like a year later and its all the rage. And still, I see just as many guys promoting it as I see girls. This isn't really anything knew tho. Cam girls have been around forever.

[Asker]

Well, why do you think these men promote it? So, more women can do it. Women objectifying themselves benefits men. I think historically, this has been evident. Just because women can make money on it, doesn’t mean it’s suddenly good... Good for the women, good for society, etc. Nope

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

I mean guys are promoting their OWN Only Fans. I'm not sure why you seem to only have a problem with the girls that use it but ok.

[Asker]

Because it’s obviously a disproportionate thing... You really think OnlyFans is associated with men more than women? Also, women make more on OnlyFans for obvious reasons. I didn’t even know men really had a presence on OnlyFans, let alone make a lot from there.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Lol bc you don't care to know

[Asker]

Or because it’s obviously disproportionate Main sellers: women Main buyers: men The other way around? Not even close

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Ok sir.

[Asker]

Good talk ma’am

[Shamalien]

You come off as very dishonest. Onlyfans has how many male creators compared to female? It’s female creators male subscribers that is 90% of users at least

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

@Shamalien Idc how i come off to you or anyone else. The FACT is that there are men that have OnlyFans pages. Whether or not there are more or less than females, is not my point.

[Asker]

@ShaTTeredMasterpeace It makes all the difference...

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

To you. Because you clearly don't have a problem with men earning money from it. It's just women that you think are objectifying themselves right? And you don't have any issues with the men that are actually paying to see these women right? Just say you're an incel and go.

[Asker]

Did you not read my question? Read it again, so you can see what I say about the men.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Ah, you called them simps. Cool.

[Asker]

That’s not all I wrote. Next time, read everything so you can give an intelligent answer

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Next time ask an intelligent question and you'll get an intelligent answer instead of bitching about trivial bullshit. Thanks!

[Asker]

🧐😶😑

[Ellie-V]

I usually observe in silence. People are just... interesting

[Asker]

Very true. I’m the same way, where I don’t say much a lot of the time. I just listen and observe. Humans are interesting

[Truthatanycost]

They should call that site what it is... OnlySimps. Both taking part in this fake connection will lose out in the end. All of our actions leaves a mark on our soul, and there is no such thing as quick money. There is always a price to pay!

[Tomsta]

An age old marketing slogan "Sex Sells"

[Tomsta]

If thats what you wanna do. Then its your decision. Just be preparred to hear the "you made your bed now lie in it" line a lot

[Asker]

Yeah, I agree with that. I’m not saying it should be illegal or that people shouldn’t be allowed to do it if they really want to. I’m just saying, just because you CAN do it, doesn’t mean it’s what you SHOULD do, or that it is the right thing to do.

[MzAsh]

I think if a woman has made a cautious, informed decision to take on this as an occupation, then she should go for it. She should do as she pleases. People will judge her of course but she shouldn’t be concerned what others say. My only piece of advice would be to create a plan for when the market falls. OnlyFans may be hot right now, but it’s not sustainable for the long term.

[MindYourEyes]

Ehhh I mean if that’s what people wanna do then good for them. But looks don’t last forever. it’s basically a short term quick money making market. I doubt a good chunk of em aren’t playing the stock market/ investing and saving. Because eventually someone else is gonna always look better and then poof. The money isn’t as much as before!

[Agape93]

If that’s what they want to do, then go for it. Full support. Same if they choose to do anything else to make their money.

[WowwGirl]

🌺🌺🌺

[Gwenhwyfar]

I don’t do this nor do I recommend it for other girls but it’s their right to do that if they want to. It’s a free country.

[sheikalana]

They're hustlin.

[Asker]

Probably some of them

[OliviaOfTheScots]

Do agree with the objectification part however guys do it anyways why not make money from it.

there's a lot of reasons as to why women do it mostly with making ends meet, if thats what breaks society then it's a shitty society to begin with.

You're writing this from a phone so🤷🏻‍♀️

While porn can have those effects it's also a lot of peoples outlet and can help develop a healthy sexual relationship

Again I agree but a lot has to do with my aforementioned point about making ends met and not lack of ambition

Her accepting being objectified as part of a "job" doesn't mean she has lower expectations or that not replying to messages makes them rude women

[Asker]

Yeah, I’m writing this from a phone so what? I still talk to people in-person plenty... Also, I don’t make/support porn, OnlyFans, etc... Also, just because you can make money from it, doesn’t mean it’s what you should do. That logic doesn’t make sense. I think these women can indeed develop getting used to being rude with people online, where it translates to negative interactions with people in-person. Or at least it creates a weird space, where you wouldn’t be this rude to someone in-person, so why do it online? They’re not any less of a person are they? Also, I don’t believe in the “it’s the only way I can make money” excuse.

[OliviaOfTheScots]

As do most people didn't say it's what you should do I'm saying it's an easy way of making income to support yourself. I was basing it on how you defined rude as not replying to messages, but when it comes to in person I dont know what you consider rude but everyone has a cunt streak nowadays. And the weird space applies to EVERYONE on the internet And didn't say it was, am saying it's an easy convenient way of making some money

[OliviaOfTheScots]

Just to add I'm not advocating every person starts an onlyfans and that if you're struggling to make ends meet you should do it, just saying as to why a lot of people who do have an onlyfans do it for those reasons

[Asker]

Obviously, if it’s what you need for survival, then do it to live... I just don’t think that is the case for the vast majority of those on OnlyFans. At all. I just think, women objectifying themselves benefits men. Historically, this has been true. A woman making some money from this, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s good for her. A lot of things we do in life can rewire our internal circuitry. Technology in this aspect can certainly do so. How we interact with people, how people see certain things, assumptions about things and people, etc. It shouldn’t be illegal, but it’s obviously not good for a lot reasons. I don’t think it’s ever a good thing to want to make money from unreasonable and/or desperate people’s desires and wishes. I think this can have unforeseen disastrous effects.

[OliviaOfTheScots]

Really isn't as deep as you think It is

[Asker]

Everything in life can be explained in a deeper manner, solely depends on how educated people are... What do you think of when you see a star? “Oh, cool glowy thing from outer space.” But, you know a scientist in that field can describe to you exactly what is is. The chemical composition, origin, etc. All I’m saying is, the vast majority of women haven’t subscribed to this, which is good. Why is it that men and women always seem to have some distaste towards women when she is discovered to do porn, sell her body online, etc. It’s something biological, innate. We don’t feel good about a person when we discover this about them. Not back in time and even today. Why are some of us trying to normalize or talk good on it?

[OliviaOfTheScots]

No one is trying to talk good about it, the general consensus is letting the individual do what they like

[Asker]

But that isn’t the point... Yes, people should do what they want to... I’m trying to have a discussion about the negatives of this so that people can better decide what they’re doing. It’s like smoking... Yes, you can smoke, Should you? If not, why not? I’m telling you the why. Get it?

[OliviaOfTheScots]

People are pretty clear about onlyfans

[Asker]

You don’t get it.

[karolaga]

I won't do it but i do think it's a smaRt move. We all have different life skills. If a girl is pretty and knows how to work it off and get financial freedom by doing so while also being aware And fully accountable for any consequencea that's great ! Also as an adult i learned you don't get far by judging others life choices because their choices might be different than yours.

[Browneye57]

Yep, needy and desperate. What a delightful combination.

[Feelicks]

Judy makes me wish I could get in on those simp dollars

[TheFlak38]

More than a century of feminism and they still choose to whore themselves.

[Asker]

Fortunately, the vast majority of women haven’t subscribed to this. When you do your research into this stuff and check a lot of it out, it’s like, yes, these women are attractive, but you don’t feel attracted to them if that makes sense? It’s like, there can’t be any good that comes out of this for the general public/society. I think we’re actually seeing negative effects as time goes on.

[TheFlak38]

if they're not on only fans then they're on tinder or instagram or any of the other ten thousand apps designed to elevate their vagina to the most astronomical heights. makes no difference.

[Asker]

Yeah, it doesn’t feel like it’s good in my opinion. I definitely feel like it’s done more harm than good. Good news is, I’ll repeat, the general public hasn’t subscribed to this. I think it’s just the vocal minority, relatively speaking.

[TheFlak38]

yes but dont forget that it's still considered as something new. My guess is that in 3 to 5 years it will be virtually impossible to find a 20 year old girl that hasn't done online porn.

[WowwGirl]

They get treated like meat regardless of how they act might as well profit

[Shamalien]

No respect for the men or women using it. Would never date a girl with an OF not a chance in hell

[In_Trance]

They make like...10 bucks a day