Why do girl’s look at sex like it’s just sex , Who cares?

[Finchie40]

Me personally doesn’t look at sex like it’s just sex , for me to even have sex with a girl , I have to feel connection and chemistry with hopes it will lead to more , and for her and I to be closer but nowadays it seems Girls just want to get off and think sex is no big deal , Don’t get me wrong I know their are guys that can just bang a girl as well to get pff on , but me personally could never do that. And I know not every girl is that way as well It just seems there are more girls in this category then men , So is that why their are more female prostitutes and escorts? Is that why girls can just have sex with a guy for his money? I have heard a lot of girls say I will sleep with him if he takes care of me or I will suck his dick everyday for money? Honestly to me that is disgusting that someone could actually say or do those things, So my question is why do you girl’s feel that way or see things that way?

[boggboss]

Its because promiscuity has become part off society i assure there are just as many men that would have sex for the fun off it lol the reason u have women that are escorts and prostatutes is because there are guys that will pay for it because thay just want sex

[DizzyDesii]

Most Girls look for more out of sex, whether it be for love, money, status, etc. A lot of guys look to sex for pleasure and temporary fun. I personally have to be in love and in a longterm relationship to have sex.

[jerdanro]

So do I, but not when I was in my 20s.

[DizzyDesii]

@jerdanro well i want someone who takes sex seriously even in their 20s

[Finchie40]

I would say in my early 20’s I valued relationships until the girl I was in a relationship with cheated on me , then my whole outlook on love started going Out the window , so I became a selfish bastard for a period of time and was just doing what I wanted without a care in the world , I was just having fun, hooking up with random girls and playing girls , I actually juggled 6 girls at once until I realized it was so wrong to do , it was that moment when I started taking relationships serious again and removed my selfishness , out of those 6 girls the 1 became my wife , Her and I stayed married for 14 years and had children together , I stayed faithful to her The whole time until she decided not to be faithful to me , I busted her having an affair with a old man co worker , so I divorced her and after a little while I started dating again , entering the dating world after all that time , I been in complete shock on how different girls have become , it was like all of A sudden they were the players , let’s see I ended up falling for and having sex with married women that I didn’t know were married until after The fact and after a few months of being with them , I had sex with younger girls that also had other Guys lined up and liked the convenience of me , I dated another girls that was 25 years old when I was 38 years old to find out she had a girlfriend she lived with and dyked it out with , and also had random guys come over to their place to have sex with them. She also had Daddy issues and told me I looked like her Dad and that’s what turned her on , After her and that drama I met a girl closer to my age that treated me like Gold and I was really falling for her and having amazing times with her until her husband that traveled a lot for work showed up on my doorstep , So after that drama I pretty much threw in the towel on love and I am back with going with the flow again , focusing on my kids and my job and staying happily single , I realized people

[Finchie40]

Today are very selfish and only really care about themselves , dating today has been focused on looks and status not really much the heart anymore , to find a girl with a heart that takes love seriously would be like hitting the lottery

[OliviaOfTheScots]

We value relationships more than sex, seems to be the other way round with guys