Is pegging normal for a second date? Is pegging now less taboo?

[Anonymous]

A girl I’ve been seeing and I recently started hooking up and she’s been pegging me regularly since the second date. We started talking about sex on the first date and what positions we like. We started talking about more kinky activities and I jokingly brought up pegging thinking she’d say it was disgusting. She wasn’t disgusted by it but looked intrigued. We then started to talk about other things and the date was over. The next weekend rolls around and we planned another date. We decided to go for a light meal and talk some more. Our conversation was non-sexual and she asked if we should go back to her place. Once we got there, she said she had a surprise and disappeared for a couple minutes. When she came out, she was wearing a strapon along with some lingerie. I was confused at first but then I remembered she didn’t hate the idea of pegging on the first date. She was just thinking it over. She asked if I wanted to try it and at first I was shocked but then I figured why not. So I got on the bed bent over and she entered me from behind. The feeling what incredible. She hit my prostate so well I thought she had practice. She started grabbing my hips and started pounding me pretty hard. After a couple minutes, she asked me to lay on my back and then she entered me again. I wasn’t fully hard at first, which was kinda embarrassing, but she started stroking me while penetrating me so that got me hard instantly. After only a couple minutes of her inside me and stroking me, I felt like I was about to cum and she immediately put her mouth over my cock and I came in her mouth. She then swallowed my cum and I lay there just shocked over what just happened. She asked what I thought and of course I said it was incredible. We then just hung out for a few hours at her place watching Netflix. It’s been a little over a month since our first date and I’m still blown away how quickly we got intimate.
Are there other girls who can relate? Is this more common now?

[OlderAndWiser]

"Is pegging normal for a second date?" Son, this isn't normal on the 542nd date!

This is a kink that is not common. There are more men who are receptive to receiving a prostate massage but with a finger and not with something that looks like a dick. I'm not saying that pegging is pathological or you are mental, but it simply is not common.

The fact that you found a girl who is into that is fortunate for you but rather adventitious. The fact that you found a girl who was eager to jump into bed on a second date is not so unusual. I don't know if your goal in dating is to find a partner for a LTR but, if it is, then having sex so quickly seems to stack the deck against for for the long term.

[Asker]

Thanks for your response. We’ve been together for about a month since the first date so things do seem to be moving towards long term. She is easy to talk to and fun to hang out with except for this one kink that she has, which I don’t mind personally.

[OlderAndWiser]

"this one kink that she has" All you mentioned was the kink that you have. Does she have her own kink that you help her with?

[Asker]

Of course she has her own kinks that I help her with.

[Anonymous]

My man that's actually nice to hear, gives me hope because it definitely isn't common, transcend me some luck through your prayers or something

[Asker]

I wouldn’t worry about it. If it’s uncommon then I did get engaged to the only one who does this.

[Anonymous]

Eww, no. I hope that this isn't becoming the norm. I wouldn't consider it taboo but surely it shouldn't be common place.

[Asker]

That’s what I suspected but just wanted to be sure. Thanks for your response.

[Philyouup]

lucky man!

[Asker]

She and I are still together. Just got engaged.

[Philyouup]

i like being pegged and my girl loves anal. It is a pretty sweet deal.

[Asker]

Yeah. Turns out she had just gotten out of another relationship where they were really into BDSM. Her boyfriend before me wouldn’t let her peg him and she really wanted to try it with somebody, anybody. It’s part of our rotation but we still do it on occasion.

[Anonymous]

very common

[Anonymous]

Pegging is used by gay men in denial. Straight guys never asked me for penetration, nor I would have done it. You're gay

[Asker]

Is your answer to everyone to just call them gay?

[Opinion Owner]

Never bothered to ask yourself why do you want a penis shaped thing in your ass? Tell me you want to fuck me hard and then I might believe you're not gay, straight guys don't dream about sucking cock and being penetrated from behind. Gay in denial, even your psychotherapist would confirm if he'd hear it.

[Asker]

Why are you such a hateful human being? Do you actually have anything to offer to society? I’ve been nice to you and you respond with more hate. Answer me why I should consider your advice.

[Anonymous]

Nice fiction !

[Asker]

Now that I read it back, it does look like fiction. I did have to make edits because it was too long of a post so it does look a bit fictitious.

[Woodsy05]

First, I enjoy being pegged by my wife. At one point I questioned by sexual desires and truly found watching men pounding each other to be unattractive and undesirable for me. Don’t worry about the long post, sometimes I ramble on about my experiences as well. I’m glad you enjoy it, keep experimenting!