Do guys genuinely find chubby/overweight/obese women attractive?

[Anonymous]

Do guys find them attractive or do they have to force themselves to be attracted to them? I can understand how some guys might feel pressured to date fat women because society has ingrained into most people's minds that "fat is beautiful, and if you disagree, you're supporting eating disorders". I've seen decent looking/attractive skinny guys, sometimes even fit guys, date the ugliest pigs I've ever seen. Why do these guys date women who obviously don't care about their appearance or even take care of themselves physically? Are guys just that desperate to get laid by anybody nowadays or do they actually find fat women appealing? I'm disgusted to even look at fat women in normal clothes, I can't imagine how revolting and nauseating they'd look in lingerie. The torture those poor dudes suffer must be unbearable. I've heard some guys say they like heavier women because they're "thick". Do you know what else is "thick"? Their back rolls, their, stomach rolls, their saggy arms, their triple chin, their misshapen and ill-proportioned butts and boobs that droop to the floor, etc...

[InventorofWarp]

I don't exactly know what the cutoff here is to begin with but, it kinda depends on what exactly we're talking about here.
Like, Ashley Graham type? Fuck YES. That woman is fucking sexy and has one hell of an ass and I'm sure everything would move and feel beautifully under the right circumstances.
Melissa McCarthy? No thanks.

For the record, I'm a pretty fit dude. I've changed myself a lot in the past 6 months. I used to be a really skinny (if tall) kid as a boy who got picked on all the time and if I was lucky no girl ever wanted to look my direction and notice me and if I was unlucky they were pretending to be my date so I could get glue in my hair. I was rather fate for a while until recently and weighed 249 lbs at 6'8 back in December. Now I weigh 232 lbs and a good amount of that is now muscle. I have abs and at 24 I'm often told I look like young Keanu.
I would definitely NEVER be able to date a woman as fit as me and certainly not one with abs like me since I'm nowhere near confident enough to ever believe she'd actually like me and not leave me. Hell, I find it difficult to believe with any woman.

[sixtyeightplusone]

I'm 100% with you on this. I think the answer is 4 fold:

1. there aren't enough proper size women to go around

2. the feminist media has and some success convincing lower intelligence males that "fat is sexy"

3. If a guy hasn't gotten laid he has to do something and fat woman are often an easier hit.

4, Males of low confidence think the can't get an attractive woman

[Asker]

Showing more overweight/obese women in media is causing it to be normalized. It's unfortunate that a literal disease is being portrayed as healthy and normal, and is therefore being more and more acceptable and okay. It's hard to find men that agree with my opinion irl because (I assume) they're been brainwashed by the constant, ceaseless advertising of "sexy" plus-sized models being shoved down their throats.

[scott04sa22]

So you don't like fat girls then why cheering for our current vice president. Makes no sense! 😑

[scott04sa22]

@sixyeightplusone

[Asker]

@scott04sa22 I don't think Kamala Harris is overweight, she doesn't even look chubby in my opinion. Maybe it's the bulky pant suits she wears? She doesn't wear form-fitting clothing, so it's hard to tell.

[Anonymous]

Not a guy, Bisexual woman. I like chubby girls. Genuinely. More than skinny girls. There's a point where a girl can get too fat for me to find her attractive, but majority opinions has shown me I still like them bigger than most people do.

[razelove]

It's a gradient. Chubby is kind of neutral, some hook other than looks is needed to pull me in, turn me on, and make me want to stick around.

Going past that into fat, turn off, morbidly obese, money needs to change hands.

I mean, that's me, everyone has their own opinion. Why not ride a bike, swim, do push-ups, generally move around and work out more if you don't like how you look and can change it?

Ugly can't be fixed. You can lose weight though. As far as dating fat women, I dated a fat woman because she came on strong, paid a lot of attention to me, and didn't play games. If they're a good woman, that's rare to find, sex doesn't take up much of the time you spend together in a relationship.

[jaybee281]

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[ChrisMaster69]

I would sooner date a chubby girl that a thin girl with a toxic personality.

there does seem to be a level of shaming that goes on.

also if you look at BMI and what Fat is, obese etc

a person can always lose weight with help of a partner.

a toxic personality... what partner

[Asker]

I might be bias because my experience with fat women has always been that they think they're entitled to everything. It's always me! me! me!. They think they're entitled to chubby "representation"in media, which is just glorifying obesity and a unhealthy lifestyle. Not only that, but there's a lot of hypocrisy as well. They'll be super unhealthy and then have the audacity to call a normally skinny girl unhealthy. I'm skinny (not bones, but I have a flat stomach) and I've been told multiple times by fat women that I need to gain weight. I would be seen as insensitive if I said to them "you need to go on a diet", but it's seen as empowering to belittle skinny women at a healthy weight. Most of the time, these women are not willing to change their weight because they're fueled by laziness and gluttony.

[MCheetah]

Yes! They are just my type. Why do women keep asking this all the time on here? Yes, WE EXIST! You're a woman; you don't have to like other women. You can be stick thin with no tits or ass all you want.

[Asker]

Yep, I find that super unattractive. I'd assume it'd suck for a man to date a girl too heavy to pick up or even sit on you in cowgirl position. I much rather have toned, fit women who has a booty and thighs (due to hard work instead of laziness and gluttony). It's a win-win, because athletic girls have curves, but they don't have the diabetes that comes with fat women lmao.

[Matthew2222]

I find them quite attractive. Not sure why you have so much hate inside about people that look different though, that sounds like something YOU need to fix

[Asker]

I hate lazy gluttons, that's all. I also hate seeing them at the beach in swimwear, I usually need eye bleach and therapy after that.

[Matthew2222]

That speaks more to your own caustic personality than anything else. "Lazy gluttons"-not all people who are larger are gluttons, much less lazy. Many are very hardworking in fact. The fact that you need eye bleach therapy says much more about what a hate-filled, spiteful, and awful person you are than it possibly could about anyone else. You need help.

[Matthew2222]

You are so arrogant and hateful it is amazing. People have different metabolisms, some are fat even without eating a significant amount of food. And I have news for you, someone can be VERY Hardworking and not exercise whatsoever. The two are essentially independent. Some of the most hardworking people I know are not fucking gym bunnies. They are NOT lazy however, and probabally work much more than you do. If exercise is YOUR priority that is fine, but you need to get it through your arrogant little skull that not everyone thinks like you or has your priorities. Now shut your hateful little mouth.

[Joey_007]

Chubby yes, obese & overweight, no, but if I was in a committed relationship with someone and they got obese or overweight I wouldn't be sexually attracted to them but I wouldn't leave them because o their weight either. I'd look for other excuses (jk).

[GingerGuy]

Some can be for sure, depending on the woman. It's not all about physical appearance, her personality definitely plays a part as well. And if she's got a beautiful face. I've seen a few bigger women that were absolutely gorgeous, that just had a little extra weight. But society and "fat is beautiful" doesn't impact me at all. I think it for women to feel better about themselves and that's it. I find it funny also because there's nothing like that for guys. There's no "big handsome guy" or any term like that lol.

[exitseven]

A girl can be chubby or overweight and still can be attractive. If she is healthy and active she can be beautiful. Girls that are flabby and grossly out of shape not so much.

[Ripper_E]

These are fat women I genuinely find attractive

There are women that just fall on the extreme end on either side of the spectrum, too big or too thin. Those two things a find repulsive but I determine that with my own eyes. Generally, as long as they are in between, I'm okay with it. Don't get me wrong, it is not my preference. Most women I've found attractive aren't fat. I'm genuinely attracted to the fat women I've found attracted, not some fetish. What I don't like is them trying to force that onto men. Like there is something wrong with us if we don't find them attractive. You are happy with your body? Fine, but that doesn't mean everyone will like you or you will be perceived as healthy.

[sixtyeightplusone]

gross, if you actually like that you've been poisoned by the media. If your fucking them when nothing else is around, OK

[Ripper_E]

No. I don't allow anyone, you included, telling me who I can and cannot find attractive.

[sixtyeightplusone]

I just did it and I can do it again. Just say no to whales

[Ripper_E]

@sixtyeightplusone Oh yea you're right. You did. Let me reword that. I like what I like and fuck you.

[Asker]

You're right, people like what they like. Criticism or backlash should be anticipated when you're attracted to someone most people don't find attractive. There's countless stories of people who are attracted to the freaks of the world and most people will berate them for it. it's not fair, but it's how people operate.

[Ripper_E]

I don't care if people don't like it. That's why I posted it. I don't apologize.

[OliviaOfTheScots]

Why do you care?

[scott04sa22]

I like chubby's and bbw's but they don't like me back

[Iron_Man]

Honestly not really

[Dchrls78104]

There are guys who do, and I would call them enablers if they find morbidly obese women attractive. I, however, do not.

[Wiredone]

There are some chubby women who are very attractive.

[Caliguy88]

Sometimes. Not most.

[Twalli]

I don't find fat girls attractive. Granted that could do with the fact that over 220 is approaching double my weight.

[KrakenAttackin]

Hell no. Fat is gross.

[Dchrls78104]

I agree with you only that morbid obesity is gross as well as unhealthy and that promoting it is irresponsible and amounts to a cruel kind of enabling.

[bamesjond0069]

Fat girls are nasty asf. If you weigh more than 130 at any height ill throw ya back for another. Thanks.

[Asker]

That's a bit dumb, don't you think? Fit women tend to weigh more than 130 because muscle is more dense than fat. I wouldn't judge a woman based on scale number alone because 130 is overweight for some girls and toned for others.

[bamesjond0069]

Its overweight for 99%

[NightOwl8801]

I like women that are chubby and or curvy , so what if she has a little extra that doesn't change who she is as a person

[Clarke498]

Depends. Chubby and obese are two very different things.