What are some things that would identify a homosexual in public?

[Tomtom9090]

Everytime im in public I overhear people gossiping about my sexuality or directly insulting me.

You guys have seen my face. The way I carry myself in public in my opinion is no different than others, although I seem impatient like I dont walk into a room and own it im more likely to make myself small and nearly invisible. People around me get uncomfortable and check over their shoulders or in the glass reflection to see what im doing behind them.

Standing tall and upright 'confidently' seems like a conscious effort to me more than a natural stance and behavior.

So regardless where i am, what im doing or wearing I get the same looks or comments. Yet people on here make excuse for the behaviors of others and tell me i dont look gay but id equate that to being a tryhard.

Most comments I hear my way are : Faggot Bitch pussy tryhard queer or homo. thats it, nothing about my shit neck, or my Sid from ice age eye gap, or my ugly face or yellow skin or stinky body odor or my unbrushed teeth.

Only things that matter are those listed above. I dont even know what Im doing that gets the 'tryhard' comment. I literally put no effort in my appearance nor do I try to talk to women to throw people off my 'gayness'. Im just me.

[GnatSocks]

You already said it because you know what it is. You carry yourself like a gay bottom. You have a weak stance (I don't know this about you, but if you're toes point in, there's no chance of someone missing it). It's body language. Wolves, lions, elephants, and even cattle don't speak, but they will communicate through their stance exactly what is on their mind. The tryhard thing is in your submission. It's hard to believe a man can naturally be that openly submissive in the body language you think is natural.

[Tomtom9090]

I doubt they would call me a tryhard for coming off so submissive. I think tryhard is used to describe someone acting over their own abilities. But as you claimed there is no reason to call someone that carries themselves so weakly would be trying hard to look weak

[GnatSocks]

You don't have to believe me, but that's what it is.

[Tomtom9090]

you're right on every aspect but again I highly doubt women and men care if im trying hard to look weak when thats how i naturally am in public.

[GnatSocks]

You won't like the answer, but your existence disgusts them. You for have to do or say anything, but being this way, even if it's your natural body language makes them hate you. Consider your own hatred for a Nazi (hi!). It may be his beliefs, his natural way of looking at the world, but his very existence is offensive, right? Now how would you react if you saw someone with a Hitler mustache walking around in combat boots and military surplus? What if you knew he was weak and would just take the insults and maybe cry a little?

[Tomtom9090]

Haha FActs! My existance does bother a lot of people. They would like it if i was in a casket

[GnatSocks]

Even if it bothers people, don't do something stupid like Kermitting yourself or taking it out on others. My existence bothers people, and I'm not going to ever going to Kermit myself unless it's by two shots in the back of the head tied to cement blocks at the bottom of a lake. I think you should change your view of yourself.

[Tomtom9090]

I love myself and the views I hold, the way others have always treated me affects my mindset. I believe that confidence is a direct result of how others view and treat you. I've been alone all my life.

[Isabellakate94]

It's funny tho because I know a bunch of gay guys that would easily fuck up most straight guys that try to walk like they shit themselves with their arms out its all just a front! Guys that are in touch with their feminie side are highly underestimated

[mackiewishbone]

If they eats lots of chocolate and watch Will & Marry.