Do guys actually love side hoes or they just want to have sex with them?

[Anonymous]

I fell in love with a guy who had side hoes. Now im not sure if he loved them or not. There was one girl in particular i saw him texting on his phone. (she's a big hoe but I don't know if he knows it I used to be friends with her thats how i know. She was seeing two guys at the same time knowing that i liked one of them. She did it just for that reaon) I could be wrong but it seemed like he had feelings for her. Why would he want to be with me when he's texting other girls?

P. S. This guy and I werent not in a relationship. But we really loved each other or at least thats what i thought. He told his whole family and friends about me so i thought I was special. Then I found out he was going on dates with other girls and I dont know what to think

[williamHD]

Could be he prefers girl friends I know for sure I do. Which sounds werid a girl I told I had feelings with her saw me with another girl and she got upset. She never told me why and has changed completely. I know it sounds werid for a guy to have a lot of girl friends I’m just like that to be honest. He may be the exact same way what you might see as flirting maybe be him being friendly. I even dressed up nice because I like to look good when I met the girl. You can always just ask him

[Asker]

Im pretty sure she got upset cause you told her you had feelings FOR HER then she saw you with another girl. Who wouldn't be upset? Also he was flirting and even taking these women out so it seems they were not just friends. I just dont understand how he could like me and want to be serious with me but then be flirting with all these other girls.

[williamHD]

Well she knew I was sick and told her I try to make as many friends as possible cause it was for a whole year and lost basically everyone. It was at a dining hall but wyd he took them out like on dates? Or like what I did dining hall?

[Asker]

dates. i saw him at the movie with one once. he got all scared. he seemed depressed after that. but why would he be going out with other girls if he had feeling for me?

[williamHD]

Well he was depressed he saw you that’s for sure. So he either was a lier or was like shit I know how this looks you can always ask him. Asking is usually the best course of action. He probably got a vibe from you and thought he needed to move on or possibly he felt y’all didn’t click

[williamHD]

Another possibility is that generally they are friends like I said and a movie is not really a date now a days tbh I go with girls all the time and have no feelings for them

[williamHD]

Unless of course you saw them kissing

[Asker]

well... they were holding hands. and yeah i gues you're right because i didn't give him the signal or attention he deserved. i just didn't feel like i deseerved him or good enough for him. but now i know.

[williamHD]

Next time don’t make that mistake you deserve the world and happiness

[Asker]

wow thank you i wasn't expecting that but thank you very much. Hope your dating life goes well as well.

[williamHD]

Thank you it’s not good but keep fighting

[Iron_Man]

Those are no good because they will eventually find out and then the other girl will break up with you besides every time you meet with the side girl she wants to go out to dinner and a movie Plus other things and that’s quite expensive every weekend same thing with the original girlfriend besides I don’t want to hurt other people so I wouldn’t do that anyway

[jahaims]

If you have side hoes you aren't in love with anyone

[Seppel]

They only want sex from side hoes