Sometimes he cums during the second round and sometimes he can't? What does this mean?

My boyfriend and I have sex everyday. We are in our early 20s. Usually he only wants it once a night, but sometimes he'll ask for a second round or a blowjob like an hour or 2 hours later. But sometimes he can't cum the second time. What does this mean? If he can cum again the second time an hour later, does that mean he didn't have a very good orgasm the first time?
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  • It’s means all men aren’t equally made, it’s all about genetics, different men have different refractory periods so as semen volumes. This just to do with how one is wired, his health etc.


    If there is no any underlying health factor, that’s how he’s made, your boyfriend has been over straining himself, that’s why he fails to come the second time, he just needs to do it once a night, that’s what he’s capable of. If he has a longer refractory period or ‘em balls got no juice it won’t happen. I remember back then when I used to go over 20 rounds in one weekend and come Monday morning I won’t produce any more juice.

    • Well sometimes he is able to cum the second time tho. I just don't know what difference is between when he is able to cum the second time and when he can't cum the second time

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  • No, it doesn’t mean anything like that. It just takes longer (and probably more intense stimulation) the second time around. It’s nothing to put on yourself. If you’re having trouble getting the second one, tell him you want to watch him stroke it while you lick the head. He’ll finish.

    • Well sometimes he is able to cum the second time tho. I just don't know what difference is between when he is able to cum the second time and when he can't cum the second time.

    • Don’t Internalize it. I doubt it has anything to do with you. Stress, body chemistry (testosterone level), alcohol, the last time he masturbated, and tiredness all play a role. Have you asked him?

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  • relax about the 2nd blowjob... if your in bed lower your top so he can see your boobs... let him see your bare ass... men like visuals... also just ensure him to sit back or lay back and relax and your going to suck him until he cums... give him a slow sensous blowjob... don't try too hard just worry about sucking his head and licking his head his vein.. make out with his piss hole... do some ball licking kissing and/or sucking... don't worry about getting him to cum in 10 minutes or even 20 just enjoy the moment giving him lots of head... if you'd rather get on your knees to suck him off tell him you'd rather be on your knees for him which ever makes him feel at ease with you... any kind of pressure you put on a man he may not be able to cum... make sure you tell him you want this and enjoy cocksucking they always feel better when you tell them that you love it even if you don't.

  • It means you keep asking this question and you don’t like the answers so far.

  • no its prolly more the opposite like he doenst have any cum left lol. do u get upset when u can't suck any cum out of him or not really?

    • What does it mean when he does have cum left after sex? Because sometimes he is able to cum the second time. Could it mean he didn't cum hard the first time?

    • @Asker no. dm me its easier to explain lol

  • It can mean a lot of things and it totally depends so dont overthink

  • Usually my first round is 45 min second is 1-2 hrs keep going.