Anon... you just gave an excellent case study of why no man should ever get married. The story you told can be repeated literally millions of times with countless variations or female treachery.
Here is a video every man should watchhttps://youtu.be/1mgNDzioFDI
@KrakenAttackin - Right on the money. Women love opportunistically. As long as they FEEL like they're getting all they expect from the arrangement, they're all it. If not, she'll shut down sexually, cheat bail or any combination. And god forbid you get sick or injured, or lose your job - figure she'll do the same. She'll wander off looking for Chad Thundercock. No, the burden of performance is on the man. If you fail, she will bail. I guarantee it.The benefit is UNFETTERED ACCESS TO PUSSY. Oh wait... that's just not even true anymore. LOL
I watched part of the vid AFTER I posted. Well gee... called it, huh? LOL
Oh, and there are no 10's. No such thing. Some celebrities and models maybe a 9, but a ten is someone who has extra special meaning to him. That's what a ten is. And all women have flaws. Sad truth - THEY ARE NOT PERFECT. And they ALL get old. Yes, they age, they get saggy and wrinkly, they gain weight, they age. And never, I mean NEVER EVER put a woman on a pedestal. NEVER worship a woman, never devote your entire life to a woman. Cuz when she cheats or bails there you'll be, crying in your beer, unable to fathom how she cold do that to you cuz you did everything you could to make her happy. HAAAAAPPPPPYYYYY. :)
@KrakenAttackin that is the dumbest video I've ever seen... you're creating a reason out of nowhere... im sorry but any woman that leaves someone or cheats on someone because oh they got injured or oh there's someone better is just a shit person... who tf r y'all ending up with cause theyre all assholes
@Browneye57 Very well said.
@friendlypelican It happens all the time, repeat, all the time. Plenty of women divorce their husband after he is diagnosed with cancer, or gets seriously injured, or loses his job.
@friendlypelican. You just wait until the man you are with experiences hard times and your eye begins to wonder. You will start picking fights with him when he is at his lowest in attempt to drive him away.
its pretty insulting that you assume that based on the limited knowledge you have of who i even am... you're describing a trashy girl with NO communication... im a big advocate for communication. so no, if something happens i won't just “pick fights” because that’s ridiculously immature and horribly stupid. if i wanted a relationship to last i wouldn't just keep something that important to myself. if i lost feelings i would simply talk about it and determine from those conversations what the best options will be. its actually really insulting to generalize someone you have no idea about so no i disagree tyvm.
in fact, the person i am currently with has already experienced horrible things which i will not discuss with you due to privacy reasons... i know many girls who would leave him for those things but here i am. so no. i will not do what you said i would. i stick it out until the bitter end.
Give me a break! You are CRAZY
@LebanonGoldy 30 years of legal practice and am a Certified Family Law Specialist in Southern California which is like Syria when it comes to the Divorce Wars. Courts still favor women despite mandated "equality". Of course I take advantage of that when I represent the women but it hurts my clients when I represent the men. Its widely acknowledged among professional practitioners. Of course it doesn't apply across the board and there are exceptions. I speak from professional experience and work in the industry; your only basis for your opinion is your age and gender. Did the truth hit a little to close to home for you?
Anon.. spot on correct.
@LebanonGoldy He is crazy? He is in the front line of the divorce wars you stupid cunt!
Divorce rate is over 50 percent. I guess they should of used super glue to bind those vows together.
And 80% of divorces are filed by women. And 80% of them leave because they are bored. Marriage is a losing proposition for a man.
@Floppy2112 Marriage is a death trap for men. The moment a man says "I do", his odds of committing suicide TRIPLE. Think about this, as a man getting married triples the odds of you KILLING YOURSELF. This is what modern women do to men, literally drive us to kill ourselves and yet this fantasy of marriage is still pushed on us by every woman... even mothers to sons. Proof positive that no woman (even your mother) gives a fuck about men.If men don't take care of each other no one else will help us.
@KrakenAttackin I get it dude. I was one of those men.
@Floppy2112 As was I. It is a hard realisation.
Well you can have all of that without marriage.
Marriage protects your family in the event of your death... Benefits, etc.. It also provides a family unit for your children...It also shows your partner you are giving of yourself to them and them only, a life promise (well supposed to be)
Yes it helps with social security, breaks on car insurance but if it doesn't work out.. half your shit is gonsey!
Hers too though... Men aren't the sole provider theses days, and people forget it's the couples assets, not just his or hers..A man or woman shouldn't give cuz they feel they have to, they should do it because they want to.. isn't caring for sometime and their well being part of love? I'd of given any money in the world of it would of bought my husband's health back...
In all due respect. You know I love ya. Marriage is an industry. It was designed not for love but to secure assets of a man's land, livestock and children. Now those same assets are a liability to his life. If marriage was all of that there wouldn't be huge finacial incentives when looking at divorce. Divorce court is heavily in favor of women despite the level of their income. Combine that with the divorce rates and how easu it is to file for divorce, I don't blame men from turning away from state regulated marriage.
Maybe the problem is people already go into marriage thinking about divorce... Not the best way to start a marriage.. To me all those things should be more incentive to marry for the right reasons, value your marriage, get off the dang only fans, get off the social media and get on your wife/husband... If you go into a relationship with the mindset it'll fail, aren't you dooming it to fail?
I don't disgree with any of that. I think if they took out the financial incentive of divorce more people would get married for the right reason.
You are the queen of emoji's... Not sure what all those Hieroglyphs means lol
Me neither lol means people confuse me, they make issues where they wouldn't need to be issues. Means if people spent half the time they spend on the internet discussing things in their relationships, communicating with their partners and living their partners maybe there'd be less divorce, more marriage and more hanky panky🤣
Yesssss. love it... and I agree.
That's not the alcohol talking is it😂😂
I love most of those benefits. Most of all the "real friends with benefits"... someone you can commit to for the rest of your life. I do love falling asleep with my face on her boobs and my hand covering her pussy and her hand on my penis. Then when waking latching onto a nipple and suckling, while maneuvering my morning wood for penetration."It's all in the Eyes of the Beholder".
@BillHe1 I hear you! Been there done that
Yeah this how it should be but how it is woman only want more and more of the man and return less a man that loves her will stay as long as she is reasonable but when she crosses that line better get the divorce papers ready cause he will at least try less and woman respond to that with getting pissed
@Brainsbeforebeauty. I'm sorry brains but I could not disagree more.
@Brainsbeforebeauty Look at what men have at stake going into marriage? As I said above, marriage means a tripling of male suicide
@Brainsbeforebeauty "He gets the benefit of love"... until she turns the "love" switch "off" and the "crazy" switch "on".
It’s great for women, but it is at the expense of men. It’s not personal, you may be the cat’s ass in terms of wives. But for most men, marriage is all cost with virtually no benefit. No that’s not the way it ought to be, but that’s the way it is.
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That's it? I mean divorce rate is over 50 percent... that isn't even guaranteed.
Yeah, that's it. Just not being alone, miserable, pathetic, and kind of wanting to die. Some people pay millions of dollars for that. Yeah, divorce rate is over 50 percent, but most of them remarry. And nothing worth a damn was ever easy.
Well can you put that in writing? LMAO
Lmao. Hope you're doing well..
I am and back at ya Wow!
@coachTanthony see, I told you. Lol
@Wiredone excuse me?
@coachTanthony keep living the dream ❤️❤️
Oh well that is cool lol
Wow, hard to top that deal...😂😂
mho right here
11 upvotes? you're popular
True you can have that without marriage though.
That is true I suppose.
@Boodica. OMG, you need to take a Xanax. You are so far off mark I can only assume you are hysterical.
I don't think so.Many Women usually use sexual attraction to play with men even for the marriagemail and we men usually are not strong enough to resist.
Right on, girl. Those are good 🤛.
And how is it even impossible for a woman to treat a man like a king without marriage or vice versa?
@Aiko_E_Lara without marriage then they're just a boyfriend. No need to treat them that good since it's not locked down yet.
That's just a label. What does that have to do with anything physical? A boyfriend can also treat her girlfriend like a queen and vice versa. They can even identify themselves as husbands and wife without the government involving their life. It's just you putting so much meaning in to it when objectively, they're still humans in relationships. If you're committed even without the government involved, you're considered husband and wife in nature without having to get married.
If someone has a boyfriend/girlfriend these days, they're considered taken. Unlike the boomer eras, they're considered "single but with a partner unless they're married" but in the end, it doesn't make a difference other than whatever label you consider them to be.
@Aiko_E_Lara the title husband/wife have a much deeper meaning than just boyfriend/girlfriend. I dont take anyone whose just dating as a serious couple until they get married
Only if anyone put a deep meaning to it. But still no, it's not impossible to call my girlfriend my wife even without marriage or vice versa just to put on deep meaning to it. After all its subjective.
If you see a happy couple who actually has a nice family, you would only assume they're married and you wouldn't know that they aren't. You would take them seriously until you find out they're not married? It's better you wouldn't know because there's no difference at all
@Aiko_E_Lara I dont really look at couples like that. For all I know they could be brother and sister. I dont assume anything unless I acutally know them
Yeah sure they are brothers and sisters with a kid? Oh so you're going to meet new people time to time. You would know who they are and if they have kids and a happy family, you would assume they are married. Or you may not assume anything but the thing is you wouldn't know the difference because there are actually married couple who aren't so happy compared to just unmarried couples.
You don't really assume anything but you're assuming they could be siblings lol
Most get uncomfortable with tough questions but that won't stop me from asking them. Thanks for the comment.
why do people want to live longer? the last few years of your life sucks anyways being old and broken
You could definitely have a committed relationship for life without getting married though.
I really don’t think it’s a tough question though. It seems more like common sense. There are pros and cons to every decision we make in life. There’s a trade-off. You clearly gain a lot in marriage and you do end up sacrificing a lot. To ignore the entire list of all the benefits seems purposely driven.