Anon... you just gave an excellent case study of why no man should ever get married. The story you told can be repeated literally millions of times with countless variations or female treachery.
Here is a video every man should watchhttps://youtu.be/1mgNDzioFDI
@KrakenAttackin - Right on the money. Women love opportunistically. As long as they FEEL like they're getting all they expect from the arrangement, they're all it. If not, she'll shut down sexually, cheat bail or any combination. And god forbid you get sick or injured, or lose your job - figure she'll do the same. She'll wander off looking for Chad Thundercock. No, the burden of performance is on the man. If you fail, she will bail. I guarantee it.The benefit is UNFETTERED ACCESS TO PUSSY. Oh wait... that's just not even true anymore. LOL
I watched part of the vid AFTER I posted. Well gee... called it, huh? LOL
Oh, and there are no 10's. No such thing. Some celebrities and models maybe a 9, but a ten is someone who has extra special meaning to him. That's what a ten is. And all women have flaws. Sad truth - THEY ARE NOT PERFECT. And they ALL get old. Yes, they age, they get saggy and wrinkly, they gain weight, they age. And never, I mean NEVER EVER put a woman on a pedestal. NEVER worship a woman, never devote your entire life to a woman. Cuz when she cheats or bails there you'll be, crying in your beer, unable to fathom how she cold do that to you cuz you did everything you could to make her happy. HAAAAAPPPPPYYYYY. :)
@KrakenAttackin that is the dumbest video I've ever seen... you're creating a reason out of nowhere... im sorry but any woman that leaves someone or cheats on someone because oh they got injured or oh there's someone better is just a shit person... who tf r y'all ending up with cause theyre all assholes
@Browneye57 Very well said.
@friendlypelican It happens all the time, repeat, all the time. Plenty of women divorce their husband after he is diagnosed with cancer, or gets seriously injured, or loses his job.
@friendlypelican. You just wait until the man you are with experiences hard times and your eye begins to wonder. You will start picking fights with him when he is at his lowest in attempt to drive him away.
its pretty insulting that you assume that based on the limited knowledge you have of who i even am... you're describing a trashy girl with NO communication... im a big advocate for communication. so no, if something happens i won't just “pick fights” because that’s ridiculously immature and horribly stupid. if i wanted a relationship to last i wouldn't just keep something that important to myself. if i lost feelings i would simply talk about it and determine from those conversations what the best options will be. its actually really insulting to generalize someone you have no idea about so no i disagree tyvm.
in fact, the person i am currently with has already experienced horrible things which i will not discuss with you due to privacy reasons... i know many girls who would leave him for those things but here i am. so no. i will not do what you said i would. i stick it out until the bitter end.
Give me a break! You are CRAZY
@LebanonGoldy 30 years of legal practice and am a Certified Family Law Specialist in Southern California which is like Syria when it comes to the Divorce Wars. Courts still favor women despite mandated "equality". Of course I take advantage of that when I represent the women but it hurts my clients when I represent the men. Its widely acknowledged among professional practitioners. Of course it doesn't apply across the board and there are exceptions. I speak from professional experience and work in the industry; your only basis for your opinion is your age and gender. Did the truth hit a little to close to home for you?
Anon.. spot on correct.
@LebanonGoldy He is crazy? He is in the front line of the divorce wars you stupid cunt!
Divorce rate is over 50 percent. I guess they should of used super glue to bind those vows together.
And 80% of divorces are filed by women. And 80% of them leave because they are bored. Marriage is a losing proposition for a man.
@Floppy2112 Marriage is a death trap for men. The moment a man says "I do", his odds of committing suicide TRIPLE. Think about this, as a man getting married triples the odds of you KILLING YOURSELF. This is what modern women do to men, literally drive us to kill ourselves and yet this fantasy of marriage is still pushed on us by every woman... even mothers to sons. Proof positive that no woman (even your mother) gives a fuck about men.If men don't take care of each other no one else will help us.
@KrakenAttackin I get it dude. I was one of those men.
@Floppy2112 As was I. It is a hard realisation.
Well you can have all of that without marriage.
Marriage protects your family in the event of your death... Benefits, etc.. It also provides a family unit for your children...It also shows your partner you are giving of yourself to them and them only, a life promise (well supposed to be)
Yes it helps with social security, breaks on car insurance but if it doesn't work out.. half your shit is gonsey!
Hers too though... Men aren't the sole provider theses days, and people forget it's the couples assets, not just his or hers..A man or woman shouldn't give cuz they feel they have to, they should do it because they want to.. isn't caring for sometime and their well being part of love? I'd of given any money in the world of it would of bought my husband's health back...
In all due respect. You know I love ya. Marriage is an industry. It was designed not for love but to secure assets of a man's land, livestock and children. Now those same assets are a liability to his life. If marriage was all of that there wouldn't be huge finacial incentives when looking at divorce. Divorce court is heavily in favor of women despite the level of their income. Combine that with the divorce rates and how easu it is to file for divorce, I don't blame men from turning away from state regulated marriage.
Maybe the problem is people already go into marriage thinking about divorce... Not the best way to start a marriage.. To me all those things should be more incentive to marry for the right reasons, value your marriage, get off the dang only fans, get off the social media and get on your wife/husband... If you go into a relationship with the mindset it'll fail, aren't you dooming it to fail?
I don't disgree with any of that. I think if they took out the financial incentive of divorce more people would get married for the right reason.
You are the queen of emoji's... Not sure what all those Hieroglyphs means lol
Me neither lol means people confuse me, they make issues where they wouldn't need to be issues. Means if people spent half the time they spend on the internet discussing things in their relationships, communicating with their partners and living their partners maybe there'd be less divorce, more marriage and more hanky panky🤣
Yesssss. love it... and I agree.
That's not the alcohol talking is it😂😂
I love most of those benefits. Most of all the "real friends with benefits"... someone you can commit to for the rest of your life. I do love falling asleep with my face on her boobs and my hand covering her pussy and her hand on my penis. Then when waking latching onto a nipple and suckling, while maneuvering my morning wood for penetration."It's all in the Eyes of the Beholder".
@BillHe1 I hear you! Been there done that
Yeah this how it should be but how it is woman only want more and more of the man and return less a man that loves her will stay as long as she is reasonable but when she crosses that line better get the divorce papers ready cause he will at least try less and woman respond to that with getting pissed
@Brainsbeforebeauty. I'm sorry brains but I could not disagree more.
@Brainsbeforebeauty Look at what men have at stake going into marriage? As I said above, marriage means a tripling of male suicide
@Brainsbeforebeauty "He gets the benefit of love"... until she turns the "love" switch "off" and the "crazy" switch "on".
It’s great for women, but it is at the expense of men. It’s not personal, you may be the cat’s ass in terms of wives. But for most men, marriage is all cost with virtually no benefit. No that’s not the way it ought to be, but that’s the way it is.
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That's it? I mean divorce rate is over 50 percent... that isn't even guaranteed.
Yeah, that's it. Just not being alone, miserable, pathetic, and kind of wanting to die. Some people pay millions of dollars for that. Yeah, divorce rate is over 50 percent, but most of them remarry. And nothing worth a damn was ever easy.
Well can you put that in writing? LMAO
Lmao. Hope you're doing well..
I am and back at ya Wow!
@coachTanthony see, I told you. Lol
@Wiredone excuse me?
@coachTanthony keep living the dream ❤️❤️
Oh well that is cool lol
Wow, hard to top that deal...😂😂
mho right here
11 upvotes? you're popular
True you can have that without marriage though.
That is true I suppose.
@Boodica. OMG, you need to take a Xanax. You are so far off mark I can only assume you are hysterical.
I don't think so.Many Women usually use sexual attraction to play with men even for the marriagemail and we men usually are not strong enough to resist.
Right on, girl. Those are good 🤛.
And how is it even impossible for a woman to treat a man like a king without marriage or vice versa?
@Aiko_E_Lara without marriage then they're just a boyfriend. No need to treat them that good since it's not locked down yet.
That's just a label. What does that have to do with anything physical? A boyfriend can also treat her girlfriend like a queen and vice versa. They can even identify themselves as husbands and wife without the government involving their life. It's just you putting so much meaning in to it when objectively, they're still humans in relationships. If you're committed even without the government involved, you're considered husband and wife in nature without having to get married.
If someone has a boyfriend/girlfriend these days, they're considered taken. Unlike the boomer eras, they're considered "single but with a partner unless they're married" but in the end, it doesn't make a difference other than whatever label you consider them to be.
@Aiko_E_Lara the title husband/wife have a much deeper meaning than just boyfriend/girlfriend. I dont take anyone whose just dating as a serious couple until they get married
Only if anyone put a deep meaning to it. But still no, it's not impossible to call my girlfriend my wife even without marriage or vice versa just to put on deep meaning to it. After all its subjective.
If you see a happy couple who actually has a nice family, you would only assume they're married and you wouldn't know that they aren't. You would take them seriously until you find out they're not married? It's better you wouldn't know because there's no difference at all
@Aiko_E_Lara I dont really look at couples like that. For all I know they could be brother and sister. I dont assume anything unless I acutally know them
Yeah sure they are brothers and sisters with a kid? Oh so you're going to meet new people time to time. You would know who they are and if they have kids and a happy family, you would assume they are married. Or you may not assume anything but the thing is you wouldn't know the difference because there are actually married couple who aren't so happy compared to just unmarried couples.
You don't really assume anything but you're assuming they could be siblings lol
Most get uncomfortable with tough questions but that won't stop me from asking them. Thanks for the comment.
why do people want to live longer? the last few years of your life sucks anyways being old and broken
You could definitely have a committed relationship for life without getting married though.
I really don’t think it’s a tough question though. It seems more like common sense. There are pros and cons to every decision we make in life. There’s a trade-off. You clearly gain a lot in marriage and you do end up sacrificing a lot. To ignore the entire list of all the benefits seems purposely driven.
@Nimphfromtx. How many marriages do you know like this?
@KrakenAttackin both of my marriages. Not to say that everything is perfect and wonderful all the time but with Open communication its never anything we can’t overcome.
How is marriage required for any of that? Dont girlfriends do all of that too?
Girlfriends do all of that already. The more you know.
You can leave a life insurance policy to anyone. You don’t have to be married
@JamieLoves In my country you have to be married, you can't leave it to anyone. And the widow pension is just for married people, if they only lived together they don't get anything at all.
USA is different..
Legally binding which can be broken by her at anytime in which she may also take half his shit...
Or can be broken by him at any time and he can take half your shit...🤷♀️
@wittymilf Get rid of the financial gain of divorce and I think many would look at marriage much differently.
Maybe that’s in your country, doesn’t work like that In NZ.
Actually I can tell you straight up that nothing would change.
@wittymilf You could be right on that. I know nothing about NZ.
Marriage has no benefits over living together unmarried and yet people still get married 🤷♀️
@wittymilf I know I get it. Women want the fairy tale the dress the party the honeymoon... Men just want to live happy.
I got married because my husband asked me too, seemed rude to decline.
He wanted the fairytale from the start, the house the kids the dog the white picket fence because he came from a shitty family and he wanted to start a fresh one of his own. I wanted freedom and the never settle in one spot.
@wittymilf Did you guys just ignore those facts that each of you wanted different things or did it not come up?
He ignored the fact that I wanted different things 😂😂
@wittymilf Ha Ha Ha and you still said yes. You two silly willies lol
Meh, love And devotion are about sacrifice
@wittymilf Yes I agree... so you sacrificed for how long until you decided not to anymore?
Huh 🤷♀️ I’m still married 26 years in
@wittymilf Ha Ha Ha oh I thought you were divorced... my bad
Only in my dreams 😂😂
@wittymilf Ha Ha Ha stop it
Stop dreaming 🤔 ironically that’s how you survive marriage 😂😂
I’m 20 years married. I feel a much deeper connection and intimacy with him having made that commitment. He and I don’t break that lightly the way other Americans do. To us it is very strong and we’ve been through a lot.
@wittymilf You know better so stop.
@krackenattackin yawnnnnn can you go away please and thank you? ☺️
@KrakenAttackin stop what?
@wittymilf So you don't really care for your husband.
@wittymilf Doesn't sound like you have a lot of respect for your husband.
@wittymilf There is tremendous societal pressure for people to get married. Men who don't get married are called "gay" and unmarried women are seen as not being able to keep a man or lesbians.Having said that, I would tell any young man it is better for some people to think you are "gay" rather than lead a miserable life with a soul-sucking modern woman.
Get rid of financial gain, child stealing, and ability to use criminal law to gain leverage in a divorce.
@wittymilf So, you have to have a side guy or two?
Ewww @KrakenAttackin stop projecting your insecurities onto others. It’s a gross look.
@loves2learn. I'm sorry if hard realities seem like "projection" to you.
@KrakenAttackin I’m sorry those hard realities are yours. I really am. Sounds really shitty. I hope you can work through that in a healthy way. It’s not my reality tho and not @wittymilf either.
@KrakenAttackin why would I want to have any more men, a husband is more than enough guy to look after 😂😂
@KrakenAttackin none of this law applies to marriage in NZ so none of this is relevant where I live. People just like to get married so they do people also decide they don’t want to be married sometimes and do they divorce. You don’t have to be a one sided woman hater over here people understand that actually either party in a relationship has the right to leave the relationship. Crazy dhit I know!
@KrakenAttackin me and my husband always joke about marriage 😂 so do all the married people I know. It’s only the divorced ones who seem to be all precious and sensitive
@wittymilf Your comments about your husband make it seem like you married a dullard man-child. Why would you marry such a man?
Ughhhhh @KrakenAttackin your negativity is really wearing on me. And don’t say it’s the truth because it’s not my truth.
@KrakenAttackin I married a bad boy, after multiple brain injuries I’m now married to a human who has over come way more than many ever could. He’s not an idiot he knows that we have faced a shit tonne of challenges in our life. Do we always respect everything each other... he’ll know this is real life not fantasy land.
@wittymilf I just can't stand when women openly talk shit about their husbands. It is disrespectful as hell. Men don't do this.
@KrakenAttackin you probably just dont know me. You probably just interpret my style of communication using your personality and not considering that I’m not like you. I try to understand your sensitivities, I suspect you’ve been through some things to make you who you are today. Hey guess what? Same!!
@KrakenAttackin did you even read what @wittymilf wrote? She was not talking shit at all. In fact what she wrote was a very moving account of a relationship journey. I hope you get help for this pent up anger you’re having.
@wittymilf "He ignored the fact I wanted different things", so why did you marry him?
@KrakenAttackin I married him because I loved him 🤷♀️
@wittymilf Ok that's cool.
You have a very negative outlook. True love does exist.
@lexiflexs... OK... I’m a Bastard to chicks anyway !🥴
@lexiflexs what does this have to do with true love? Love is an emotion.
@bamesjond0069 I have no emotions. 🖤
Causation or correlation?
Who's to say?
Well, not you.
Is it? https://youtu.be/zO9nUBazWEg https://youtu.be/zOP793671p0
Geez, hostile much? This is one opinion from one notable source. It's not the bible and I'm not telling you to get baptized. Question asked, answer given.
How is it even hostile to just prove a point? Wouldn't that ironically make you hostile for just calling anyone out just because you didn't like the point given?
Sure question asked, you gave an answer, but you're just getting a reply. And what's the problem?
I wasn't even necessarily indicating you. I was more referencing the "Well, not you" which seems overly hostile.
If you feel that way because it "seems" like it, im just saying. So perhaps you chill and interpret what I said better. Even if you're not referring to me, you're still being ironic.
Hope you're right
And is it even impossible to do it without marriage? I think everyone has the capability of doing it without marriage but only there are people who just likes to make marriage a big deal. It seems to me that people who think that way just don't really care so much about their partner just only when they get married.
You don't need the government involved to solidify a relationship.
Damn! The rich rappers must have it better than married men then. They swim in pussy on the regular.
@Unit1 - Of course they do. Bimbos givin' up sex for free on the assumption they can snag the celebrity for themselves. FAIL