Being fetishised for my skin colour?

[Anonymous]

I have been talking to this guy for a few days but there are a few red flags that I don’t know if I can overlook? I am a mixed raced woman, half black and half white.

1. He keeps bringing up race. For example. “You’ll be the first black girl I ever had a relationship with.”

2. “I’ve been really into Ebony porn recently”

3. He asked if there’s a colour difference between a white woman’s vagina vs a black woman’s vagina

4. ”being black I thought you’d prefer BBC.” I called him out on this immediately.

5. this one reallyy pissed me off and I feel like it’s the final straw. I said something dumb so he responded with “Have you got your blonde girl weave on.” It instantly made me uncomfortable, and I called him out on it yet again and he apologised.

6. “Can you twerk?” The dreaded question I feel most women of colour get.

other than that he seems like a really nice guy. But the whole race issue is going to give me the ick if it carries on. I don’t know if I should end our communication before it goes any further. We’re at the stages of wanting to meet.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

It seems like it to me. I’ve been in the same boat a few times.


“Is it true you guys are all hung?”
“I bet you can dance really good, you’re African American!”
“You’re probably gifted at any sport you want because of your race!”


Trust me, it’s sad but it’s reality. My advice to you is ask yourself how does it make you feel? If it’s okay with you go ahead and do your thing. If it’s upsetting then I recommend avoiding this guy.

[Anonymous]

I do the same for white girls. So I don't see the problem if white guys do it to black girls.
Or afro Europeans girls.


It's hot. Color contrast is hot. Their body are different.
He might wanna see his white cock go in you dark pussy.

I love smashing pink pussy.

Give that white boy a chance

[ushagomez]

I think you have answered your own question. It is clear that you find his comments and questions at least uncomfortable if not disrespectful. I would suggest but you wait and find someone better.

[RelevantJ]

It's why i usually cautious of people outside my race that holla at me.

Almost every time they start that shit.

[7771999]

Stay away from that bs

[RelevantJ]

@7771999 they easy to sort out. The ones who ain't fr won't take long to talk about sex, they can't help themselves. That's when I'm like movin on.

[7771999]

It's better to know what you get with your own

[RelevantJ]

@7771999 oh you talkin interracial datin. Nah I'm open to any race if they treat me right. But you entitled to date who you want.

[7771999]

Yeah, nah. I'm a nationalist I see nothing but hell in the future if we let loose so easily.

[RelevantJ]

@7771999 yup not a discussion I'm going to have. So you can do what ya like.

[7771999]

🤣🤣

[Asker]

@7771999 gross

[7771999]

Your degenerate shots don't affect me

[vald9inches]

He seems to have a strong fetish or kink for that and i can imagine it would get old really fast lmfao but yea he seems insecure and his comments are just plain wrong on the verge of being racist

[7771999]

That's how it goes. Same old exotic lust story


Interracial is unhealthy for your soul

[Ryfyle]

You answered your own question.

[SpaceGalaxy]

You are dumber than you sound for even considering this freakin racist piece of shit!
"other than that he seems like a really nice guy. " LOL LOL LOL How dumb are you, really?

[Asker]

Excuse me?