Would you mind if your male friend/boyfriend/husband was using your clothing to 'please himself'?

[orexinandosirin]

I started a thread about feet fetish on here a while back. Well the thing is, I have one but it literally fits the definition of a fetish:

a need or desire for an object, body part, or activity for sexual excitement

I'm 22 and have been totally unable to enjoy masturbation watching porn. I don't have anything moral against porn or those who watch it. In fact I'm bisexual and enjoy seeing naked guys/gals, HOWEVER it doesn't get me aroused at all. Someone suggested that I may have a low sex drive and need a higher threshold of sexual stimulation (i. e. actual contact with a woman's foot/shoes/high heels/boots) to get aroused. I got a testosterone test done and my levels are normal.

I only started masturbating when I was an adult and that was by chance. My mother invited her friend over and she brought her ballet flats. I woke up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom and saw them. I started dirty thoughts and thought about sniffing them. Did it and got really aroused but also thought about masturbating with them and getting caught which made me even more harder. Long story, short, I pulled down my pants, sat down on the floor, rubbed my penis and got an amazing feeling. Never like when I tried to masturbate with my hand to porn. After a minute I felt like I was about to scream and ejaculated all over the shoe while my legs simultaneously went weak. That was my first orgasm... lol#

Now, the problem is, consent. It obviously isn't okay (and I'm not sure even legal) but that's the only thing that gets me off. I've bought a woman's used shoe but again... it doesn't work. Much better than masturbating to porn but in no way does it get me horny. It has to come from a real woman who has worn the clothing.

I also did this as well with my aunts leather boots/jacket a year later when I went on vacation.

[SueShe]

I always had a problem with people having kinks, fetishes and fantasies because I just find it totally abnormal.

However, to each his/her own and if yours is to (mis) use other people's belongings, clothing and other private/personal things without their knowledge and approval, then I associate it with a very lewd behavior that is borderline with being criminal.

There are people that would never share their most private belongings because they touch their bodies and the thought alone that another person has manipulated his/her body to induce a few pathetic spasms would be enough for them to consider that behavior as sexual harassment and perversion.

I would personally never agree to a friend misusing my belongings for that purpose. Those clothing are personal and I would not want to have them soiled. I could never again wear that garment.

In my eyes, it is a very objectionable behavior that I could not accept in a relation.

[ImHere22]

Yea that’s weird. He needs to get his own clothing

[Avicenna]

I bet women wouldn’t like it

[Iron_Man]

Hell no

[Anonymous]

No that is too weird.