Guys do u get jealous if the ex was bigger?

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Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Not jealous, more curious. I have always been curious about the size of other men's penises, and more so if they had fucked a girl I was fucking. Some women, including women who are married, or have a steady boyfriend, will talk about the size of their husbands/boyfriend penis if I ask them.
My thoughts about it are this, you are 18, and I assume your sex partners are near that age also. At that age, guys are very insecure about their penis size, and if a girl has experience with other men, they might be intimidated to know if your ex boyfriend was hung better than them. As an example: My first really long term girlfriend started when I was about 21 or 22, and she was 18. She had just finished or dropped out of Malone College in Ohio, and one of the guys in school had fucked her at sometime, and she talked about how 'huge' his penis was. I always wondered just how much 'more' huge was, compared to my penis? I don't think it is a matter of 'jealousy' per se, more a 'competition'.
As an example, when she (the long term girlfriend,) dumped me, about six months or so later, she called me, one night after work. (I worked at Firestone Tire, and she worked at Goodrich, a bit of unimportant BS) She was not happy with the sex she was having with the guys she met there. She and I had very good sex.
I asked her point blank: "How big is his penis" ? She said: "About the same length as yours but not as thick as yours" ! I wasn't jealous, just curious to see how big a penis was she getting from this guy or guys.
Well, 'Abby08' after all of this long drawn out Blah blah blah, I don't know if this gives you any insight into one guy being 'jealous' about another guys penis. Maybe at 18, the guys is 'upset' about the 'better hung' guy, later on, not so much.

razelove · Accepted Answer

No, I'd be angry at the girl bringing it up for a passive aggressive hit to confidence and the relationship. I have no need to mention how much better, worse, or on par the sex with any woman I'm with compares to other women. That's fucked up.

You tell people what you want in bed, they tell you, you meet in the middle and with some practice and enthusiasm make things work. If you're bringing up exes, especially comparing their dick sizes, I might laugh it off the first time if we're out drunk and joking about anything that could play into it. Second time I'm bringing up girlfriends who were sweeter, treated me better, but unfortunately had to move for school, work, etc. Boy how I'd like to be with them again.

Third time, just get back with the guy, I'm done here. You're obsessing, and I don't have time to waste here for you to play with me until he's available again and you get back together.

It isn't jealousy, it's that you're undermining the relationship. Do you get jealous if his ex was hotter, tighter, more exciting? How about if he brings it up repeatedly?

EmoKate97 · Accepted Answer

I'm not a guy, but i will say it depends on how secure a guy is about his sexuality. I tend to get mixed reactions when guys find out iv been with big black guys, some guys don't care, some think its really hot, and i can tell some get really insecure but try to play it off. But the funny thing is that guys who get insecure will try hard to "match up" with the big black dudes iv been with which i find really cute and endearing, in fact in my opinion i think it tends to make sex a little better since they'll focus on other areas like kissing, cuddling, dirty talking and oral which is what i prefer anyways since dick size doesn't matter too much.

Tyme1313 · Answer

Umm, I can’t go balls deep without hurting someone. If her ex was bigger than me then I’m pretty sure THAT is the reason she isn’t with him, because I’ve had girls tell me no because of my size. I’d probably ask who he is so I could comfort the guy, poor dude probably scares all the girls off.

cheapshotbob · Answer

no because he was an ex for a reason if you was wanting bigger you would still be with him there would be no ex. that should dash a couple egos on GAG HA HA

summiter · Answer

Not at all. I still will have great orgasms with her!

Billlewis · Answer

No, it means that she knows I'm too small to properly satisfy her, and that if I want to continue serving her, I'd better get busy kissing her ass.

The_Maphio · Answer

I don't think I would. Nothing I could do about that anyway.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

Why would a current girlfriend talk about the size of her ex in the first place? As if sex is all that matters and not love or anything like that. I hardly think I'd be together with such a girl to begin with.

Ripper_E · Answer

I haven't had the problem, but if my girlfriend were to tell me that she prefers something I don't have and her ex was the best she has had, yea that would bother men. Same as if I were to tell my girlfriend that my ex's this or that is better. She would never let that go.

Jesus_is_the_guey · Answer

I wouldn’t have to worry about that haha

chriscdi · Answer

im pretty secure with my size, i wouldn't care as long as its not said repeated cause at that point she's saying on purpose to bother me

Andres77 · Answer

No... because the ex is the ex for a reason.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

No I don’t

Nobodyherebutme · Answer

If woman starts talking about her ex-boyfriend's cock, then I'm gonna throw her out, regardless of the weather outside or what time of night it is, and she can pay for a cab or fucking walk back to wherever she came from.

Iron_Man · Answer

No I’m the biggest I am an 8 inch And a half

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

Exes don’t have any business in my relationship.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Never ran into that problem. Though I wouldn’t mind if someone was bigger than me. I’d shake his hand.

ScottSummers · Answer

meh dont care about it

Bazpurum · Answer

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Mangospacho · Answer

Nah. There’s not much I can do about the size anyway. Also, if he was huge and she still broke up with him for me, then I doubt she’s going back to him.