What do you do if you were caught naked at your boyfriend’s house by his sister (he lives at his parents house but his sister came)?

[Anonymous]

Guys I might have gotten caught naked I’m scared my heart is beating so fast she broke into his room. We weren’t have sex at the moment but we were just lying there together. How do I cope with this? Is everything over? Should I just not show up again? His sister is known for being nosy and she’s the only one that saw I’m a shy girl and I am extremely embarrassed I don’t know if I should show my face again or come here again or talk to her. My boyfriend is the only man that I’ve ever had sex with I don’t want them to think that I’m a slut. I’m scared. I really care about what people think of me :( this is just our only private moment together and this happens Friday’s are our only day where we get privacy :(

[Makeushiver]

Letit drop and don't say anything or act any differently. She didn't see anything. It was stupid of her to break in and if she makes any snide remarks ask her why her mind always goes to the gutter. If you act guilty she will think she has something you have something to feel guilty about. Try to simply behave the same around her and if she says anything to a third party just act amused reply, I have no idea what she thinks she saw but she seems to always being interested in everyone else's private life. She probably has none of her own

[ZackBan]

It was bound to happen. You're fucking in his room at his parent's house you really think they don't know what you spend all that time doing up there? Just because they don't say anything so that it's not awkward for you doesn't mean they have no clue.

But since it's been 8 hours now I am curious to know who it all ended after that

[Asker]

His sister literally broke in the room which was locked. I was under the sheets and he ran naked lol to close the door as soon as she broke in. I wasn’t very excited about his sister coming because I don’t like it when people are nosy that’s just not fun. He told me that everything is okay and that she would’ve talked to him by now if she saw anything this caused me a lot of unnecessary stress though I was really worried and scared.

[Asker]

At least his parents know how to respect our privacy.

[Asker]

He told me that he would update me if anything and he doesn’t know yet if she saw or not

[Pink2000]

My boyfriends sister came in his room one time to tell me happy birthday. I was naked obviously and I was embarrassed. They’re not stupid. I sure they know something is going on in there lol. Don’t worry about it too much.

[Asker]

I’m worried that they’ll tell his mom

[Asker]

And that his family is going to think that I’m a slut

[Pink2000]

You’re not the only girl he has brought home right?

[Asker]

He’s had 3 girl friends before me he said that with his last girlfriend they didn’t really do anything in the room because his sister had a chair to watch them lol but he did have sex with all of them not in his room though he claims

[Gwenhwyfar]

Talk to his sister. Clear the air. Or at least find out if she saw anything.

[Asker]

But wouldn’t that just make things more suspicious?

[Gwenhwyfar]

His sister probably doesn’t care. Just talk to her. Be honest with her. Yes you were hanging out naked with her brother. No need to go into anatomical detail.

[loves2learn]

It’s ok. These things happen. I would have been mortified at your age.


Now, thinking back, it’s just something that happens. It’s all ok. ❤️

[OlderAndWiser]

Your boyfriend should handle this situation with his sister.

[Red_Arrow]

So now, a day later, are things smoothing over?

[ohshee]

One day you'll be able to laugh at it look you weren't doing anything bad so don't worry and he stayed in the kitchen in the living room because he's tired of being in the bedroom that he should at least come and bring you out there too

[summiter]

Pink... I bet his sister already knew you two were having sex. It is no big deal. She may be jealous!

[Jjpayne]

It sounds a little crazy but I think you should be fine. I don't think it's anything to worry about 🤔

[kkirk4442]

Yes, it's embarrassing, but it's not as bad as it seems at the moment. In time, you will will likely laugh about it. This is a time to step up to the plate, and make like it doesn't bother you nearly as much as it does. Fake it 'til you make it, will help you deal with it.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm sorry this happened, I would just pretend nothing happened and see how things go but hopefully, he lets you know how things went and if she says anything but honestly, your an adult, and the sister is adult or she a teen but just calm down and see how things pan out

[Drumlin2001]

Assuming you're both adults (your boyfriend isn't 14 is he?) I don't see the problem. Just tell the sister to mind her own

[bowenw]

His family must know you are having sex with him. They were your age once and know exactly what goes on. Hopefully your boyfriend tells his sister to stay out of his room and he gets a lock for the door going forward.

[FilmGuy93]

Seriously? Just laugh it off. You are a woman, she's a woman; there's nothing you have that she hasn't already seen.

[Iron_Man]

You should not be having sex with your boyfriend anywhere until you’re married

[Asker]

We already have promised to be with each other for life. We obviously can’t get married right now we’re not economically able to. We both don’t believe in that. I just believe that if you see an actual future with someone it’s okay to be intimate.

[Iron_Man]

I’m a Christian

[Asker]

He is too

[Iron_Man]

Good

[Wise4myage]

I wouldn’t sweat this at all, because nudity is no big deal and who cares if she saw you naked.

[Asker]

But you don’t get it I’m a girl so I’m probably going to get judged hard core

[Wise4myage]

Let them judge, you did nothing wrong.

[Caliguy88]

I don't know, my sister would be fine with it I think. If I got caught naked I’d just want to keep it between us and I’d ask if it was cool if we kept it private. I would not care about been seen really.

[Still-alive]

i think you're making this into a bigger deal than it is lol. just chat with her she probably doesn't care that much.

[jasco]

I mean it is what it is

[Twalli]

My sister has seen my girlfriend naked. It's not a huge deal. Granted all of are over 25, but still. You and your boyfriend are both legal and I bet his sister knew you were having sex with her brother. I doubt seeing you naked was a huge shock. My mom walked in in my girlfriend and I naked once. We were also jot having sex at that time and we were under the covers in my bed, but we were still naked and since our clothes were on the floor she knew. It is not a huge deal.

[OddBeMe]

Sounds like a non issue. We all have those stories. My college dorm mates caught me masturbating. Laughed it off next day.

[Djaay]

Pm me and follow...

[FireFox01]

Why do you even care? As far as I know, many women don't really care if other women see them.

Just forget it ever happened, let it go, and go on with your life.