Men are a waste of time?

In our sex obsessed and hookup culture is so hard to find someone whose serious. do any men want a genuine connection or do they just want sex? cause I don't even know anymore.
men just wanna follow half naked girls online, and when you call them out on it it's like you are taking oxygen from them. It's fucked up we as a society had resorted to this. I've seen TONS and TONS of videos about this. I've tried dating apps, I've tried going out. But men do this and act like it's perfectly okay. I'm done. This is why, have fun. I hope you ladies are able to find someone who loves you.

it's sad.

oh well I'll just talk to my 60 year old men.

If you are just gonna comment how shitty you have it then shut the fuck up. you don't know what women go through. I'm sick of it. this is why nobody wants to get married anymore. But cool have fun with your only fans and your digital girlfriends. I'm out 👍I saw this video of this old man in the gym staring at this girl lifting weights and she got it all on recording. he was old and was married.


I'm fucking sick, why would I wanna be with a man who is gonna do this? lmao fucking sick.

I fucking give up on men y'all are disgusting. a woman should be able to wear what the fuck she wants. Am I going crazy? Or is this how men are now?
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  • Well you can't blame these young growing up men in general... cause they are being blasted by porn.

    And you are right, most men in your age prolly are haunted by that stigma:

    following sexy ladies on insta, watching porn, always seem to want sex, etc etc.

    When I was younger I wasn't any different in the way of seeking pleasure and visually stimulation.

    Its something you eventually mature out of or not.

    The thing is that real things, moments, emotions
    which you can feel, taste, see, touch, etc are the ones that create memories for life.

    To make my point:

    The time when I discovered porn on the Internet (about 11 years old or so, the time when it just started growing and being available more and more)
    was the time I masturbated every day to porn.

    In the 20s it was sth that wasn't happening on a daily basis anymore. Instead I was creating folders and organzing by name what I downloaded or searched (porn).

    And at my late 20s, I finally started realizing what time waste this is and what wrong impression it gave me about women in general... besides the fact that my past girlfriends starting telling that they feel bad about me watching porn or keeping it organized on my pc...

    Not all men nor women are same. If you generalize your experience and place it on all men... then let it be so. Just find mature people. There are many.

    Message me if you want to evaluate further

Most Helpful Guy

  • I hear what your saying and I agree 100% that's why you see so many dick questions on here from guys they don't understand it's also how you treat a woman in every manner most guys think it's all about them and they are king and they are the ruler they are the voice but I got news they are bullshit and bullshit his bullshit and they cry and whine and wonder why we can't get any girls or the girl doesn't like them well first of all they don't know how to treat a girl you don't know how to respect a girl and they think it's all about them I say good luck

Most Helpful Girls

  • Man are not a waste of time. Often when we date we find the same type of person over and over again. Maybe you need to go for someone opposite of what you have dated in the past. Also talking about sex is a great way to figure out how a guy thinks about life if it's very important or not, if it's always on their mind or not, if they've been around the block or not. Maybe you need to communicate more to men to find a better fit for you. Dating is weeding out the good n bad apples. Be patient.

  • That is why you should date virgins with self control instead of damaged goods. Just test them by asking them if they want sex on first day, if they say yes, ghost them. This helps you to know whether a guy is easy hoe or not

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  • I can be disgusting, sometimes I mix the food on my plate... gross...

  • There are guys out there that are just looking for sex... not all though but I don’t think that’s your problem. To be honest I think your problem is you... you need to take a look at the post you just wrote and take a look inside yourself... you’re constantly having this problems with all these guys over and over again. And of course you assume it must be all the guys... not you... I don’t need this as an insult in anyway but take some time and look inside

  • These are the men YOU talk to and the stereotypes YOU have about men YOU are interested in.

    There's only one common denominator.

    YOU!

  • Women<porn. Be mad.

  • You seem quite angry today

  • I mean what else you gonna do? Plant a garden? Get buff? Go to school? Have a career? Travel the world?

    It's your time, you decide how you wanna waste it. Or what is that supposed to be our problem now? If you don't want men don't have men. If you want good men yeah, they're hard to find now. It's debatable if they were ever very common. I'm not gonna pretend I'm one of them. I don't know what you want from me you can do whatever you want, so go do that.

  • nobody forces you to take part in hookup culture. it's hard for all of us to find decent partners, not just for you or "for women".

  • Here's the thing. What do you bring to the table as a woman? What qualities do you offer to a good man that would make him want more than sex from you? Do you understand what qualities good men want in a woman, and do you actually have those qualities?

  • Makes me glad to be and stay single. This is an area , of many , where the genders are mismatched and not compatible , men , esp in the younger age groups , are usually cursed with sex drives many orders of magnitude higher than his female counterparts. This is due to testosterone levels and brain wiring.

  • Does giving up on men mean you're going to become a lesbian, or just give up on sex altogether and stay single the rest of your life? Maybe adopt kids? Tell us more.

    • Hmmm... she never replied.

  • A lot of women are too.

  • I don't know i have has relationships start with a hookup. I think the problem is many guys are brainwashed into thinking a girls value is whether or not she is a virgin

  • A real connection with love making

  • If you want a guy that won't look at other girls I know they type of guys you're looking for. They're blind. If you want a guy that will look at other girls, but not cheat on you then you open a lot of doors.

  • it seems you got too attached to someone and ended up being hurt
    well , we people live by learning from mistake , never get too attached to other people again , ever

  • Women are a waste of time.. MGTOW

  • Those are the men that you talk to. Lol there's plenty of guys that do especially in the country

  • Hook up culture exists because women perpetuate it. Stop having fuck buddies and one night stands and make it clear to men that you're not going to open your legs after a few drinks.

    Men only engage in hook ups because women are allowing it.

    I'm one of those who wants a genuine relationship but women don't find me attractive so I just stay home and play video games

  • There are serious men out there

  • Never complain

    It just makes you look like you have no life

    Anyway..

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