Is having feelings for elder guys wrong?

Question

I mean i like guys around 30 to 40 who are almost 15 years older than me

Aakash_Hangargi · Accepted Answer

It's a phase so have control and don't fall for it soon you will realise sticking in your age group like max 5 years diff is good.

I know a friend who shared her experience even she used to like older guys and was in relationship with 30 year old and now she doesn't like to be with older guys.

My suggestion would be keep this to yourself sand don't act on your feelings untill 18 or more when you could understand life as an individual and be self dependent life will teach you many things

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

Usually women prefer relationships with men who are older, and 15 years is not bad for women who are at least in their mid twenties. But that kind of age difference is bad for girls as young as yourself. And it may be illegal for some relationships depending on your exact age. You need to stick with guys much closer to your age until you are older and not as likely to be misdirected by experienced men.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

At your age that's too much of an age difference.  You should stick with people in your age group for now.

blackdahlia001 · Accepted Answer

its absolutely not wrong. you can love anyone

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Feeling no, doing yes.

the main thing is making sure others don’t take advantage of those feelings.

as a young teen I had feelings for anything with boobs that even looked at me.

if you put boobs on an apple Pie I would have fell in love,

summiter · Answer

It is ok to have feelings... just do not act on them. Save your body for someone near your age.

Wowie101 · Answer

ELDER GUYS? Jesus we’re not that old!!!

slatyb · Answer

Your feelings are your feelings. There are advantages and disadvantages of having an older partner. If you want to date older men you will have to let them know you are interested. Most men that age won't hit on very young women. The ones that do are mostly bad news.

scuff1986 · Answer

Nothing wrong with having those feelings, just some people may be against the age gap

chriscdi · Answer

its not wrong just can be looked as very odd from certain people

Ironic_Method · Answer

It's natural to have those feelings. Even as someone who likes age gaps you might be a bit too young and there are plenty who would take advantage.

Wise4myage · Answer

It is in this instance because you are underage. Just wait till you turn 18 to pursue older men.

clampfan101 · Answer

I wouldn’t go beyond 10y difference.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Nothing is wrong with having such feelings, in and of themselves; but at your age it's best not to act on them, at least for the safety of the guy.

vald9inches · Answer

I think it just depends on the society you live in and what is socially acceptable. Ny parents are 15 years apart and they are still together now. Also lots of girls love or are attracted to older men so it's definitely not unusual 😊

crmoore · Answer

Not at all

jahaims · Answer

As long as you don't act on it until you are an adult that is your sexual preference

Bang5luts · Answer

If you are of legal age, then you are making an adult choice. Therefore, it isn't wrong. Well, unless it doesn't work out. Then you could say it wasn't right.