What's the line between bi-curious and bi-sexual?

I am either bi-curious or bi-sexual, luckily I have a best friend who's confused about her sexuality too so we both decided to see where our "relationship" will go.
It turned out that we do like to kiss and cuddle a lot but we don't want to have actual sex together. We just want to keep it soft and romantic and we like to stay far away from lust. We just want to be in love, that is, together.

Would you people on here consider me bi-curious or bi-sexual?
One beautiful and random pic of both of us
One beautiful and random pic of both of us
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  • if you don't go to lesbain bars your bi-curious... but you'd also consider it... i'm not bi sexual because i never went to a lesbain bar... but i did have sex with 2 women lifetime a long time inbetween... both certain things took place for sex to happen and didn't expect it neither time... both were many times not just once... there's nothing wrong with having sex with another woman per se but in the end you only get to choose one... in theory someone out there can swing both i'm sure.

  • Someone who is b-curious could be bi-sexual. However, if a girl isn't bi-sexual but is bi-curious she may be sexually interested in women to some degree, but not near to how much she's into men. She might enjoy fooling around with a girl here or there when she's single, but when it comes to getting serious in finding a partner she's just going to want to be with a man.

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  • If neither are you are asexual then it just sounds like a romantic friendship. You are friends who like to do everything except sex.

    It's absolutely fine, just use caution if one of you do decide to start dating someone else. A lot of emotions build up and for all intents and purposes it can feel like a relationship and a betrayal of that relationship if another person is involved.

  • I’m not sure you need a label. I think you are just too wonderful friends enjoying each other’s company with some lovely physical affection. You have a lovely relationship.

  • Long term doing it verses short term.

  • Only you can define what it is "curious or sexual" I think it is good that you have found someone you are comfortable with. Have you ever had boyfriends or sex?

  • liquid exchange

  • thinking about it and doing it

  • From the information you provided, you're a lesbian.

  • Sexuality is like a spectrum. One isn't necessarily in one spot.
    A person can be bisexual and be attracted equally to both men and women. No doubts whatsoever.
    A person can be straight or gay, and also lean the other way. If Straight was 0 and Gay was 10 and bi was 5, a person could be 1-4 or 6-9

  • if your holding back i d say your bi if you don t turn each other on then your straight you ve gone by the curious part already

  • You're bi curious now until it get physical.

  • You're both bi curious and just like each others company. But I could see that changing in an instant.

  • Accepting your sexuality, it goes from curious to sexual

  • Bisexual is where you feel romantic attraction to people of each gender. Bicurious is probably where you see people of your gender as attractive, but don't really feel a spark, but you think you might if you started dating.

  • Bi curious is just in your brain.
    Tossing it around with thought.

    Bi sexual- is anything more...
    But you need to like to have sex with guys too.

  • The repetition... more than a try

    • lol we've been in this weird relationship since the lockdowns were impose. Almost a year now.

    • I think you're past curiousity lol

  • Same thing

  • in my opinion, there is no "bi"

    The only way there is "bi"... is, if you know you want to not only have sex with both genders... but, date, and MARRY both

    Since gay marriage, is now legal

  • doing the deed

  • Bi sexuality is a result of bi curiosity.

  • So hot... You are perfect , do what feels right , and if y'all like men let me join the party ,. I don't know what that's called. Bi-Romantical maybe lol I don't know if that's a real term , but seems fitting.. either way it's beautiful...

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