What do you do to dominate your guy?

[lucky_guy1234]

[IronLady6354]

1. Initiate the sex (especially when he's not expecting it). This is actually very important as it sets the stage for the fact you're dominating him.
2. Speak to him in a very dominant "in charge" voice. Also make sure to make sexy sounds when he does things you like. Be flirty and tell him how sexy he is. However, always have an air of control and domination.
3. Give him orders/commands when you have sex. For example, if you want him to go down on you order him to do so and then use your hands on his head to guide it to exactly where you want him to focus on. Here are a few examples of commands you could also use
--"You’re going to taste me" (then physically push his head down so that he starts eating you out).
--"You don’t get to cum until I say so, ok?"
--"You’re not allowed to orgasm until I cum at least twice."
4. Use nicknames to enforce roles you and he want to take/that help you get in the right headspace. For example, when I dominate my husband sexually I often make him call me either "ma'am" or "mommy" (same concept as woman calling the man 'daddy')
5. Make sure to have a safe word if you're going to go really rough. I know I said things like 'boss him around' and 'make him do xyz', but it's all under the assumption that you're both enjoying it. Make sure to have a safe word in case you or he needs to let the other person know you're not enjoying yourself/are in pain/are uncomfortable.
Also, preferably do it somewhere when you can be loud. My husband and I don't really get the full effect of me dominating in bed unless we're not in the same building as our kids (which allows us to actually be loud)

[Anonymous]

All I have to do is get on top and that's it

[lucky_guy1234]

You pin him down? I love that

[Opinion Owner]

At my height and weight I can't pin nobody down but I don't have to When I get on top he's keeping his hands near his body so I can do anything I want We both know it's just a love game, I like to keep it vanilla and is so much fun 😍

[lucky_guy1234]

So you sit high on his chest?

[Opinion Owner]

Eh well depending on my mood. Sometimes I ride his d other times I place it on his mouth 🤭

[lucky_guy1234]

Ah got you. That’s hot lol