Does it look bad if I'm constantly surrounded by guys at school?

At school I have 4 guy friends and they're very close to me (like quite close) and they've grabbed my hand, hugged me, patted my head, squished my cheeks, complemented by body, picked me up, fiddle with my hair, made kinky jokes and heck I've even been kissed on the forehead by one of my guy friends. sometimes I feel like I'm a pimp
Does it look bad if Im constantly surrounded by guys at school?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think one of two things, depending on the chemistry between the lady and her male friends.
    Either I'm going to make a bunch of orbiter boys angry by hitting on the girl, which is a win for me.
    Or, she may actually be giving to everyone... but that's still a win for me.

    There is also a third assessment, where I believe the girl may simply be quite masculine in her interests, values and behaviors so much so that she gets along well with men.
    This is the most positive interpretation on my side, but it is also the most uncommon, I see it more often with older women and in academic/professional circles (like those bookish/nerdy/dorky chicks in college).
    Probably wouldn't jump to that conclusion looking at a younger woman.

  • Some will think bad about it for sure, but that's about them and not you.

    This is something common to see at schools, so most people will just see it and won't care that much.

    Some people will think bad of you no matter what you do, that's just what some people do but again... it's more about them than you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Not really and who cares if it does. Most of my friends are guys.

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  • Will it look bad to who?

    • peeps in my school

    • If you hang out exclusively with guys, SOME people may assume that you are either involved with each of them or you have a high need for attention. If you hang out exclusively with girls, they may assume that you are "closer" than you should be with the girls. Many people feel happier when they have a balance of male and female friends. Do you have female friends?

  • Nope.

  • There is nothing wrong with some good friends of the opposite sex. Have you been involved sexually with any of them? Do you want to be?

    • hell no

  • You are. If you'd let them, they would do you too.

  • It'd be intimidating as hell to any guy outside the group who's into you. On the plus side that will keep creeps away, but it might be difficult to find dates unless you make the move. Unless none of that botheres you in which case you're fine

  • Seems normal to me.

  • You go girl!! 😜

  • I think you should care how other people would find it. The people who want to appreciate you would do it anyways and the people who have find negatives would always no matter how good you are. I would just say focus on yourself.
    And if you are comfortable your guy friends hugging you then hug them.
    I would still suggest you to be cautious coz they might have evil intentions.

    • *NOT

  • It would be intimidating to me if I had a crush on you

  • Its very much normal coz you know their intentions are bad by their behavior so you shouldn't care about others

  • It looks bad for potential crushes 🤣

    • I doubt anyone out of my friend group will ever crush on me 😅

    • No. But imagine being the guy outside of your friend group. You look scary af to them

    • tbh I thought it would make me seem like a hoe

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  • No... only to other bitches and you know how caty and fucked up girls can be...

  • I had girls around me all the time in school and I wouldn't say so

  • lol calm down
    I had a bunch of girls surrounding me before
    I got cocky it went to my head
    do not fall for it

    stay humble trust me

  • hmmm interesting

  • i think you are heading to something really bad (gang rape)