It sounds silly, but sometimes scheduling can help. If you know when it will happen, you can look forward to it and get excited for it, Even if you're not really in the mood when you first get there. Sometimes you don't want to have sex until after you start. A lot of married friends of mine do it this way, they have a date night once or twice a week, where they set aside time for a little romance and foreplay and sex.
Other than that, if not on birth control talk to your doctor about going on birth control because it can help regulate your hormones and give you a more consistent sex drive. It might not be more, but it will be more regular.
Other than that... More foreplay, longer foreplay throughout the day, like more flirting and little bits of romance parsed throughout here and there to kind of help build you up to the event later in the day. Also good old-fashioned whiskey, that's how I got conceived
the most important factor in your sex drive is "testosterone". you increase your testosterone levels by working out. so working out more = higher sex drive.
How much more testosterone do I need I'm already told that I have more testosterone than normal for a girl
well i'm not a doctor xD and even if i wasn't, i couldn't tell you without looking at your hormone levels. i can just know how that generally works. i only have a fundamental and rudimentary understanding. if it doesn't work for you, you should probably ask an expert. i'm not one. i mean working out doesn't hurt you generally speaking xD so might as well do that anyway, if you're not already doing it.
I don't really have time for a workout routine I'm spead thin than your first layer of skin. I work have a mentally abusive mom I have to deal with 15 Chickens 3 baby goats that need bottle fed every 4 hours. Trying to finish relocating the shop so I can actually continue running the tiny business. Taking care of the garden along with taking my grandma ma to her appointments for cancer and trying to keep my relationship with my fiance together I don't think I have the energy to work out even if I had time
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It can be normal for sexual desire to change a bit. Does masturbation help during the "slow" times?
Seems more of a hormonal issue, to be honest.
Else it could be you're bi. bi-polar that is.
It's the hormones. Not much you can do besides eat right and exercise, take really good care of yourself. The pill can really screw with it.
Healthy diet and exercise
Are u on birth control?
Not currently no why
That can have an affect on ur sex drive.
Have better sex. That's most likely the problem
Stop consuming processed foods
Stop drinking
Get off the drugs
Um I didn't do the bottom two ta start alcohol taste like shit so I don't drink it and never tried drugs or smoking
Ok great... you're good to go then...😒
fast and drink water only
it will increase your sex drive
3 days should be enough
dieting can reduce your sex drive. So can lack of sleep
Try some moderate exercise too
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