Any tips for the first time having sex?

[Anonymous]

Today is my first time having sex with this guy and its also his first time as well. Any advice. I feel nervous.

[summiter]

Have fun... just get naked for a while, explore each others bodies, plan on and use birth control so it is one less thing to worry about. You probably will not orgasm your first time so maybe he can give you an orgasm via oral first!

Use a lot of foreplay and after he enters you just be still for a bit... so your body can get use to a penis inside it. Don't let him just start jackhammering away. If it is his first time he may orgasm pretty quickly. Have fun, enjoy the moment and take it slow.

[silently76]

Don’t be in a hurry to have sex. Kiss, take some of each other’s clothes off, kiss more, don’t be in a rush - and if you feel nervous at any point, just stick to kissing, don’t take any more clothes off, and don’t move on from there unless and until you feel more confident. And don’t be afraid to tell him if you’re feeling nervous or want to stop or slow down or if you need more time.

Oh and remember this: just by being there and wanting to make out with him, you’re making him happy beyond his wildest dreams. If he’s into you, you don’t have to do anything in particular to please him.

[Anonymous]

Let him eat your pussy out, lick it make sure it's relaxed and wettt. Suck his dick before sex too. Let him pull out before he cums. Don't be a sissy, take it like a woman, you want it.

[SunnySonia]

Hoping you're already done now.. how was it? 😉

Why don't you advise others upon your question now? 🤔

[purplepoppy]

Practice with an experienced guy first.

[abc3643]

There is a very good chance that you will be disappointed. That's OK. It will get better.

My first time was also the girl's first time.
I was so nervous, that I could not get a very hard erection and so it wasn't good for either of us.
However, the second time... it was much better because the nerves from fear of the unknown were gone - just replaced slightly with the fear of being caught.

[kkirk4442]

Take your time, have plenty of lubricant, find a very comfortable place where you will not be disturbed, understand that there may be some pain. Sometimes, due to nervousness and lack of experience, he may not get all the way in the first time (s). Or he may just slide in, like he's done it a hundred times before. Everyone has their own unique experience, and let yours happen.

[scott04sa22]

If you're avoiding pregnancy. You have two options stick it in the mouth or stick it in the butt

[Asker]

I used a condom

[scott04sa22]

😳👍

[Asker]

I took it all in different positions haha

[scott04sa22]

...😳👍

[scott04sa22]

😳 Go Got some after sex foods.

[Wise4myage]

Try to relax and enjoy the experience, and don't have any expectations.

[msc545]

Relax, and enjoy it!

[EaterPeter]

Lube, condom, foreplay, no or very limited drinking. Mouth freshener, shaving, Shower

[Seppel]

Relax

[Anonymous]

Try to relax. If something "awkward" happens, laugh it off. Communicate. Being it's his first time, not only with someone new, but sex as well, he's probably going to be super excited and orgasm quickly. He's going to be self conscious about that. Don't let the sex stop. Say "that's ok" and keep going. You guys can keep making out, he can give you oral maybe, things like that until he gets hard again, which won't likely take long lol, and then you can go for round 2

[Opinion Owner]

Oh and for you, make sure you do lots of foreplay and you are good and wet before he enters you. Hopefully he cares about you and he needs to take it slow being your first time. Otherwise it could be painful for you if he doesn't or you're not fully aroused.