Have you had an argument over lack if foreplay with a girl during sex?

My man is very good in bed but half the time he skips foreplay with me or just gives a quick clit click or two and gets straight to sex. I always tell him I need more to get aroused and he then does give me more. The other day I was over telling him over again so I tried sex and in middle of it I said I'm just not aroused and turned on, because no foreplay. He stopped and layed there and went soft instead of giving me some attention. We had arguments then he later gave me foreplay but couldn't get hard because of the argument. So I said I NEED SEX, I LOVE SEX. I had another argument because now he actually gave me attention I was wanting sex but he didn't. Has anyone had this and know what to do? There's only so many times over a year I can say same thing, all I want basic attention like I give him each time- even 5min before sex. I'm annoyed now.
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The other thing is he says "well the other day we had sex for 1 hr. What more do u want?" Like an hr is enough for the next week. I'd say he also has low libido. I can have hours of sex. One guy I had it 5 hrs! Only had 30min break. How can you complain about 60min of good sex?
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  • Shit like this bothers. There's so many guys out there, that would do everything they could to please their girl to read stuff like this about people that don't care about pleasuring their girlfriend. Girls, find someone that want to do that for you. Find someone that would be honored to. Not talking to the question asker spesifically, but everyone here.
    Maybe they don't realize that it's missing, so make sure to make this clear to them, but then if they're not interested, it's time to move on.

    • Yes we'll I have high sex drive and I only been with him 11 months, already he's getting lazy and I'm already wanting a hot guy to just take me, push me, throw me on the bed, pleasure me, then fuck me for hours... I'm already frustrated. He was like this and it stopped about 6 months into it

    • So you're sure the knows about the problem at hand?

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  • I never get this. Am I the only one that does 69 as foreplay? We both get the other one ready at the same time. Since she's on top, she decides when we're going to have sex because she gets off because we prefer me on top for sex, but her in top for foreplay.

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  • That's never been an issue with me, as I usually give plenty of foreplay, and when we've had a quickie, it's been mutually accepted as such.

  • Never had an argument over it, no. I tend to have lots of communication in my relationships, though.

  • Argument no. Talked about yeah. Wife doesn't like foreplay but I do

    • I had this with an ex only caz he gave me too much. A good balance us good. Just 5-10 min is all I like lol

    • She doesn't like any foreplay.

    • Does she have orgasms or prefer pashing?

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  • Nope can't say that I have ever had that as a topic of an argument.☯️

  • I love foreplay I don’t know why some men skip it

  • That means you got that good good!😂

  • Id eat u for hours