Ladies, how do you know when a guy only wants you for sex?

I’m working on a new blog post idea. I’ve been off the market for many years, so I want to know from ladies still in the dating scene:

What are signs you notice when a guy only wants to hook up and has no intentions on nurturing a relationship with you?
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Thanks for your input. I can see how it would be really obvious these days. I think I might go with a Mother’s Day post instead.
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Superb Opinion

  • Oh, that's very easy. What many women do not get is that if it is premarital sex he wants sex period. it is not about just only. This is how so many women end up with men who used them for sex for years if not a pump and dump. The things I know many will disagree yet I made it okay single and not with those problems. So I say it is women lacking wisdom and the confidence to avoid such men but many who would love them right will find them boring because the men are not putting out sex when the women think they should either.

    • SO ACCURATE. Sex before marriage is a total red flag.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It’s really obvious. They will mention sex within the first week of talking to them lol. They show no interest in getting to know you as a person - their conversation is strictly about physical. Again, it’s usually really obvious.

    • I agree, if that's all I was really looking for, then that's what I'd be going for and I'd be shot down if you're not looking for a hook up too in the near future.

    • :) :)

    • @MzAsh I think you should still go ahead with the post, a lot of women are genuinely clueless and end up sleeping with the guy again and again just to get their hearts broken

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's where their interests are. You should know pretty quickly if they want sex. Likely, in the first week. Someone that really likes you will stay for a while and stay for you. You might kiss or make out but, if you make the Stronger intimacy take place later in the relationship, then you can weed it out. Guys that want it, usually are not that patient.

  • Taking your time in developing a relationship is the most reliable way to know what a guys purposes are.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • He talks about it often.

  • 99.5% of men will take sex if a woman is making it available. Men like to put women into categories and boxes.

    You do something a trashy woman did in the past , he will now have this protocol with you even if you are undeserving.

    You have to set your standards, respect and enforce your boundaries and clearly know and state what you want.

    Upfront.

    Disregard all of these ridiculous opinions from men who say that they won't get serious with a woman who doesn't put out.

    You are instantly devalued in proportion to the amount of sexual access you grant a man.

    Even being in your guard, there are more and more snakes and wolves who are willing to outright deceive you and split once the con has worked.

    It's rough out here.

  • Lines or actions I could help with this a lot mz

  • Most men are quite open about it

    • I agree. usually working towards it from day one, and even ready for it on 1st date.

  • When thats all he talks about

  • your problem is assuming there are women on GaG lol

  • I'm just here to see the responses.

  • All men want in a relationship with a woman is sex. Sadly

  • If you can answer Yes to two or more of these questions then he only wants you for sex

    1. Is he a Cis Gendered Male
    2. Is he alive and breathing
    3. Are there Seven days in the week